Today I went to a very posh sex shop. I had been emailing back and forth with the manager about chastity. I’d missed his most recent email about waiting for him to investigate a couple of other things and went into the store on what turned out to be his day off. The two lovely trans women working there were both knowledgeable and understanding. I now have some more resources to prepare for my journey into proper chastity. As a temporary measure I did purchase an Oxball Cocklock. It isn’t real chastity since it can’t be locked and the wearer can always remove it, but it does allow me some capacity to play at home even hen I’m not alone. I’m wearing it now. But my current thinking is to look at the birdcage with the largest or second largest ring.
Well, I had an opportunity to enjoy it the other day. A man I met at an escort agency party, who understands my cum fetish, contacted me and proposed we set up a date with an escort he’d picked out. I wore my Cockblock. The had sex while I watched and participated a bit. (I sucked his cock a little, and then ate her ass and her pussy while he was f***ing her.) When he came on her body, I cleaned it up. But in terms of the chastity piece, one of the best parts was when I was standing in front of her while he was doing her from behind and she repeatedly slapped by blocked cock.
Well, it wasn’t the usual sleazy shop, and it was a little more upscale than the somewhat nice ones. I suspect the fact it was in the gay village and had a lot of trans clientele who weren’t just shopping for sex toys (eg, the sell binders for example, and prosthetic penises - that is, penises for a trans man to have a package, not just strap on dildoes for pegging) may have something to do with it. There was a very strong “we want to educate people about all facets of human sexuality” vibe.