Hi, I'm very new here so apologies if this in wrong place... Does anyone every experience a feeling of not wanting to remove your chastity device it's kind of like I'm going to miss it. I've been locked for slightly over 2 days solid now I've done about 4 max previously but it's feeling really good at present and the thought of unlocking is kinda making me feel a bit sad.... Can't quite explain it....
Don't get me wrong seeing my SO in her sexy tight jeans and cuddling her in bed is still making me desire her and release but I'm kinda in an odd state of bliss
Welcome to the club. Feeling that way is nothing new or out of the ordinary and quite common. Something akin to Chastity related Stockhome Syndrome ..but not quite Lots of reasons for that and the combinations of reasons for each of us probably has the same number of permutations as there are guys that are locked.
I like the Stockholm Syndrome analogy, pretty much sums it up....I can't wait to unlock but only when I know I'm onto a sure thing with my so. But when that moment arrives I know I'm going to feel a bit conflicted I just know it.... Such a paradox of feelings....
Being denied fuels the desire for one's SO and also the desire to orgasm, if the denial continues the desire to orgasm becomes need as does the desire for your partner. Thats the place to be in feeling the desire become need but not so much as to cause an undesired 'accident'. Its also the place your SO will probably learn to keep you. I'm glad mine has and does but its each to their own on that. Its an individual thing but if you want to understand more about how/why male chastity works then try this but before you do be sure that knowing the science of it won't put you off. For me knowledge is power for some knowledge spoils the 'magic'. Maybe you should discuss whether or not to read it with your partner depending on the dynamic of the realtionship you hope to develop. https://www.reuniting.info/node/4865 Whether you should read it or not I won't say anymore than I have. But do remember whatever you decide that it is between you and SO. If you don't like it don't blame me.
I have for long enough called that particular dilemma or dichotomy if you prefer the hard choice between to pleasures..... the head-fuck ......and I love it. For me it is a lot of what This Thing That We Do is all about... but by no means all. Have fun. Above all have fun... and when its not fun ..re-evaluate or STOP
Thanks I'll have a read of the article later when not using my phone lol I'm feeling very content at moment but being at work in a Corporate office surrounded by some very attractive ladies isn't helping.....sigh... - I just want to get home now and hold my so and whisper that I'm locked and I'd love her to enjoy herself and maybe let me out.....if she wants. But then maybe not....hmmm
My bf doesn't like being locked. He doesn't miss it at all when it's off. It works to my advantage because I can get him to push his limits by offering to reduce Chastity Time if he agrees. Of course, if he'd stop looking at pornography and masturbating, he'd have a lot more time with it off than he does now. He wouldn't have a sore bottom as much as he does, either.
I think he may be lying to you. I'd bet that he secretly does miss the cage when it is off. He probably enjoys having it off, but I'd bet he can't wait for you to control him some more. I know how guys think!
I know what you mean I'm staying locked even if she says I can come out - I get such a buzz out of it when she's cum and smiles up at me hands me her sexy panties (for me to put back on her) thus sealing my fate.... Once back on, she sighs contentedly closes her eyes and rolls onto her side - inviting me to spoon her - she's there for the taking but I'd NEVER just assume. Once she got her panties back on that's it - literally game over. It can get to point where I know she's cum hard (in need of a nap) and I've actually offered, praying for her to say no, its ok to enter her and cum, but at the same time my heart is racing also hoping she just let's me put the panties on her. The denial knowing she's right there is such a buzz.
I've been locked up for so long I couldn't imagine not being kept chaste for my wife! If it does come off for doctor type stuff, its back on as soon as we get home. Must admit it doesn't feel quite right not being locked in chastity. Mrs Chaste wouldn't dream of leaving me free unless it was absolutely necessary. As she says "you know its for the best". Love it.