Ladies, what do you most value?

Is it wring im using this thread to see the things i should learn lol

 

I love that MSB pampers me. My favorite thing we do that is quickly becoming our first ritual is he starts my shower for me, towels me off afterwards, then rubs lotion all over me with a massage. We love the physical connection this kind of intimacy brings and my skin has never looked healthier!

Other than that he cooks and cleans up after himself and treats me like no other man ever has. But then again this is who he is as a man it's only magnified with his submission to me.

 

My Lady has sent me to cooking classes at the local college, as well as having me read about formal dinner service. She is hoping to get a "formal" dinner service set up with a fer of her Domme Friends, and us slaves doing the serving. She has also indicated that she would like me to go to mani/pedi classes.

 

i mentioned this thread while serving Mistress (LdyCarlie) this morning, and She let me report She values service the most and well-trained oral skills.

Mistress rarely posts here or anywhere else (like fetlife) for that matter, preferring to talk on the phone!

 

I'm hoping this is okay to post as I'd like to offer the view from the other side as to what Mistress Sara my love has posted.

I love the entire ritual between us. What do I get as the man in her life? Sounds like work ? Hardly; listen to this,
I get to strip her naked, kiss her gorgeous body all over, I control her shower so it is just right. Then I get do dry her off, again, I get to put my hands all over her. Then we head off for me to rub lotion and a light massage over her entire body. She gets pampered and I get the joys of making her happy and the intimacy of touching her and knowing every inch of her.

In the end, treat her like a queen and she will make you her king.

 

MSB,
That is exactly why I so enjoy attending to my Mistress!

 

if i want to be value for my mistress..is the promise that i didn't break...
such as promise to be locked is chastity as she wanted and never cheating

 

a man with good oral skills is good, a man who can breath through his arse is better

 

It is the ability to anticipate my needs that I love most. It's the back rub when I'm tense. The fresh coffee with mint creamer when I wake. His personal touch is number one.

This is a man that does windows, cooks, cleans, does the laundry and smiles when the cat horks on the rug and cleans it up.
I love him dearly.

 

My sissymaid is still rather new to all of this but her training is going well and her cooking skills have improved by leaps and bounds. I have never found her to be lacking in oral skills.

 

I love having my libido decorated with garlands of the most delicious words. I also rather like having orgasms drawn from from me as if they were all tied together on a silken thread.

 

That's part of being a good lover, even if you're not in a D/s relationship.

 

Completely as it should be.

 

Quite poetic and rather beautifully stated, Ma'am.

 

I don't have a relationship with a submissive man, nor am I holding a man's key yet. When and if I do, what I would appreciate most in terms of service is him doing the work I ask without complaint, without telling me he'll do it when his show is over or at some other point when he feels like it. If he has carpentry skills and if he has a muscular body, I want to put that body to work, for me. His sweat, for me.

There is always plenty to fix in my house. And when he's done fixing, he can get to building desks and picture frames. Watching men work is a turn-on for me, and knowing theyre doing it at my request is even more exciting. And if under all that masculinity, his cock is locked, and is mine, all the better.

MM

 

I find that wit, intelligence and a sense of humor are all way more important then a particular "skill list."

 

Spider transplanting skills are highly valued around here also!

I find I enjoy anticipatory service and having him do any work in the house or yard unprompted and cheerfully. In the few weeks we have been perusing a female led relationship his oral skills, including kissing, have become more sensual. He is paying more attention to my physical response and direction which is very erotic for me.

 

After reading this thread, I have come to he conclusion that I need to improve my skills greatly before I would be worthy of many of the wonderful Mistresses here. All of the info contained here gives me a direction to go in.

 

The skill I appreciate most about Gruk is his cooking. He is very imaginative when it comes to his culinary skills and I am treated to some excellent dishes. His wiilingness to learn how to serve me best is also one of his more charming qualities.

 

I was pretty shocked that My pet ended up having most all the traits I loved in previous partners, while also possessing additional positive qualities in which all others severely lacked.

He was quite inexperienced sexually when we first met. Owning an inexperienced, submissive male was always a fantasy of Mine... a clean slate to adorn and shape as I see fit, with few bad habits to 'unlearn'. He certainly fit that profile, much to My delight.

He doesn't fight his submissive status and has never tried to box Me into his idea of Dominance... aside from the very first anonymous chats we had, years ago. He quickly realized I was not like the other 'dominants' he'd interacted with online... as I wasn't a cruel, hateful, manipulative, emotionally-sadistic piece of... well, you get the idea.

His cleanliness is superb (better than Mine, actually!) and his work ethic is strong. He has a knack for cooking and his skills are only improving. He's polite to most everyone but is also fluent in sarcasm. He knows how to be comfortable and dress down, but also has attractive style when he dresses up.

He knows how to make Me laugh uncontrollably... and also how/when to hold Me if I cry. He does not view My Dominance as something that evaporates when I experience emotions other than confidence. He knows his place, and he knows Mine. This has never changed.

He cares for Me as a friend above all else. This means he's not afraid to tell Me when I'm wrong. I have never desired a doormat submissive and that description definitely doesn't suit him. His constructive criticism has helped Me grow as a person, which has lead to improvements in all areas of My life.

Despite battling with personal demons and lacking in confidence during the first half of our relationship, he has since reached every benchmark (sexually or otherwise) that I've set thus far. He discusses his thoughts with Me without hesitation, after learning some hard lessons about the importance of transparency. Watching him gain confidence while progressing in countless ways has been a joy for Me to witness as his friend, partner, and Guide. I am very proud to be his Owner.

We all have ways in which we can improve as humans. I feel we act as catalysts for one another when the pairing is right. Training him for My needs has more than paid off and he continues to be a worthy investment for Me.

( And yeah, he's pretty damn good at oral worship... if that wasn't obvious after this novella. )

 

This thread is so old it should have candles, a birthday cake, and in a couple of years, a driving license.

 

Beautiful. He knows his place, and he knows Mine -- with love, that makes all things possible.

 

Skillful at mending things.
Delivering orgasms.
Cooking.
Imagination.
Conversation.