Longest You’ve Gone Without?

It certainly helps to relieve the urgency.

 

thanks for the answer

 

That's awesome to hear! We are two very fortunate guys to have these women in our lives!

 

I too feel better after about week two. Although when my wife teases me, not cumming is still brutal. The week after one of the mind blowing orgasms she gives me are absolutely the toughest. I have to put the cage on right afterwards or I wake up in the middle of the night with a problem.

 

The longest I've been without unlocking, an erection or an orgasm of any kind was exactly six months.

The change for me comes after around a month. I no longer crave being unlocked or having an orgasm any more, I start to really enjoy the constant gentle and continuous arousal, and I became more submissive, only wanting my wife to orgasm, and also, enjoying her orgasms as much as I used to enjoy my own. After that initial period, her orgasms become intimately connected with my own pleasure, I physically shudder in sympathy when she comes.

I'm more often than not completely denied for periods of more than two or three months. If I have ejaculated during the unlock periods, then it usually takes around a month for me to get back into that submissive continually aroused state again, when I not only just don't desire orgasm, I often dread the thought of having one.

 

Nothing too crazy, 58 days and a few other 30-50 day stints. But now we’re looking to drop my full orgasms to one every two months, but the last few months, she gives me ruins a couple times a month. Those will be cut down to one ruin every three weeks if we hit her goals this year

 

Its easier for me to count in weeks since that's my normal measure.
The longest was 4 months 2 weeks ... so 18 weeks ... or 126-ish.

The normal is maybe 1 'cum day' every 2-3 months.
About 1/2 the time is 'full' and the other half is 'ruined'.
Nothing is definite but after a full one, the wait is closer to 3.
While if ruined, the wait is closer to 2.

I find that after an orgasm, serious craving for another starts within days - so there is almost a wish to not have one.

I find the first week after a release is the most difficult week.
The second week is just as tough if not more.
The third week starts getting easier but still have difficult days.
The second month gets easier still but can have occasional terrible temptations.
The third month is when I start finding my groove - and the desires seem more manageable.
The fourth month started to be euphoric - maybe even a tipping point of wanting to wait longer.

The most challenging is when she gets in a phase of having me produce 1 drop each week - this might last for a month - and is damn near impossible. Any extra drops are considered me seeking to pleasure myself & usually resets the 2-3 month clock.

 

35 days (5 weeks), but we were having sex I just wasn't permitted to orgasm. I think 3 weeks in the cage is my record. I can easily hold back after a week of being caged after 2 weeks though not cumming during sex becomes challenging, after 3 weeks I have to pause a lot which is a little annoying to my partner, we have a vixskin that she may have to resort too if she wants to take me further...But I have to admit I love sex, it feels so good even if you dont cum that said I also like the thought of giving her a good going over with a vixskin even if every now and then since after 3 or 4 weeks I cant keep moving fast for very long so Id probably consider myself a shit fuck, even after one week she almost always mocks me with "is that all?" I have to pause for a bit to compose myself...lol but she is teasing me (I think)

I didn't really struggle with 35 days, I was both disappointed and ecstatic when she told me to cum, Id struggle with it more though if she wasn't getting off, I think I need her orgasm more than mine lol.

I don't really get much sub drop, it takes quite a few orgasms before that hits me.

Before chastity Id have probably more than a 1000 orgasms a year, now I have 50-100, which is still a lot more than most of you

 

18 days is my longest so far. My average lockup is about two weeks but i feel we'll be extending that with new year. We don't do ruins or edging not her thing. Some prostate stuff which she enjoys helps alot along way.

 

107 days is my current record, with no end in sight really...

I've gone full months before and have always felt relieved to finally be unlocked. Now that I've passed that mark three times over... it's hard to describe.

I was definitely going a bit crazy the first couple weeks of November. Then December seemed to go by in a flash. Now that it's a new year though, the reality of the situation is starting to dawn on me and chastity's beginning to bite again...

Also, definitely agree with other posters regarding anal. We do it so much, my wife's began to refer to pegging as just "having sex"; to us it goes with chastity like peanut butter goes with jam.

 

Average has been 6 weeks. K/H still enjoys PIV and takes Her cock out to play with when she wants. She has me use her much larger foxes on her first to insure she has multiple orgasms. Then only with a condom on, She does not like me leaving a mess inside of Her, She allows me inside of Her. Of course it does not last more than a minute or two at most and I am squirting inside the condom. I am sure the only reason She allows this is to remind me of how small I am and that I can not last long enough to satisfy Her.

 

Reading all your timelines is making my cage twitch. Im still new to this and currently in my longest duration without a full release, 7 weeks.

However, I had 3 ruins since Christmas, all in my cage. *And one around Thanksgiving.

Other than those, I can feel the weeks adding on and my desire for my wife has escalated and she isnt even aware Im locking up to reap the rewards. (Thats a whole other topic of discussion.)

 

The longest I've gone without orgasm is 23 days so far... Been trying to go longer and make it a whole month, but I've had 3 caged orgasms in the past 2 months and none of them were intentional. So, who knows how long I can really last at this rate.

 

I’m on day number 197

 

Two years to the day is the longest, but I did have two involuntary O's. They were when my mistress/kh was talking to me about her encounters with real men. I knew not to ask her for release as this would result in a longer period of being locked . I really wanted to be released until mistress told me I was going to be allowed to bring myself to an O. Then I felt reluctant and felt I was cheating and knew it was going to be a long time to the next O. I came within a minute and felt disappointed. For me It gives me a sense of loyalty and pride being denied and having my sexual masculinity revoked

 

It's been two weeks without an orgasm. the desire to cum disappeared. prostate stimulation without sperm secretion helped. night and morning erections do not weaken and do not disappear.
Let's see what happens next.