Anti pullout control idea

Get a PA piercing. That prevents the pull-out.

 

I understand. My wife has no desire for me to be pierced, so chances are slim that I would ever be instructed to get a PA.

But if you want pull-out security, that is how you do it.

 

Ummm The tether spout is just as effective as a PA and had the following advantages.

1. Makes it easier to Pee, even standing up, impossible with a PA.
2. No hole in dick.
3. Its possible to have sex with it in and cover it so you minimize how much you ejaculate (some gets past not much). That said you do need to be a little careful not to go in at an angle....it feels fine and normal once in but it can hurt during sex if you push at a funny angle, but I have not had sex without a tether in now for years.
4. Its easy to remove.
5. Dont know its there for the most part. Night time arousal not an issue. During cleaning you can pull your dick quite hard to get your finger and soap and clean properly it doesn't hurt, you just cant pull out.
6. Using screw thread you can keep head of penis close to front of cage.
6. makes an excellent and amazing estim electrode

Disadvantages.

1. tricky to learn how to put in, and difficult to get sizing right. Not for everyone.
2. screw thread can make it harder to insert, the retainer can catch on the thread, using a tapered spout much much easier to insert but then you have to secure it somehow to the front of cage (like a PA)

Other than that....none, the retainer actually sits around where the PA would come out under your penis, so anyone that argues that the tether is less hygienic is incorrect.

Make sure you get titanium, mine has now been in since March (I did remove it to check on in after 2 months, shiny as the day I put them, it was out for maybe 20 minutes)

 

I believe utilizing a PA is the only way to improve the security of any device to a reasonable level of tamper proof
I have been wearing a ball trap type chastity device for decades now
no i would not cheat
but the real headfuck is when I am locked and we are using my PA not only may I not get out...
more importantly to us both is that without damaging the cage or having the lock picked
..I CAN'T..

 

Have a read of this thread, its been a bit of a journey But others use it as well, surprised not more people.

https://www.chastitymansion.com/forums/index.php?threads/looker-2-with-tetherspout.35937/

It specific for the looker 2 and steelheart 2 (which is what I am using it with and am in right now)

The titanium bits can be purchased from here

https://bawrpro.com/products/tetherspout-for-non-piercing-chastity?VariantsId=11552

 

Another idea, and something I just stumbled on to. Get some string and strap the cage tightly against your abdomen. Normally, if you're going to pull out, it's got to be between the ring and your body. The problem with most cages is that there is a space between the ring and body. With the string (or buy a real strap), there is no space. Nothing to pull out of. Sure you can cut the string, or untie it, but if you're ingenious, you can make it so that doing either will be noticed,

I like the string primarily because it keeps things in place when I get a hard-on. I've gotten to the place where getting a hard-on, and the discomfort associated with it, is something I like. With the cage strapped to my body, it is just that much tighter and just that much more pleasureable.

Just like that, you've got yourself an official 'chastity belt'.

 

You don't mention anything about UTI's... wouldn't a tether spout make you more susceptible to that kind of thing?

 

I just pierced myself.

Honestly, I’d tried everything under the sun to avoid being able to escape, to return that feeling of genuine containment… in the end nothing worked. In fact, I found out some contraptions can be down right dangerous.

Either you suck it up and accept you’re on the ‘Honour system’ albeit whilst wearing cage or you get the piercing. That’s my personal experience.

I didn’t go PA. Didn’t quite go frenum. I went with what worked for me, my wife and a custom chastity cage maker. It was worth it. We’re all happy now!

 

I also can vouch for the tetherspout. So that or a PA is what we have right now that we know will work. I was thinking about an anti-pullout addition to a cage and one idea that came to mind is having a piece of metal (or something) that will be locked in place while your penis is in the cage, but as soon as your penis begins to leave it will fall down and block the tube so that your penis can't go back in. So technically you can pull out, but you won't be able to put it back in which means you are going to get caught if you have a KH, and even if you don't have a KH it will be very uncomfortable to have your penis hanging out with a cage around your balls.

I never ended up finding a way to make this work but in theory it should work...

 

No, the retainer and tip of spout sit about where a PA would come out of your shaft so dont really see any difference there. More chance of getting infection when they put a hole in your dick for the PA.

I have used inserts that go a lot deeper than the tether, never had a issue, that said the tether only goes in a tiny bit.

I have also made a short insert with a bulb that is only just big enough to pass the constriction in the tip of your penis, it can only be inserted before you put the cage on, once the cage is on if you pull it out its impossible to put enough pressure to push it back over the bulb. It means while you CAN pull out if you wish your keyholder would know. This was not good enough for my partner, she likes that I really cant get out. And I really cant

 

PA is *THE* way to stop being able to pull out of the back of the cage. Any other anti withdrawal methods can be bypassed with some cold water shrinkage.

If you get a PA, leave it say 8 to 10 weeks and think it didn't suit you, you can change the jewelry (from circular barbell to CBR (captive bead ring) or the other way round. If after a few more weeks on a different jewelry choice you decide that definitely definitely it's not for you... you can remove it.

If you stretch to large gauge jewelry and/or have it for a long time it will be permanent. But in the first 6 months (maybe even 12) with thin jewelry (like 10 gauge that you will initially be pierced at), it will quickly heal over and be gone if you remove it.

You really have nothing to lose, you can try out PA and see what you think without any lifetime commitment.

If you do get one it will be a while before you can use it for chastity, some months at least.

Just try it and see. You may be surprised just how comfortable it is, now I wouldn't have expected the word comfortable to be used here, but that's my experience at least. Unless I direct my conscious attention to it I can't feel it and even then it's hard to feel unless I touch it, it is more natural and comfortable for me than my wedding ring!!

Ask your lady, she may want to try it. If she wants to try.. then do as you're told

 

So... what kind of issues do you have with scraping/cutting up your urethra? Do you have a problem with blood in your urine?

 

You pierced yourself?! Tell us more please about the position of the piercing and who made the custom device.

 

https://www.chastitymansion.com/for.../self-piercing-stupidity-or-brilliance.51774/

 

Can't say its never happened, when somethings gone a little awry during insertion, but not regularly and only a little bit once or twice in the years I have been using it. If you tried to put it out without pushing the spout through first then there would be blood for sure.

Since its been in there for i don't remember when it last came out (6 months?), there has never been any blood. The last time I took it out to check the titanium (after 3 months I think) and it was as shiny as the day I put it in.

 

I would pull out to masturbate after a few days. Girlfriend would get pissed. Chastity play would stop. We got piercings over a year ago and I’ve been in chastity much of 2023. It was a little annoying dealing with the pee issue while jewelry is in but a PA+chastity is a better experience than chastity without a PA for urination since everything stays lined up. Healing was uneventful, minimal bleeding the first day, touchy for a few months. It was about 6 months before the piercing was used for chastity. I’d recommend it.

 

Two things.
1. A PA will definitely prevent pull out and is likely the most effective method short of a full belt.
2. A PA is basically a lifetime piercing. It's not like an ear or other self-healing piercing. Look up Prince Albert fistula.

Please do not go into it thinking if you don't like it, it'll just heal over. Perhaps possible. But not likely.

I have one and am glad I did it - most of the time.

 

The tether system is just as effective, there is no way to bypass it without ripping the tip off your penis off much like you would if you ripped your PA....so the PA is not THE only way.

 

Or try a device with spikes, you won’t want to pull out of that!

 

Check out my latest photo, i am unable to pull out if i wanted too