Why do we want male chastity to be normalised...

I like my position ... my condition. There's nothing derogatory that could be said about it. I'm totally, completely, 100% ok with being "pussywhipped", and I assume anyone attempting to make fun of it in a derogatory manner is just jealous (poor schmuck). Had I known how awesome this is, I'd have gotten down on my knees and begged for it the moment that we got married, and maybe even before.

 

Yes, admittedly, I stand in awe outside the gates of this wonderfully unattainable paradise of obsequious self-effacement, where happily uxorious men are giddy with submissive delight!
Why can't I be one of you?

 

Even though I do get out once in a while, I am still permanently in chastity 24/7. I did not want to take the cage off when we went through the airport, if I was on my own I may risk it, but with teenagers, no thanks.

If I went for a massage I would prefer to stay locked, especially as it could be arousing. It's not like I can knock one out and have an empty before, so in my mind a hard-on would be more embarrassing than the cage I'm proud to wear.

Doctor's office? I've not spoken explicitly yet, but have mentioned that I don't come as often as I used to when talking about a potentially related issue. It is important to be open with your doctors just in case there is something that you might have overlooked.

 

All men must have locked his cock in chastity Cage and his girlfriend / wife shall be liable to maintain it. I think 90% of world's problem will vanish by just giving the man's cock and balls to the girl. The girl just OWN it. It's not his it's her. It is just placed on his body. That's how it should be.

By owning his cock and no more control for him , girls can live peacefully and with confidence. She is happy to look after the chastity and no worries for cheating. The woman can bring him into the line as per her wish. She can enjoy her full self. And to mention , the girl can cuckold him if he doesn't satisfy her as she deserves to be pleasured. Moreover , if he doesn't obey her commands she can just lock his penis for months and can use it to blackmail him and other humiliation stuff in order to hear her full commands.

By locking his cock the woman is the ultimate decider of everything. From his chores , duties and behaviour to clothes , beauty etc. She should have the power to even not to let him us the toilet and if she allows , how should he urinates.

Chastity will also help women in divorce cases to get maximum profit out of him. I think she shall control him with the chastity key even after the break up

 

You may be right, but the idea is absurd in reality and belongs in works of erotic fiction as wank fodder for the currently uncaged.

 

Yes also a significant proportion of cage wearers are gay men so this complicates your fantasy matriarchal utopia somewhat.

 

Did you jerk yourself silly to your little fantasy?

 

https://www.chastitymansion.com/forums/index.php?threads/chastity-on-netflix.48494/

 

The reason I want it normalized is so that someone doesn't feel bad for wanting to be in chastity.

To know that they're not broken, sick or deranged. That it's okay to have this desire, this want.

That is perfectly okay and acceptable to have these thoughts, these needs, this type of desire.

Iso.

 

I am broken, sick, and deranged.

 

Oh! Is this the new me too movement? I'm in!

 

Chastity is normal. Tease and denial aren’t new. Maybe cages are relatively new, but lots of people have mixed feelings of shame and excitement about sex toys - whether it is a cage, a flesh light, a dildo or vibrator or something else. Lots of people don’t know what chastity is, and maybe are mildly amused by it.

 

So do you

So do you apply this reasoning to all forms of BDSM, or do you hold a separate place for the chastity device fetish?

 

Mainly so I dont have to explain it to anyone. Esp security, airport, nude beaches, gym etc etc. I want it as normalized as possible so I dont have to think twice in some situations about been seen locked etc

 

We know if you are present and exposing your gun we know circumstances are not good, but what if your cage is exposed? Just wondering, you write well.

 

A reasonable statement I’m 5 years caged, dry glad to be but I was not inclined to make it public. My wife and I decided to tell my urologist Whois a really cool guy, so she and I are in the exam room discussing what to say and we start laughing you know belly laughs and he walks in and we all start laughing, I’m laughing now just thinking about it.

 

I think the desire for Mainstreaming chastity is really a version of the exhibitionist fetish.

It certainly is for me. If no one knows I am locked, it's not much fun. We read countless posts of eager lockees looking for keyholders. WHY? Can't they click the lock themselves? Of course we all can. (…)
So if chastity is "mainstream" it isn't that we want it to be common, it's that we want some plausible way to expose ourselves as being chaste.[/QUOTE]
For me, whose beloved wife, refuses to lock me, moreover, refuses to sleep or hug with me locked, it would’ve been a chance that she would agree to it if it is on the mocies, literature, news… i couldn’t click the lock myself when I woukd like to. I coulnd have key in her earrings.

 

Your post was interestng enough to read it once more, that I did

 

All we have to do is get added to the mighty LGBTQIA+ power group and we are golden... LGBTQIA"C".

 

Because it makes many -- granted, not all -- relationships better. Wishing that chastity becomes widespread is like wishing that everyone has good food to eat. Again, granted, not everyone cares about food, but many of us do.

 

Except that chastity isn't a gender identity or sexual orientation. It's a fetish

You wouldn't add BDSM to LGBT+ would you?

 

well really i am glad that a lot of men are not lock up in a cage.

 

Whilst I absolutely wouldn't want to misappropriate the LGBGTQI+ celebration that is Pride - it would be fun to have some sort of celebration to announce to the world "YES, she locks up my cock!". I'm not into BDSM or the community - not really my thing, but would be fun if chastity could be normalized in an event for consenting adults.