How Secure is your Key and how is it kept

One key is in the bedside table draw The other is in her travel wash bag (we travel a lot together)
I have never been tempted to touch them
We made the decision to bring chastity into our relationship together so for me it would feel like cheating if I ever did self unlocked without permission Plus I'm not sure I would like the consequences if I ever did

 

Not too long ago while She was away, curiosity got the best of me and I looked for Her key. I had a general idea where it was and found it. I took a picture and sent it to Her with a cheeky comment. She was upset and let me know in a text.

No further comment when She got home and I didn't want to mention it. For two weeks I was punished with no kissing, teasing, pleasuring Her etc. Cut off cold. After two weeks She let me pleasure Her and then told me to never ever do that again or it will be months without.

 

Madam had One set ether on her or in her purse/handbag and there is another set she has hidden somewhere in her moms apartment for emergency’s.

 

I need an option for hidden key. It's not locked and she's didn't always have it, but if there was an emergency, in sure I called ask and find out where it is. She does like to take it away on trips, though, so I can be a couple of hours away from it...

 

Mine is in my nightstand in the bedroom. Wifey doesn’t want to physically hold the key yet and that’s OK. She’s still new to this and I have years of discipline from self locking. I’m not worried about unlocking myself without her say so.

 

My KH told me a long time ago that she threw away the keys to my chastity device.
I'm 99% certain that she's just teasing me, though.
My KH lives around one hundred miles away and I have absolutely no idea where she keeps the keys. They're probably in her safe, but I have no idea where she keeps that, either.
In any case, my cage is secured with a PA ring, which itself is sealed shut and can't be removed without destroying the PA ring itself.
Of course, any chastity device can be broken with the right set of tools, but (near) daily photo checks by my KH ensure that I don't even try to remove it.

 

Digital safe under her nightstand. Pretty secure. Emergency key to that locked elsewhere.

Igloohome3 when she is away (she can open remotely).

 

two keys. wifes lover has one, and wifes mother has the other
a bit humiliating

 

The whole cage/key thing is a concrete embodiment of something far more inescapable: my permanent sexual denial is the agreed condition of my belonging to her. If I were to cum it would negate the foundation of our relationship.
What is satisfying for both of us is the security and intimacy of our mutual understanding that I belong to her, love and desire her, and she will keep me frustrated forever.
She could give me the key, or throw it into the sea, it makes no difference. I’ll never ejaculate again, because it’s what she wants and that matters more to me than physical pleasure.
At the beginning the cage was important because it enabled me to resist giving in to my urges. But 19 months later all I really want is to make it two years, then three, then four…

 

I think it makes good sense that your wife's lover should hold one of your keys, because it would give him a sense of security knowing that he was your wife's exclusive sexual partner: no competition.
Although my KH's mother knows that she keeps me locked, I don't think she has any interest in holding a key. Besides, she lives on a different continent!

 

What I always wanted (in fantasy) was for my own mother to hold the key and give her blessing to my Mistress. In fact I wished my Mistress to see herself as continuing what my mother started, and for my mother to pay her a small supplementary income in recognition of that.
NB in real life my mother didn’t put me in chastity but she did inculcate me with guilt about sex and masturbation.

 

she just keep it for backup/safety reasons. hard to think she has an interest in it, besides it makes her a bit amused that im obedient to wife

 

This is exactly what I want!

 

In that case, I can highly recommend a key from chastity-shop.com, my wife would never wear the ugly stock ones.

 

I'm in between jobs and not having access to the keys is the only thing that keeps me chaste sometimes when she's gone for the day. I know it would be a huge mistake to open the cage and cheat when I stop and think about it. But I need the guardrail to keep my lizard brain in check sometimes. Thank God she keeps the keys locked up where I can't get to them. The shame and guilt are too emotionally painful.

 

Mostly she keeps it in a combination lock box. Sometimes she has it on her if she hasn't gotten around to putting it in the lock box. Occasionally she forgets were she put it!!! :O

So far after she's misplaced it she's managed to find it again with a bit of searching. She finds this amusing... OMG.

 

Did you have a fright from losing the key?

 

I did! I get understandably stressed.

She's done it a few times now, she's a little carless. She usually says something like "don't worry it will turn up eventually".

 

I can imagine your concern! There is a saying: good is that ends well!

 

Those are beautiful keys but I ordered a MM jailbird with security screw.

 

Mini Jailbird has 3 keys, the 2 standard and then the heart shaped. She has all 3 secured somewhere unknown to me. So when she is not around I have no ability to remove the cage, as it should be. I am weak and would want to take care of myself.

 

My KH has one key on her keyring and as we dont live together the emergancy key is in a QIUI Bluetooth pod which she can unlock remotely if she feels like it and I could smash in to if needed in an emergency.

 

We actually have 3 keys, once my wife has in her possession at all times, the second in a glass jar with the top glues, the third in a sealed mini envelop signed by my wife kept in my wallet. Only once in the last several years have I used the envelop.

 

I am retired now. I too would find it difficult when my wife is not at home if I had any reasonable possibility to get out of my cage. I am really grateful that my wife keeps all the keys in an electronic safe so I know where they are but I can't get at them. If they were just hidden I'd probably waste time looking for them. I hate it when some necessity demands that I am not securely locked or I have to have an emergency key.