Manifesting Female led Relationships in all areas.

I used to love talking to women late at night at the bar/club about their relationships with boyfriends and husbands. I would listen to them, really listen, then sort of coach them on how I thought they could manage their man and make the relationship better.
This went on for close to ten years at three different pubs and I actually had success in many cases. Sometimes telling them flat out to dump the bum.
We always had fun talking about what a jerk he was and sometimes the jerk was right there to answer for himself. They always knew they were wrong by the end as they couldnt justify why they were not taking better care of her, themselves and the relationship. One guy in particular after many weekly sessions really turned himself around. She was happier and I felt that I had accomplished something worthwhile. There were several similar but not quite as pronounced successes, but all the ladies enjoyed having the chance to vent to a guy for a change and at least saw that a better relationship was possible and that there were at least some men who actually cared.

What I learned was that there were a lot of downtrodden and demoralized women out there who just wanted an engaged and responsible partner, but couldnt find one.
And that's just sad. Very sad.



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That's so very true. And sometimes these women want their partners to see - really see - what they've got. But instead the partners ignore them, get bored, start looking elsewhere... and next thing you know, the woman is flat out done and no longer interested in keeping the partner. And then the partner gets all surprised and hurt: how come she doesn't love me anymore? Because sweetie, love is a two-way street and it's hard for one person to fill both sides.

 

I showed that one guy especially what he had and would inevitably lose at his current pace. For one thing her and I started talking because she was always sitting at the bar by herself. I worked on him all winter until the summer lull when the bands start playing outdoor gigs instead this venue. The next fall I found them sitting together at a booth in the back and where I always found them from then on, late at night holding hands and talking quietly before going home together.
She pulled me off to the side later on to tell me how much better things were and how he really came to see what she brought to the table and how easily he could lose her. And how utterly stupid that would have been.
You could really tell that he was truly in love with her now. He drank a lot less and didnt spend nearly as much time hanging out with us single guys. Actually he was a life of the party kind of guy previously, but now he was a lot less fun. Lol But not for her, and that's all that really matters.







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