Denial with no cage

This would be impossible for me, but lucky for me my madam insists on a cage at all times, she loves the fact I am restricted and denied. Good luck on your journey.

 

I recently went 208 days (easy to remember as it's th states area code) without a device. I am now started down the path of another denial path at Mistress' desires. All of the time has been without a device.
During those 207 days, there were only ruined orgasms (2 I think) and milkings, again 2 .
What I kept in mind was those orgasms are not mine. They now belong to her. I was allowed to touch and play with her property. But the last several days/weeks I was not allowed that privalage.
I am now started down the next time of no release. And here is the kicker. We have ordered a Mature Metal Queens Keep. I have asked to not be let known when it arrives. And I have not been told if I'll get a release before it is put into action.
But back to the question. It is no longer your release/pleasure. Those moments are the right of your Mistress. The orgasms are hers, not yours.
Remember the old saying, Be Careful What You Wish For, it just may come true.

 

Mrs Edge once made me go 15 months cage less, no waking, no orgasms.

It was fun at first, but after six months or so, it wasn't as exciting as she'd thought. We both agreed that caged is a much better option because it puts all the control in her hands. So to speak.

 

I went four months without a cage. It was hugely difficult to begin with as I was forbidden from even touching my cock by my Mistress but frequently did so by accident when dozing. Touching incurred financial penalties and physical punishments which soon modified my behaviour. However my cruel and cunning Mistress did all she could to make me aroused so that I couldn't resist touching and as her slave I had to confess meaning fines and punishments. I managed for as long as four months without release though I would like to try a cage at some point.

 

I wouldn’t want to do it if it wasn’t for being actually locked up. If my wife actually felt strong enough to want me to abstain then I would have to meet her in the middle with her having the key.
I’m wearing my modified Chinese belt at the moment and love to slide my hand down and feel the hard, unyielding smooth bulge that stops me touching.

 

My Love instructs me to wear my cage only during daytime. During the night, my Love requires unrestricted access to her property. Of course I am strictly forbidden to do anything myself. Tease, denial and ruining are the only pleasure that I'am allowed to, once initiated by her. During night time, sometimes I found it very difficult to behave. In particular in the morning and when I wake up. However, I have to follow her rules without discussion and so I have to behave, follow and obey even without wearing the cage all the time...

 

We started without a cage. December 12th 2013 I decided to cease masturbation. I made it 3 months and 2 days until I stroked myself again on March 14th. No cage. I was committing myself to daily submission to my wife. I wooed her. I brought her coffee every morning with a kiss. It turned into a daily cuddling. But without me expecting sex either. It worked out.

I made it until April 1st 2014 until I gave myself an edge. We were planning me to get pierced that month, and I got to play with sounds to get comfortable with something in my urethra.

I didn’t have an orgasm by my hand until 160 days after Dec 12 2013 on May 21st 2014. I had been pierced and healing. She encouraged me to try my hand at stroking myself to show her how much force and manipulation my new pierced cock could take. She had been giving me ruined orgasms by stroking my lower half. She wanted to see me.

All without a cage.
In June (I think) I contacted Mark about his Contender prototype.

It was only after more than five months of cage free orgasm denial and a half year of submission did I finally get caged. Later that year I used my piercing for security.

You can do this without a cage. It just takes a lot of willpower.

ok. So what helped me?
I poured my energy into making her smile. I tried to simmer down and put a lid on my libido in the mornings. I focused on being sweet and friendly and helpful. I did chores without being asked or expecting a reward. I actually submitted to her.

I also wrote a journal. Writing out how I felt when I was horny helped distract my hands It also made me cherish feeling turned on and in orgasm denial. My writing was so much more vibrant after denial than after an Orgasm. Orgasms made me feel dumb and mind wiped. Orgasms never could be written about. Tease and denial was.

I would review my mornings of her teasing and cuddling and how I felt and it would reinforce my desire to be kept wanting and hungry for her.

Embracing the ache. Cherishing the ardor. Setting aside “getting off” and focusing in being enthralled and enraptured. It all helped.

It’s difficult. The cage is my safe place that helps me stay good.

But I think a foundation of no touching rule and a desire to submit to her, with masturbation and orgasm denial being primary over being Locked in a cage... it all makes chastity better.

 

I went for a number of years without being caged. At the end, I went 3 years without an orgasm, only allowed ruined orgasms while wearing a KTB. Not so easy, of course, but my devotion to Mistress fueled my willpower.

Now, she's decided I'll be locked for some time. She didn't tell me why, and it is not my place to ask.

 

My lovely sub has trouble finding a device that fits, and custom ones are hard to order where we live. So for now my sub is in honor chastity and has been since we started. We have tried a few cages but none of them fit while allowing circulation to remain in my sub's genitals. As I am not into them falling off him, I have decided to not use a cage.

My sub is very faithful, and I know he keeps his word. If only because the personality change when he has cum is undeniable, so he can't lie to me about whether he played with himself.

It does make me feel very loved and exalted to know that even though he CAN touch himself, he chooses not to every day. That's true love right there

 

I think I could do this, but I would probably loose it if I was denied and ignored...Id have to fess up if asked, with the cage though, it takes a lot more effort to cheat, with the belt I just cant.

I think I prefer to not be tempted. Mistress prefers me to be caged(or belted) because she knows what I am like and who I am, that said if asked directly I cant lie and I would pay for it.

Since we introduced regular discipline with the paddle I am a lot less likely to test her limits.

I am fascinated with that kind of discipline, I really don't like it but it is also such a release.

