Good sources of Info. for a New Wife-Keyholder

Good luck on your journey, nothing has really helped me get my wife on board. It's taken 20 years so far , she accepts I lock and has recently said she loves it but isn't actively involved, some women take to it and some don't . I wish you well

 

What is wrong with this site?

 

I can’t speak for everyone, but for myself it just doesn’t fit our dynamic. The kind of man that that website suggests all men are is simply not me. I’ve been pampering my wife and taking care of her since the day I married her. And the kind of woman that this website describes is not the kind of woman my wife would want to be. Instead of giving her a website to read I just talked to her and told her about my kinks. She’s taking this new development in our sexual lives one day at a time. She’s slowly discovering the kind of Domme she wants to be. My role in this is to be patient and not pester her like a needy kitten. It’s a long transition but at the end of it this will be chastity our way, not the fantasy that exists on many websites online.

 

Same here. I did provide and review with my wife, several websites and books, where it helped to provide examples of the dynamic, proof points that yes, this is a thing. But all told, books, websites, stories, etc, made less than .5% of our journey. And even with that, each one came with a ton of caveats and discussions. In most cases, like you said, these don't describe our dynamic.
I'm not submissive. I am a masculine man and want a feminine woman. Within that, there's no need for kinks or fetishes that don't apply to us, of which many are commonly associated with the image of chastity.

I agree, ultimately describing my desires and kinks, explaining them, and giving her time to understand, feel into them and how they integrate into what she wants, so we could create our own magic dynamic has been the path to success. And as it evolves is far exceeding articles on a website and incorporates much of the fundamental kinks and desires described in those sites, just in our own and her own way. She owns it (for herself, her way), and every day we get deeper into it (be careful what you ask for is 100% correct). Domme over me, generally, no. Woman who owns her sexuality and loves to tease her man to draw out huge amounts of sexual energy directed at her...oh yes!

 

It's a fantasy pretending to be good advice.

 

a good website and articles in it. everything is written in a substantive and understandable language.

 

I found some pictures about happy couples and some cartoons from this site on https://www.evolvingyourman.com as well.
I do not know, who took them from whom but https://www.evolvingyourman.com seems to more informative than https://happy-marriage.neocities.org

The first one is made with dialogues and interactively, contains some scientific basics and less than a fantasy. If it was a fantasy it would be quite boring. The female author who mentioned cuckolding but just reported about a few threesomes with the same other man, that seems too little for a fantasy.

Then there are some identical pictures, I didn't check about the age of the pages. Maybe someone else wants to do?

 

It looks like chatgpt generated clickbait to score some advertising peanuts.

Each of it's blog posts is about as helpful as a dail mail article.

 

The pictures/cartoon s are from a guy called Mare (twitter.com/mare_ten)

 

There is the same photo on both sites of a woman wearing a dirndl and holding his caged cock.

 

Hopefully that's not a picture of you then

 

Back in the day, I checked this site every day.