Hello locked fellows! Here is the message my darling wife sent me, while I’m away on a business trip: It’s exciting, but terrifying!! I need reassurance, advices, how is it for you if you are in that situation? please share
As your dick is only one small part of you, your chastity is only one part of your life. Keep that in perspective and everything will be fine.
I don’t think it’s a mind fuck. She explained to me a few days ago that she loves my personality in chastity much better and that this time around she found a true understanding and acceptance for her role as a key holder and loves it too. I don’t know if she has made up her mind 100%, but I know she is seriously considering it. And knowing my personality in chastity, I will not top from the bottom or try to oppose her. I will just tell her that I trust her judgment, and she should do what she thinks is best for her and our relationship. Now this said, I am pretty sure it will not be a 0 release situation, and she will let me out for playtime. But this past month, she did so only once Coming from very occasional Chastity, that I would describe as a few weeks every few months, it is a giant step for us, that I didn’t see coming at all.
That’s a very simple yet very interesting take on it. It is a small part of me. The time I spend using it is a small part of my day. So why does it take so much place? At the same time, isn’t Chastity interesting as a power exchange, because the key holder takes control of something that important to us? With a mind set of “it doesn’t matter that much” doesn’t chastity becomes a little dulled?
The "full time locked" situation is great. I have been allowed out for PIV 3 times in 2019 in 2017 it was once! It is just "normal" to be locked up. The frustration is great and the not knowing is the best bit of all! As long as you are "playing" and she is getting her pleasure and you are not in the "lock and leave" situation then it's just great!
I agree that this is best way for a submissive cuckold husband, to let her guide your chastity in the way that is best for your marriage. You have to communicate, but ultimately you have to let her lead.
What a wonderfully submissive message. I totally agree that as long as I'm permitted to worship her orally I can subsist on a small handful or releases, just enough to remind me of the erection and divine entry I've given up for her.
Funnily enough I don't feel particularly submissive! I genuinely prefer and enjoy Mrs Chaste orgasms to having my own. Maybe it is submission but I always think of submission as "giving in"! I must be willingly submissive if that's possible. After all if I didn't want to be locked or not have orgasms then I wouldn't do it! Oh it's all very confusing! What the heck, don't over think, just enjoy!
Thanks for your message! I’m filled with hope now! My wife has had a very strong libido since she got with her BF a year and a half ago. I think she will tease me and play with me a lot.
Metalman, I hope the mindfuck becomes reality and she never, ever lets you out, no matter what, for as long as you live. I hope she buries you someday decades from now with that god-forsaken contraption on your genitals, just because she could make you into her lifelong bitch slave. That would be hot.
Guess it depends on how your relationship defines permanent. Some see permanent as no release. I am expected to wear my device mon-fri 24/7. Unless we have the odd weekday sexual encounter. I can stay unlocked overnight but must be locked before leaving for work. Weekends can get more relaxed. I'm either with her or the kids on the weekends. If we are around the house I'll be locked. Usually I'll be allowed to shower unlocked and will be allowed to be unlocked for the rest of the weekend. Weekends are when our sexual encounters usually happen. There has been times on the weekends when I've been told to lock back up immediately after a shower or sex. Weekends are a wildcard for me. But during the week is mandatory. I don't consider what we do permanent Chastity. But I am in my device for most of the week.
Before and after Several male chastity fetishists were talking after the local munch about being locked up. “Chastity makes you more attentive,” said another, “because when I have an orgasm I become a real dick.” “Well, I think that chastity makes you more submissive,” said one man, “because when my wife locks me up, I crave more attention from her.” “That’s not all,” replied a third, “chastity makes you a cuckold, because my wife needs to take other men to satisfy her.” “Not only that, chastity will make you into a sissy,” claimed another, “because after my wife started taking other men, she found me to be less masculine.” They then turned to the oldest among them, and asked what he thought. “Before chastity,” answered the man, “we had a relationship. When we started locking me up, it was intimate and exciting all at the same time. But after we adopted chastity, we went back to having a relationship.”
That might not be all that’s not coming. Full-time chastity can get normalized after a while. Like most relationship aspects, it is up to both of you to keep it fresh. Find new ways to serve, pamper, and care for her. Keep her interest up. Don’t let her get bored. If you work hard and she is loving, she might return your efforts by frustrating the hell out of you. That’s good, right?