Locktober 2023

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    #51 titaniumjones, Sep 3, 2023
    omg - but well done
     
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    #52 titaniumjones, Sep 3, 2023
    Not to divert this thread onto talking about piercings, but, grom my own experience, don't rush the healing. You need to let it heal and then slowly expand it to about 5mm. Healing should be about 8 weeks between stretches (From memory)
     
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    #53 Curious40ish, Sep 4, 2023
    Friday 1st of September. I said to the wife in the middle of sex how would you feel if this was my last orgasm for the month? She said fine you get no more sex for the month. Yay.
    I will hope that I go September without another orgasm. If that becomes Locktober even better.
    Wife has a birthday in October so might get a reprieve then. My birthday in November so a month without orgasm will be my Wish.
    Here is to hoping I get what I wish for.
     
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    #54 true42, Sep 4, 2023
    I learned.
     
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    #55 Queens property, Sep 4, 2023
    I get to marry my Queen, @wifeofqueensproperty in October, I'm currently locked up until the wedding and we've got a badass21 cage on its way ready for her to make it permenant on the wedding day. So il be locked up to October and beyond
     
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    #56 NsToy, Sep 4, 2023
    Congratulations to you and @Wife of queens property on your upcoming wedding.
     
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    #57 titaniumjones, Sep 4, 2023
    I'm reading lots of comments from people who are permenently locked up, which is a hot fantasy. However, I personally would rather have a goal. For me the month of locktober is a great goal to aim for. The thrill of the denial followed by the love making and the reward at the end.
    Although this could lead to more denial
     
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    #58 TMO, Sep 5, 2023
    I'd really like to get involved with locktober with my partner this year, just need to convince my partner to take part.

    Any other useful resources other than happy-marriage.neocities before I plan to share, as mentioned earlier in this thread by another member?

    Slight bridge to overcome....my partner prefers me to be the dominant one in the bedroom. So it's convincing her this dynamic could still work. So any further resources that could potentially make this less daunting for her would be wonderful.
     
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    #59 vengash, Sep 5, 2023
    That makes me giggle. I'd rename it to "Airplane Mode" - you know, like on our cell phones. Aside, the positive information flow over the internet probably isn't so keen.
     
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    #60 Dr MBogo, Sep 5, 2023
    Well, as it has been for the last 5 years, Locktober is just another month for us. Although, my wife/KH does seem to try a little harder to come up with new ideas for our sex life during October. Good luck to all!
     
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    #61 M@rcellus, Sep 5, 2023
    My Mistress has been enjoying taking the lead in the bedroom anyway but I have started reflexology which she seems to love. It's too early to say about whole body benefits but it at least seems to be a very pleasurable and varied foot massage for her. I think she also likes the effort and acceptance I'm putting in to being her slave with this. It does tend to make her sleepy and relaxed so much of the other stuff we do might fall off the end including her night time oral last night. There's also a sense between us that this new position may mean complete or near permanent chastity for me, with pegging etc. becoming a rare event. It's a show of devotion I recommend.
     
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    #62 GC1965, Sep 5, 2023
    Myself and my wife have been toying with chastity, more as foreplay, for a while. So far the longest lockup has been about a week and that was mostly self locking. Mentioned Locktober last year but the idea was shut down

    About a week ago I locked myself up, but this time she has been getting into it more - last 4 days of sex I've remained locked (which has been great).

    I jokingly asked her tonight if she was warming up for Locktober to which she replied...


    Locktober, NOvember, Denial December, jog on January and Fuck off February, all with a grin....

    Cage got very tight at the idea...
     
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    #63 titaniumjones, Sep 7, 2023
    Nice!
    Made me laugh
     
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    #64 titaniumjones, Sep 7, 2023
    So, I'm starting a practice run for Locktober, so far I'm on day 4 of my practice.
    My goal for this session is 14 day.
     
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    #65 BaphometLover, Sep 7, 2023
    While nowhere near as impressive as many of you, this will be my 3rd Locktober. Once again my wife will hold my keys, and we plan to make the most of it (photos and all)!

    Perhaps the biggest change is that this will be the first year I've been back in the poly dating pool, and will need to explain to potential partners the situation haha.
     
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    #66 true42, Sep 7, 2023
    I'm just glad my wife has never heard of Loctober.

    I really like sex, and getting to cum sometimes is still fine by me.

    She really doesn't need to know that she can lock me up for a month or two straight ...
     
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    #67 Locked_Koala, Sep 7, 2023
    I’ve mentioned it in years past but she was never receptive to the whole month. Now actually having a cage that fits, reading that neocities link and more experience, and it looks like she is going for the full 90 day lock up for October, November, and December.

    I just realized that I’m looking at my last orgasm for the year in the next few weeks.
     
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    #68 Thomas Gangman, Sep 7, 2023
    with the way the weekends fall, I will be locked up on Sunday the 24th and may not get released until Thanksgiving Eve. The one promise, on Nov 3 we will be hosting a Halloween Party and if all goes well with planning and execution I will be pegged until I start flowing. Of course, I will be at her beckon call to please her, but nothing in return except lots of teasing, cuddling, and no release.
     
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    #69 titaniumjones, Sep 8, 2023
    Yes I agree.... I know what you mean.....
    On an entirely unrelated subject, what's your wife's email address please?
     
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    #70 Slave Richard, Sep 8, 2023
    After speaking with miss and asking if we will be taking part this year. She all excited yes you bet we are and what about no nut November. I was taken aback as it normally me that has to push for her to do more as she can because very nervous about not doing right even though I told her there's nothing to mess up.
     
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    #71 titaniumjones, Sep 9, 2023
    Congratulations
     
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    #72 titaniumjones, Sep 9, 2023
    Get ready! 3 weeks to go to the start of Locktober.
    If you are not already practicing.... best get started or it's gonna be tough.
    Best to ease into it.....
     
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    #73 Ganondorf, Sep 9, 2023
    KH and I talked about it today. She brought it up. The question we had for each other is what level are we talking about. Full lock up with zero time out of cage? Out for cleanings only. Caged orgasms only? Got a few weeks to figure it out.
     
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    #74 M@rcellus, Sep 9, 2023
    Good god man, we've been "practicing" for 4 months! And my keyholder is away on holiday for 2 weeks at the start of it so not even a supportive cuddle during this time. It's going to be hell. Good thread btw, very encouraging

    See my comment above. Complete chastity I suggest.
     
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    #75 Susanstoy91, Sep 10, 2023
    I'm in...Like I have a choice...Locktober, LockMay, LockJune...All the same now...:)
     
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