Hello I am certain I have read something about this topic on CM, but can't find it. My dominant partner would like to see me not being able to get erections. I like the idea, but I would like to slowly try out and see how I feel. Is there a way (using medics I guess?) to prevent my penis from getting stiff without side effects and without it being permanent? Maybe for a couple of days? Thank you
There is no medicine without side effects. Banding is the only thing I’ve found that works for a few days and it isn’t without risks.
I find about 3 or 4 pints works for me! But more seriously, a numbing spray works for me as I seem to need some physical stimulation or feed-back to get an errection.
Think about Nancy Pelosi naked face fucking Zelensky with a giant dildo whilst screaming "everyone that refused a vaccine is next on her list", while froth-mouthed Boris Johnson masturbates, also naked, in the corner whilst mumbling some lines from shakespeare or churchill. Warning: Ereciton loss may be permanent so use with caution.
Wear a very small ball-trap device. You will still erect, but won't show much and it will perhaps be uncomfortable enough to dull your erection. Add a locking sports cup type of device and no one will know whether you're hard or not. YMMV.
Lidocaine will definitely not help here, it only deprives you of sensation and the erection is completely normal.. the cages do not inhibit it either.. recently I mentioned to my wife about banding and she was very interested in it - we go to the seaside every year and spend about 3 weeks there.. this the cage is a bit cumbersome and I have to wear proper shorts on the beach.. wife wants me to test if banding really works for me - I did a few tries (less than 30 minutes several times a day for 3 days) but no result, I didn't use the original elstrator only the string and rubber band .. what exactly do you use and how? (the penis itself feels together with the testicles?).
It sort of depends how much you want it. A dose of amphetamine would do it, and you could enjoy twelve hours of it being tiny and unable to harden in all likeliness, but many would consider that too much as amphetamines (like Adderall) are prescription only in most western countries. I have had good results with Modafinil (a 'smart' drug) which has an effect similar to a mild amphetamine, but it isn't an amphetamine - it has a similar effect as a couple of pro-plus caffeine tablets, but definitely helps keep the penis smaller - although it is still possible to get it hard if you try hard enough. It is legal in UK/US, not sure where else though.
That effect is variable. A 30mg Adderall has no effect on me whatsoever but has a dramatic effect on others.
Thank you for your replies! I am not too keen to take Aderall or something similar. Maybe I just have to accept that keeping the penis flacid without other permanent side effects will remain wishful thinking. Is someone experienced with other substances that will come with side effects and can describe what they experienced?
About the only things that will do it are either strong antidepressants that should be avoided unless absolutely necessary or drugs that lower testosterone one way or another. I’d suggest looking at boards at eunuch.org for the good, bad and ugly on going that route. low T without a higher level of estrodiol is hard on the body and mind but higher levels of E will slowly feminize your face and body. Cimetidine will raise your prolactin level which suppresses libido, erections and testosterone, but will sap your energy along with other side effects. Sex hormones are important and it’s best to have a healthy level of testosterone OR estrogen.
I have used coke and amphetamines in the past, and can tell you both will absolutely do the trick for a period (say six hours), but they both put increased pressure on your heart and nervous system. The risks are well documented online. If you really wanted it, and you researched and started low dose and worked up, you could find a dose to suit you and as long as you are healthy and it was a very occasional practise then you could reduce the risk to an acceptable level in my opinion. If you don't want to do that then keep a bucket of very cold water nearby instead! Far cheaper and safer
I am rather searching for something that will prevent erections for a longer period - days or weeks. And even though the thought c9ems up on a regular basis I don't feel like I want to take hormones for longer, I would want it to be reversible. So maybe the perfect solution ist yet to be invented
Yeah. Short of taking anti-androgens you're going to struggle really. They would do it, but they would remove your sex drive too.
I kept my libido with anti androgens and a high dose of estrogen. It was just different and erections were much more difficult.
Have a baby, no erections for a year at least because you will have neither the time or energy! Stress can do it too, but that will come with other aspects detrimental to your quality of life. Source: have done both, "survived"