Numbing cream recommendation

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    I like PIV sex but need to have more control over his orgasms, so can someone recommend a cream or spray for numbing? Thanks
     
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    Go to your local pharmacy and look at the pain killers. You should find a bunch with lanocaine and similar ingredients. Most for gum pain work well. Just use some, wait a few min and see how numb he gets. If not numb enough add more

    As for you, make sure it drys first and a condom is a good idea as you'll go numb too if you don't wait.
     
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    They sell Lidocaine sprays, including on Amazon. Those work well for numbing penises.
     
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    We use EMLA cream.

    It is available at most chemist's although most will ask why you want it. We just say its for upcoming blood test's or flu vaccinations.

    It is very effective.
     
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    We use Stud 100. Really cheap when you buy it in bulk on amazon or walmart. And it works really well
     
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    I just bought for us EMLA cream. Since I couldn't test it yet in real action as I am locked, I tested it to other sensitive areas and I reasure you it really works! I just can't wait to get a real test of it. At last I will be able to last more than a few seconds which is the case after being caged for too long and hopefully satisfy her. It's amazing how orgasm control, absence of physical stimulation of any kind and chastity destroyes stamina! (for me)
    Beware: EMLA cream contains OIL which will damage the latex so make sure you wash it off before.
     
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    Emla cream me 3 :) Mistress gets me to apply it to her cock between the bars of the looker 2 with a cotton bud prior to removal. Then she will supervise me "trying" to masturbate.

    One of her favorites.

    If she wants to use her cock we will just numb the head and just along the underneath the shaft near the head, once numb and hard wash with a wipe then condom. Also a cock ring helps keep it hard because it doesn't feel much.
     
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    I'm pretty sure this will do the trick
     
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    Ebanel Numb520, 5% lidocaine works well (Amazon), as does Aspricreme 4% lidocaine ( most retailers)
     
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    Do you know if that's oil based, or water based? I don't know the chemistry but if there's something strong and effective enough but water based that wouldn't ruin a condom, that sounds like it'd be just perfect.
     
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    What ever you use may require you to put a condom on him or I'd could make you numb as well, ambisol and 2 condoms does the trick, in more ways than one and could way benefit you especially if you are into lock up after teasing
     
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    "Do you know if that's oil based, or water based? I don't know the chemistry but if there's something strong and effective enough but water based that wouldn't ruin a condom, that sounds like it'd be just perfect."

    Well, it contains both deionized water and benzyl alcohol (although water is listed first in the ingredient list)
    I'm pretty sure just about Any 5% lidocaine cream would work
    This is only 4.5% lidocaine, but is specifically advertised as water based
     
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    We used to use Promescent, however she seems to be done with having me inside her at all. :(
     
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    EMLA cream Update: When She unlocked me for a cleanup I applied a little bit of cream (like a pea) around the head of the penis and let it for ten minutes sharp. I can tell you it makes wonders! Since this was my first time with a numbing cream I have to admit that it was quite an awkward feeling, or to be precise, non feeling! Only thinking of her and some nipple play got me hard yet I couldn’t feel a thing! I even stroked myself which I never do without specific order given in order to test and still nothing... I highly recommend it and looking forward to that time that she would allow me to love her.
    By your experience, for how long do you leave it on and still be able to serve?
    The instructions mention 1h but I guess after that one could have a penectomy and not feel a thing!
     
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    We use Prolong spray. They have a few, this one is Benzocaine 7.5%. Shredidnt do well w Lidocane cremes (they affected her). As long as she rubs the spray in for 10 minutes she is fine and I can last as long as needed.
     
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    Wrote a post on another thread about same subject, so linking it here.
     
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    I used to 5gm tubes of Emla cream under a condom left on for at least 30 minute; I can tell you I could achieve nothing for hours to the point of giving up!
     
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    @andy66 And you were still able to hold an erection???
     
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    Update! :)
    I didn’t have to wait for long to test the effect of numbing! I think I was lucky that I got the timing right by the first try, a bit longer and probably I wouldn’t be able to get hard, a bit less and I would cum in seconds, my stamina is non existent anymore. That previous trial paid off well! :) As said, a bit of EMLA on the head for 10’ and I had the extreme pleasure of supporting several orgasms before She decides She was satisfied and get me back locked (after some inevitable waiting). What was very interesting is the fact that since I couldn’t feel almost anything down there I focused my attention to every other single bit of my body (including mind) and to hers, so despite the numbing I had received ecstatic pleasure as well and a completely new feeling to explore further! I loved it but what is most important, She loved it too, so much that it seems I am going to spend a lot of time being locked up. We also had a good laugh when I told her, well, it seems like EMLA is our new threesome!
     
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    Uber Numb 5% lidocaine gel from Amazon works great. Put some in tip of condom and roll it on and spread it out. You can massage it and tease yourself for 15-20 min before PIV. I can’t orgasm for my life after using it.
     
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    How does it stay hard if its numb?
     
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    If you have a hard time getting erect without direct stimulation it can be difficult.
     
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    Used EMLA once, it was a disaster.

    I ended up flaccid, nothing was waking him up. She asked me to use my fingers and I mustn't have washed my hands properly as her clit went numb.

    Anticlimactic end to what was supposed to be an interesting evening.
     
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