Keyholders holding multiple keys Dynamic?

It happens, but it's rare, because being a key-holder is a lot of work. A truly dominant and sadistic woman can pull it off (mainly because they don't do "the work", because you being locked is not their problem), but there just aren't that many dominant sadistic women who are clever enough to ensnare a man into chastity. But for a woman who really enjoys the whole thing, it would be possible to keep a handful of men.

As much extra work as I do now, and as much extra responsibility I've taken on, my wife does have it a bit easier than before chastity. But it's only "a bit", because menial chores are just brainless menial chores. Emotional stuff has always been and will continue to be the most draining, and no matter how much help and support I give her, the kids can still drain her faster in 30 seconds than work can drain her in 8 hours.

On top of that, men in chastity are needy. It's a different kind of needy, but it's needy. I'm shockingly vulnerable now, and for the first time in our marriage, I need her emotional support. (My testosterone is fine, thank you very much .) I'm not another kid for her to take care of, but I do have emotional needs now that only she is able to fill.

So for a woman who loves and takes care of her man (or men, in your question), it is hard work with one, but more than one is certainly possible. So with the right woman, and the right men, two would be pretty easy, and maybe up to four or so could be workable. I'm not aware of anyone on this site experiencing such a relationship, but it's worth asking.

 

Would it be off-putting for online subs for a keyholder to openly have a main sub she is in frequent physical contact with. Asking for a friend.

 

My Madam had other slaves, both online and irl. She was already a online dom when we began our bdsm/flr relationship, she would regularly have cam/phone sessions while I was there and it was only a couple of month later she began sessions with another slave.
She used to love to play games with us and have us compete to win the title of slave1 whoever lost would be labeled as slave2 for the rest of the week, Madam would announce the results on a Thursday while we chatted over aim, whoever won would get to serve her at the weekend.
I never met the other slave as he had no interest in having anything to do with another man in any bdsm or sexual scenario.
There were times when you would get jealous, but it really made you push your limits and focus on being submissive.

 

A Mistress has the submissives and slaves she wants.
A submissive or slave ONLY obeys and worships ONE Mistress.
A submissive or slave is just that, jealousy is unacceptable and must be corrected by the Mistress.
My humble opinion after years of experience as a slave.

 

What say you @sissyjoanne ?

 

I totally agree now I have had years of experience as a slave and behaviour correction/modification! But back then I was 21 and uneducated.

 

This is a reply to @SteveTheGoldfish, for some reason I cannot quote his message.


so did Madam she really wanted to play with both is together! But the other slave had a hard hard limit about doing things with other men.

 

My KH is my wife but she also has online sub that she acts as a Dom to. I haven't had any problem with it. Sort of fun to see how she can control and tease him over the Internet. It also adds to our chastity experience by coming up with ideas and talking about it

She can also fulfill his cuckold fantasies when I get a release and he does not without going down that whole lane for real.

I also think she gets something more from it as I am not the most submissive person around.

 

Having several men serving me at my beck and call is a delicious fantasy, but I suspect the reality of it is fraught with difficulty. For one thing, it's hard for me to separate key holding from the underlying relationship, and I don't want that sort of relationship with anyone other than hubby. Even if I somehow crossed that bridge, there's the fact that being a key holder is a lot of work. Well, maybe "work" is the wrong word. I enjoy it. But it does take time and attention, and those are already in short supply. Lastly, it seems like jealousy could be a significant problem.

Perhaps online would be easier since there are clearer boundaries. I've never done anything like that, but I imagine keeping several men aching for release would be quite the ego boost!

 

Hello Ms Pamela,

as you've done before with your writings, you've gained my attention. We've had some online contact before at another website, perhaps you might remember this?
If you're really interested into the idea of making your imagination to become online reality, I'd be willing (and also somehow frightened ) to help you on that.
I can remember some wonderful stories you've been writing about the life you've been giving your hubby. Please feel free to PM me if you want to give yourself an online experience of holding a key.

Kind regards, sj

 

In my experience, no.
I am sub to an online Domme who is acting as my 'virtual' KH. So far, we have been conducting this, really, on a trust basis but that is about to change. Thanks to modern technology, my online Mistress will be locking my keys away for real.
Mistress already has her hubby locked up and he is her main sub and, obviously, gets her physical attention while I am honouring her from thousands of miles away. I am sure you can imagine how much teasing/denial can be administered with this situation.
All I can say is that I feel lucky and honoured that such an awesome and gorgeous Domme woman would give me her time and attention. I absolutely adore her and am thankful to be her online sub.
I am not sure how I would feel if she took on another sub though. I think I might feel a little jealousy but, I am sure Mistress would put me in my place there too!
Off-putting? - No. I am experiencing new things with my situation all the time, thanks to my beautiful online Mistress.

 

Dueling dildos at dawn, may the best eunuch win her praise and esteem as her sub serviant slave for the day.

 

Yes! And the world also needs more males in chastity. I would be happy for my KH to have more male slaves but would not be cool with them touching her. I would be her foot photographer and if they wanted a scene done I will do it on their behalf. She is very understanding of the subs position, what they want to hear, etc.

 

Good point about the jealousy. I am sure any sub would want punished/whipped by Mistress to align their jealous moodiness rather than risk the relationship.

 

My wife and I are good friends with a couple who not only practice chastity, she is also my wife's bi lover and one who we introduced to chastity several years ago. Like me, he has trouble getting an erection with age and blood pressure medication and taking the miracle pills is hit and miss for him. Once I take a pill, two hours later I am ready for action and my wife will even slip it into a drink even if she has no intention of releasing me. When she does, I can still fulfill any wish and can do her twice in one night.

Now back top the other couple, sine he has trouble and she still has her desires, they introduced cuckolding into their relationship. This not only has helped him with more of an interest, but she get the pounding she likes from time to time. The young man they selected was a 20 year old guy from the health club her and my wife use. He is about 6'3. 190 pounds, and from what I am told 7" and think with a Prince Albert piercing. They have now been using him to satisfy her for the last 6 month and from what I understand has he doing thinks she never did before.

What started as fun then became a problem because he was sought after by lots of girls and gave into that temptation. After the 2nd time and having to delay any playing while a blood test came back, she gave him an ultimatum, its them or me. He swore loyalty to her and to prove a point asked him to take out his PA so she can slip a chastity combination lock where the piercing was installed. That has now evolved to a Glans PA cage and it only comes off when he is with her.

The Husband has been okay with this arrangement, not only does she let him out to play when he thinks he is responding, but he likes the fact the boy toy is locked up and can only have the one woman even if it his wife. The young guy knows he has an older experienced hot piece of ass who will unlock him every time he shows up to play, but he feels he is missing out from playing the field. She has made it quite clear he is a one woman man and if he want out its permanent and she will move on to a new playmate.