Hello everyone. I am not new around here per say but my last attempts at chastity didn’t last long and it has been 5 years since I made my first attempt at Chastity here on the forums. I figured I would reintroduce myself and really try to give this an honest attempt this time around. Back in early 2018 I bought my first device. My wife was pretty conservative (and still is) so she wasn’t thrilled with the idea, but she wasn’t opposed to it either. I tried my best, however, at the time I was hovering around 300lbs. The excess skin from all that weight caused a burning sensation at the base of my ring even just having it on for a few minutes. I tried a few different sizes, but larger ones gave more room for my skin to rub and smaller ones were too tight. It also doesn’t help that I suffer from a major porn addiction. Back then I didn’t want to wear the cage for her, I wanted to wear it as an extension of my own personal fetishes. Between the pain from my base ring, the fetishistic intentions coming from the wrong place, and her lack of enthusiasm that was pretty much the end of it. I have since lost over 70lbs, and a few months back while she was out of the house I saw my cage in our bag of toys. I decided to try it on again, and to my surprise an hour passed, then two, then three. The burning never started! I tried a few more times wearing it off and on, and again no issue! Now onto the fun part. Yesterday I started coming onto madam, but she really wasn’t in the mood. I was a little disappointed, but my mind quickly jumped tracks. I have matured a lot in the last five years, and I want to break the cycle of comer brain that has plagued me since I was a teen. “Maybe we could try this again.” I thought to myself. As I mentioned previously my wife is still pretty conservative, but she has also changed, and grown a lot sexually. I felt like there was a good chance she would be much more receptive to the idea. So, I gave her a kiss on the forehead and said I understood, then headed towards the bedroom door. “Why are you leaving?” She asked. “You aren’t upset are you? Are you going to masturbate?” “No, just grabbing something” I replied I walked to my office where I had hidden the Holy Trainer V2, and slipped it on. I pulled my shorts back up, grasped the keys in my hand, and took a deep breath before returning to the bedroom. “Here, take these and hide them from me. I don’t want to know where they went.” I handed her the keys and she looked at me confused. “What are these for?” She asked. “Me!” I replied with a little laugh. Pulling down my shorts to reveal my locked up member. She gasped a little and gave me a devious smile. We talked about it briefly and she seemed to be much more enthusiastic this time around. I have now been locked up for about 20 hours. No burning, no pain, and I think the realization still hasn’t quite set in. I have no idea how long it will be until she unlocks me. All I know is this time things will be quite a bit different. Anyway. I know this probably reads a bit dramatically, but I really want this. I have been struggling for years with a pretty major porn addiction and I want to break the cycle. I am tired of it all and I just want to put her desires first.
Thank you all so much for the warm welcome back! I can't wait to see where this journey leads and hopefully will make some friends here along the way.
It went surprisingly well! I was really exhausted from the day though so that probably helped. I pretty much took a long hot shower and passed out haha. But yeah, only had one erection bad enough to wake me up in the middle of the night and I needed to use the restroom any way. So I just sat down to pee and went straight back to bed. Today has been a lot easier than yesterday at work as well. Yesterday I couldn't stop thinking about my cage which kept leading to erections. Today I have tried really hard to just throw myself into my job though and been able to mostly keep my mind off of it. (except when I would hop on here to check for updates to my post at least lol.) There is a little bit of tenderness forming around the base of the ring but it is nothing like it was the last time I tried this. I think I may go get some baby powder tonight to sprinkle on it since it seems to get worse if I start sweating.
I've used baby powered it helps. I've also used a bit of lotion if there was some rubbing. Usually only have to do it once and in good. I'm interested in your thoughts day to day. I've been trying to see my patterns and how I change with each day of chastity.
Well I'm happy to share them for sure. Just passed 50 hours locked with no breaks (personal best). Probably going to take a shower, use some lotion, and after it drys put on a bit of powder. What kind of thoughts were you wanting me to comment on?
Welcome back and that is pretty cool way to introduce your wife to chastity, my wife though I was crazy when I told her that I bought a chastity cage, I put it on and showed it to her she said it looked like it hurt. I told her it didn't and the encasing my penis in the cage actually made me more horny and want her but it took her a couple of weeks to take my keys
I'm just hoping she decides to really go for it this time. I'm a little over 4 days locked up now and I don't see any signs of it coming off any time soon. I'm fine if it never comes off, but I want to pleasure her and the last few days she really hasn't been in the mood for anything sexual.
I think I will bring it up to Madam, she had to let me out last night due to some chafing and a small abrasion on the back of my sack. I really want to upgrade to something a bit smaller and more modern. Edit: If anyone is interested in following/supporting me I have started a Journal thread HERE. I will still check this thread and reply to people but I will be posting updates there instead.