Quick question

i’ve only been locked up for 40 days so far. is that what i have to look forward to?

 

Yes. It’s fairly common it happens to me, it’s not permanent though if your left out of chastity for a few days it will soon return to normal.

 

This has been my experience as well. It's almost like your cock has forgotten how to regain an erection after having been locked up for so long. And then once it's released, it goes back to, "Oh, yeah, that's how it's done."

 

Yes, it takes me a little more time to get hard. However, the anticipation of release and foreplay can greatly diminish this time interval.
Also I agree that a day or two of supervised release, or even an occasional release while sleeping followed by daytime lock ups will keep your rooster normal

 

Same happens with me. After countless failed efforts by the penis to push against the cage to try to get erect, it makes our little penises soul crushed. When it's finally free the spirit of our tiny penises is already broken so it would act limp and floppy for a few days. But eventually it gets normal

 

I've been locked for most of the last few years often with weekly unlocks for sexy fun times, and some long continuous locks of months scattered in it.

No issues getting hard or staying hard. When I have experienced difficulties in the past it's been mental issues like stress, too much work to do, or plain old performance anxiety due to excessive buildup to the big event.

When we first started down the road of chastity we discussed long locks and potential performance difficulties when released, and I think that removed the performance anxiety associated with being released.

If you are concerned then a visit to your doctor will likely help.

 

I’d been having erection issues for some time, before chastity, I am 68 now. Cialis has been very helpful. You may want to consider your age.

 

I just use some generic viagra, yes it still takes a bit longer than before chastity even with viagra. But once there it stays hard for long enough. Being 57 tho probably expect that.

That said I used to get hard almost immediately after cage came off just the thought of being played with made me hard, now I do usually have to give it a bit of attention to get it hard.

My partner always lets me stay out for the night and I always wake up with a rock hard cock in the morning following and that happens with no stimulation, usually so hard it almost hurts.

lucky my partner allows let me look at her bottom while I get a extra orgasm before it goes
Back in the cage sometimes I’ll get lucky with a quickly

 

as for my experince, really difficolut to have erection anymore. i guess is pretty commen

 

I used to use generic Viagra and I am in my 70's. Does take awhile to kick in but still do not get very hard or erect so we no longer waste money on it. I am just kept orgasm free minus the occasional ruined orgasm gone too far. I have not had PIV, TIV, FIV or anything in vagina in over 20 years. The most I ever get is a mechanical disinterested handjob while my nipples are on fire with tight clips and my balls are being crushed.

 

I agree with JaysaysYes. Stress can have an impact on sex 100%. I've experienced it. While we have only been locked since January 1, each time we have had sexy time, I've not had an issue getting erect once released. It's like a jack in the box actually. Typically after I've pleased her with my hands, I'm hard when she peaks. Then a little missionary grinding and I'm fighting the steel. Unlocking it and it's hard so fast I can't get the ring off. Ill spin the post to the bottom under my balls and we are ready for PIV and extremely intense orgasms.

 

I am curious what your age is @Caged for life and most of the other posters here as well( that haven't already said) as I think that is a big factor. I am not locked that long of a stretch but I am 39 and immediately become erect when she unlocks me.

 

I am not supposed to orgasm at all but sometimes my wife forgets to let go of my penis and I did orgasm. However it was not satisfying or worth it. Took a long time to cum and nothing ejaculated. Now my wife keeps me locked during sex and at all times even for doctor visits. My doc has seen my cage during prostate exams and said he has seen it all anyway so no problem. Since my orgasms are not satisfying we now take precautions to prevent even accidental ones. I am locked at all times 24/7/365 so no chance to orgasm.

 

If you want help staying hard, try leaving your base ring on.

 

Maybe you’re just conditioned now to stay locked and limp, even for a while when the cage comes off. I’ve experienced times when I couldn’t maintain an erection while trying to prepare for my Wife to use me, but as soon she touches the penis, it starts to spring to life and is fine. I’m on TRT and usually in the 1400’s plus I take cialis regularly, yet apparently mentally I’ve conditioned myself to only be aroused when my Wife is involved directly.
It’s not always the case, but I’ve had spells like this at times over the years of wearing the cage. I think it depends how submissive my mind set is at the time.
Lately as soon as she removes my cage we have to hurry and get the base ring off before it gets too hard, so it’s clearly a state of mind thing.
I’d bet it’s something similar you’re experiencing, especially if this is maybe your longest lockup or something, or it’s become more serious or your Wife has become more strict.

 

I'm a year older than you and I this only happened to me once. I panicked about it and worried and for me it was all in my head. When I quit with my worry, it was fine. When she says go, I'm usually erect so fast I cannot get the base ring off in time so it becomes a cock ring.

It might not hurt to schedule some time out of the cage and get your head out of the way to see what happens.

 

Yup happens to me too, I hate it and it’s so damn annoying. If I’m out for a few hours or a day and I’ve had enough stimulation my erections come back stronger. In the past my wife would unlock me, we would have whatever form of sex she wanted to have and then I’d lock back up. More recently I’ve noticed more clusters of sexual interaction between us versus just the one and done we normally do between lockups. Lately right after she unlocks me she’ll try to make cum in seconds, then shortly after or later in the day she’ll allow me PIV sex which is much better for both of us. I’m liking this new routine and I hope it keeps up.

On occasion I’ll take viagra just because it makes me crazy hard but my wife likes spontaneity so there’s not always time to take one.