Addictive? or some something that you need physically and emotionally...

@Mistress Jules will give me a break every now and then. The time uncaged varies with her mood.
I can enjoy the freedom I know t will be short lived. Until this morning I was enjoying a short break that was ended with a simple text.

I am relocked and have no idea for how long, It could be a couple of days ( wishful thinking ) or could weeks.
I would not say its addictive however I miss being locked while having a break. Then when I am locked I count the days until the next release.

I think I am more confused than addicted. I have no control over chastity and I would not have it any other way.

 

personally I think its a dopamine rush which brings us back. It can be addicting

 

I'm still at an early stage and enjoying it so much I can't imagine not doing this. I would feel bereft.

 

If the definition of being Addicted is. Not being able to go about your daily without something. Than, Yup, I'm Adicted to Chastity and my addiction is getting worse the longer I'm locked.

Years ago when we first started experimenting with chastity I would be unlocked for weeks at a time before I wanted to be re locked. Than it became a few days, and now when I'm released for a few hours I want to be re locked. Being locked has become a part of who I am and I couldn't imagine living without a chastity cage. My how things have changed.

I have heard that men do have something that happens to them that's similiar to having a period but I don't think it had anything to do with wearing a cage on your privates.

 

At one time a long time ago I could never have envisaged me saying
I too would much rather be being denied and locked for and by a significant other which I now have.
I take little or no pleasure in not being locked for more that is necessary or required.

This latest denial, and again I could not possibly have envisaged me saying this either

Only getting out for cleaning or a haircut for almost a full year I found to have woken a hitherto unknown submissive side (other that TTTWD) which has pleased my lady no end. We are now exploring that.

Would I want to be unlocked and not be denied ...NO.

But I guess addicted is not the right word though not for me because of my feelings about addicts. Rightly or wrongly addicts are weak people I have no disrespect for them for being addicts only some of their actions which I can perhaps at times understand the motivation but never condone.

 

Addictive is a fair word for it. It is constantly on my mind, I even log in here many times a day when I want a quick chastity fix, where I can read, look at, and discuss chastity related ideas.

I started out here just gleaning information, then used it as a sounding board and place to document our journey, and now it has evolved into my daily chastity fix.

Maybe some of that has to do with how secretive all this is and having a place where being caged isn’t weird makes coming here addictive. I could have taken or left chastity when we started. I was all about her being the sexual dominant, and wearing a cage although kinda kinky isn’t something I NEEDED.

At some point, it switched to I know for a fact I will be wearing one of these things for the rest of my life. Yes I physically and emotionally need to wear it for my and her best interests.

So for me, chastity interaction and communication is addictive, but as far as wearing the device, it is more of a need.