Does your Wife / Gf / KH limit your access to your 'merital' bed? Do you still sleep with her or only sometimes? How is it limitted? Are you punished with having your night on a couch or somewhere else? I can usually sleep in our bed with my Wife. But, especially when I make her really upset in the evening, her favourite punishment is telling me then: 'You are sleeping on the floor tonight'. I have to sleep on a rainbow carpet laying on the floor in our bedroom - you can see a fragment of it in my profile pic. It is far too small to put my whole body on it so partially I lay on wooden floor. I am allowed to cover myself with a thin bed sheet only so it is usually quite cold and always hard through the night. Once my Wife punished me with 3 or 4 nights on the floor in a row. Believe me, I really missed our bed after all and was really careful not to make her angry again.
I just successfully delayed her decision to go to put us in separate twin beds. But due to her disappointment in my failure to follow all her guidelines during 2 week period. I am when home from business trips next 3 weeks I sleep on futon. Hopefully I earn back to our king bed during March.
I have been locked in our dungeon on some nights when her GF has spent the night. The room is equipped with a bed, not as plush but serves its purposes. I have also had to share the cell with her GF’s husband a few nights when they were living here over the summer. Luckily he needed to sleep on a special cushion that was placed on another bed, the cell was cramped but we made it work.
Absolutely not. At the heart of our relationship is a normal marriage just with me locked, devoted and denied. Maybe when the kids grow up and leave home.
Always in the same bed and both in the nude . She has found that placings her butt next to the cage is a big tease for me and she knows it. She gets the giggles when she can feel me dripping on her back side. Some nights it goes from there , and others I am told to go to sleep. Yeah like that is easy. Lol
She likes to sleep next to me, so I don't see this restriction working for us. Of course there are sessions I am bound somehow overnight, but those don't happen too often.
We always sleep in the same bed. We try hard NOT to go to bed having issues between us, though it does sometimes happen. Since we've been developing our FLR, She now expects that I will do what I need to do to make sure we go to bed without being mad at each other. If I DON'T make every effort to atone for my misbehavior, real or otherwise, THEN she will get more upset. If She's particularly PO'd at me for something I did or said, then she usually will punish me before we go to bed. Her favorite punishment is ball-busting, though sometimes she'll include spanking, flogging, or a combination by putting these real painful nipple clamps on me while I kneel in front of Her as She kicks me with Her spiked ball-busting shoes. There are different levels to which She'll escalate the punishment level to depending upon how She feels about the situation. After such a session, I am usually in total agreement with whatever led Her to feel She needed to punish me. So, then we go to bed. As mentioned by Den737 above, She KNOWS how much it turns me on for Her to press Her sexy backside into me against my cage, so She will often tease me that way and tell me to massage Her back until she falls asleep. Interestingly, there have actually been a few times that She got so turned on with the ball-busting, that She had me assist Her in having an orgasm before we go to sleep. She really seems to get turned on by causing me pain, so who am I to not oblige Her in Her wishes? But we always end up sleeping in the same bed. In reality, I think She would feel punished as much as I would by not having me lying next to Her because I always massage Her as she drifts off to sleep and then upon waking, I gently caress Her body to start the new day. She really enjoys that attention. ~subrick
We almost always sleep together when I am home. On nights she wants to indulge my bondage fetishes she has tied me in the guest bedroom a few times. Wakes up and doesn't realse me until about noon. Other time she has me sleep in my kennel and locks the doors with 2 padlocks so I can't get out. But that is just when we are playing. She does it more for me than for her.
Chastity is our main line activity. With maybe a bit of development towards KH for her eventually. I guess at times s splash of FLR . Wherever she decides to develop to fit helps her find trust in letting me be close again on her terms.
I like all your post, but this part is especially hot to me. It shows the true role of a man in FLR. You always have to take care of your Wife, her feelings, her mood, even though you are also angry with her after an argue that is your role to calm her down and apologize to her first.
That wasnt my wife's reaction when she woke up drenched in my drippings!! Her words were something to the tune of WTF IS THAT SHIT!!?? After explaining to her about how the cup runneth over after weeks of denial, shes made me wear underwear to bed ever since. (I found it rather humorous myself! The look on her face was priceless. Said she felt like she was in some Alien movie! LMAO)
I caught major punishment for my leaking from giving her an extended massage. Cost me over the next 3 weeks. Accused of having orgasim . I now always have heavy panty liners on in case she wants massage. No soiled panties or bed and heaven forbid my wetness on her.