Swimming in Public ???

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    Summer time is approaching and I’m fairly new to being caged (less than 1 year). How do others go swimming without a large cage imprint showing through your wet trunks? - do I wear tight fitting underwear with my trunks? Or do I ask my KH for temporary freedom?
     
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    I recently found a good method. Use zebra patterns or something similiar that camoflages forms.
     
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    You are far more aware of it than others will be, just get on with it
     
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    Years ago I was on a swim team. We always had a jock strap under our swim suit.
     
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    Why?
     
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    Was never told why. Looking back, I assume it was for modesty.
     
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    I agree, patterned speedos do a good job of camouflaging the bulge. Obviously the smaller the cage the better.
     
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    This rule applies always.;)
     
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    I actually do not see the problem as long as you do not wear speedos. At least my cage that wearing some jeans (regular fit).
    Beeing in a pool with other people though - depending on the situations - might be rather making sure noone comes in contact with it and feels that there is something hard.
     
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    When did it happen the last time that a stranger hit your speedo zone?
    Doesn't happen, don't worry.
     
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    I do not worry - don't be afraid.. ;)

    I am just saying that this risk is higher than someone staring at your speedo zone and realizing that there is a cb under your 0815 swimming shorts.

    As for someone touching your spedozone it would not happen doing lanes it would not happen for sure. And you are right that people usually kep a certain distance. Usually - not always.
    There come zwo situations to my mind where it could happen - at least to some of the younger folk.
    1. Have you been at the poolbar of some partyhotel ? While you usually would keep a certain distance to each other everywhere else it can be so crowded that at times you can not avoid touching other people accidently.
    2. Fooling around in a pool with friends, splashing with water an at some point even pushing someone uder water someone might come into contact.

    This is not likely to happen as I am not in my 20s anymore, but someone actually spotting a cb unter your cloth ? To me that is even more unlikely....
     
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    Seems to be a comfortable environment. Maybe a cb wouldn't create much drama.
     
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    Wife requires I wear a jock strap. They do a great job hiding the outline of the cage.

    I have been wearing them to the beach/swimming for about 9 years
     
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    My two thoughts on this are:

    A) who hits your speedo zone accidentally? Kids. If you're playing around in the pool with your kids (or like in my case) nephews, you do need to be minorly careful.

    B) I've found the bathing suits with the built in "boxer briefs" (as opposed to the mesh "brief style) seem to work better for me? The only time you have to worry about an unintentional outline I've found is when getting out of the pool, when the material tends to be clingy.
     
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    I’m not worried about someone bumping into me. If they do, I’m not too concerned. I just don’t want to have wet shorts that stick and leave lil room for the imagination. I wear a metal MM cage w/padlock. It’s not the most discreet with shape. Even with just dry underwear, it’s obvious I’m wearing a locked cage. I don’t want this to happen with wet shorts.
     
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    I guess if your swimming trunks are kinda tight, this might be a problem. Most men's swim trunks here in the states have quite a bit of material. My cage has a padlock on the front also. It's more difficult to fully conceal in jeans than it is in my wet swimsuit. I've been to the beach many, many times with family and so far no one has noticed. If they did, my wife would have heard about it from one of my daughters. Again, it's been said perviously on this thread, few people are going to look directly at your crotch long enough to puzzle over what that bulge is if there is one discernable. Anyone who does likely is familiar with chastity and will do so out of curiosity to confirm it.
     
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    I wear swim thongs. They support the cage the best ever.
    When in a crowded place just put a swim short over it. when not and at a quite place/time at the beach just go for it
     
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    When at the beach go loose and wear a heavy jock strap. It smooths things out. As far as getting a dick tap….. who cares your in a cage for a reason and the reason is yours. Besides keep them guessing. Wait till they see Mistresses key
     
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    I agree, I don’t care if someone accidentally bumps into me and feels it. I really doubt anyone would say anything anyways. My mistress wears her key publicly on a necklace. No one even has a clue what it is.
     
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    Bunny B you are exactly right. We live the life and that’s us
     
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    Does no one else go super high and tight when in water at the pool or beach?
     
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    I went to a swimming pool locked just once but there was no way a stranger could tell that I wear cage unless he would know what chastity cage is and specifically looksl for anyone locked. And in this case, who cares?
     
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    Loose swimming shorts and don’t worry about it
     
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    My cages have all been relatively small and smooth, so there has never been any issues.

    Plus being somewhat embarrassed about my size, I have long ago mastered the art of doing a quick adjustment to trunks as soon as I exit the water so as to not cling to my privates. Same principle with cage. I am in the USA however, and swim trunks are mostly baggy long shorts that easily conceal everything once the adjustment is made by pulling them away and it’s not clinging.
     
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