To be honest id rather not be tempted and risk getting the paddle lol

Part of being caged though is not being able to achieve an erection...you can have a lot of fun without cumming...taking that away as well...well its just submissive.

 

I am teased and denied without a cage, and I am allowed to masturbate, but never allowed to cum. I have had an accident and a ruined orgasm during a tease session, but never from masturbation. I just know how to control it when I masturbate.

 

I’ve been chaste to my partner for over 8 months now, without cages. No orgasms of any kind (not even ruins), and she has indicated she’d be disappointed even if I had one during sleep. Thankfully, it has been successful so far (I even remember and stick to the rules in sex dreams).

We treat my cock as her exclusive property, there for her only. As such I’m not allowed to get pleasure from it, or touch it in a sexual way. Sometimes she’d let me masturbate (but with a strict time limit of 5-10minutes), though it’s been happening much less recently. It’s entirely honour based, but I’ve put myself into a strict “circumventing would be cheating, and would also just spoil the experience for both of us” frame of mind.

It has been tough for the first couple of months, but then got progressively easier. Biggest help has been concentrating on her pleasure and channeling hornyness into giving her the best possible time. Having severely restricted masturbation opportunities (along with a complete ban on porn for a few weeks) also made the early period easier. We use numbing gel (inside a condom) to make sex possible, so I still get to experience her orgasms without much worry about losing it by accident. Knowing that misbehaving would likely disrupt the emotional rush of the dynamic keeps me extremely good now

 

115 days.

It's up and down. You go days, even weeks without a problem and you think you've cracked it. Then, out of nowhere, the urges come back. Then it calms down again. Good luck

 

I've tried it, but I honestly lack the willpower to not touch myself when uncaged.

 

I am right now, and it’s difficult after a period of being caged. We’re letting a cut heal and leaving the cage off for at least a month to make sure it’s completely healed. In the meantime, my Wife has me wearing silky panties all the time, so I’m stimulated every minute, it’s almost unbearable.

 

We have recently embraced the honour method. We have tried cages for many years employing all the advice from sites like this one. We found there were problems with everything we tried. I was pierced but that too became very uncomfortable with long term use. It was quite easy to reach orgasm in a cage anyway. Some have suggested that the cage is a symbol like a wedding ring but why put up with the discomfort and distraction of the cage. Finally all the cages have ended up in the tip. I now use my piercing for a small comfortable captive ring as my chastity symbol and a reminder that if I were to play with myself I would be cheating. It is no longer about me and my cage and my wife gets more attention. The honour method is woking much better than expected. We will return to a chastity device when someone invents one that actually works.

 

My wife very often checks my reaction times and swelling of the scrotum and has enough experience to understand if I wanked or not: I am not saying that this is a 100% accurate method but I assure you that 98% takes it. And I am perfectly aware that it's better for me that she doesn't catch me at fault: the last time she detected she left me 2 weeks without allowing me to help her in her preparations for the meetings with her bull (that's so exciting) and when she came home afterwards told me nothing. It was horrible.

 

My wife likes to reclaim me with a brief piv when she returns from her bull. If I found it difficult to get it up she would be very suspicious. Anyway I would probably fess up if I had wanked as that is my nature. Of course a late admission or being otherwise caught out would result in the worst punishment. A late admission would see me cop many times the strokes of the cane I wold get for an unprompted confession. I have been good so far and neither has happened yet. My regular maintenance canings which I can just take are keeping me in check. I hope she does not read your punishment because not hearing the details of her encounters would really be horrible as you say.

 

For some (like me) the cage is part of the fantasy and a form of everyday bondage. Some people like to wear bondage rope and other gear under their clothes, I respond the feeling and constant reminder of the cage.

 

I would be miserable if I was denied without wearing a cage

 

My wife noticed that I was playing with penis in the bed when she was praying before going to sleep. She got upset and told me not touch myself anymore. I told her that I wish to have the help with that, it is a bad habit to touch myself many times a day, even during work etc. This was about 5 months ago, and I have not touched myself only handful of times, and never masturbated without her permission. Of course I was myself in shower etc., but do not pleasure myself on purpose.

I wish to have cage, but none of them were possible so far for me because of various medical reasons, or they were just too uncomfortable. I am still looking, but meanwhile I am enjoying the fact that I am controlling myself for her.

I have realized, that if I want her to be in control and be more dominant, I need to be more submissive. So I am really trying hard to follow her commands, remind her that I am following them, and she enjoys that. She than becomes more secure and playful with me, and sometimes out of nowhere she states the obvious -> what she expects from me, or what she wants me to do. Win win.

I actually like when I am horny. I even told her I prefer not to have orgasm, and be frustrated and turned on by her, and be sticky and cuddly with her and ask for sex. She likes that too, but she noticed that when I go long without orgasm, I don't last as long during PIV, so she gives me orgasm about very three weeks. I told her that I don't want orgasm, and will just leave it up to her if she wants I have it.

 

I'm currently on day 20 of denial with no cage whilst my wife recovers from surgery. There will be a special treat if I last 5 weeks. I found the horny-ness peaked around around 12-14 days. Self control is required though!

 

As part of Mistress feminizing me, She had me do chastity on the honor system. This lasted for most of a year, until She learned that I had been "dishonorable" and She became angry and bought my first cage. It was 24/7 at first, but as our FLR evolved (and I retired), She now only requires me to be caged when She is at work or otherwise away. This has worked for a couple of years and She now milks me periodically to keep me "docile".