What other things are you denied?

I’m denied almost all contact with pussy, The only thing I am allowed it to taste her off her own fingers. I’m also have all location options activated on my phone and I also have a tile tag on my belt permanently and we’re looking at a apple tag collar at the moment. We watch porn together so that’s never bothered my Madam. Also madam expects me to not be online when we’re together, unless she is watching something I have no interest in, then I’m allowed to surf as to not bother her or put her off her show.

 

I had GF that wanted to know my location all of the time.

t was fine for a while, kinda cute, but eventually I ended that shit and told her; Not with you.

Best decision I made.

 

We have been sharing location since we met, never had a problem because never been anywhere I shouldn't be.

Her toys a locked away like the wand as well as anything else that vibrates, too easy and quick to make use of that, also the tens unit. She allows the anal toys, but I have been told that might be taken away some point in the future.

Not really denied anything else, she is good to me

 

I cant eat her delicious pussy anymore.

 

This is so true about a women’s “sixth sense “…I’ve been trying to channel all my sexual energy to my Goddess and this practice has brought me to a place of real happiness and understanding!
Being in a Loving FLR, and strengthening our love, commitment, and being Chaste has been a spiritual experience beyond our dreams.

 

My wife locked me as a method to stop me from smoking, so I was denied both cigarettes and orgasms.

At that time, I was rewarded for using a vape by having time removed from lockup. My wife is now heavily controlling my vape usage.

A few weeks ago we went to a party, I had a few drinks and ended up smoking a couple of cigs. That resulted in an instant 30 days added to lockup. So, for me, it is orgasm denial and nicotine denial.

 

My answer depends on when i am locked. If i am locked when W/we are not in a full-time FLR, touching myself is the only absolute denial. When W/we are in a full FLR, being locked is one of many denials. Others include being denied the ability to: sit on furniture and get in bed without being invited, decide what to wear, go anywhere without Her permission, close the bathroom door while peeing (Goddess hates shit so She requires that i close the door when doing that), decide when to go to bed, buy anything without Her permission, and decide what to watch on tv. Punishments will involve a LOT more denials but this post is far enough off topic already.

 

I’m no longer allowed men’s boxers or underwear. I also have to ask for permission to touch her feet.

 

I need to get permission to travel or to spend time with friends. Also, she doesn't like last minute surprises, so I need to generally let her know of my tentative plans well in advance. Regarding my travel requests, she rejects most of it -- but that is her right and it's my obligation to respectfully accept her decisions without complaint. I want her to know that her opinion is valued, and she enjoys having some control over my schedule (particularly the parts that might be away from her), so having to ask her for permission has worked out well, and it serves to remind me of what is most important to me (she is!) and who is to be obeyed without question (she is!)

Of course, it does make some work things much more complicated (my travel is 99% work stuff), but it is what it is, and that's my problem to figure out.

 

Not allowed to wear any clothes to bed. Not allowed to touch her pussy without permission.

 

At home and certain other places I’m not allowed on furniture unless specifically invited. I’m not allowed to drink sodas or eat junk food. I don’t have privacy. No closed doors She has access to any password I have and She will randomly sign into things. The only real thing that is hard is not being allowed sweets. I don’t have a sweet tooth I have 32 of them. Part of that is She said I spend too much time focused on exercise to eat them. To keep up a certain aesthetic to get back to how I feel like my body should look(vanity is my deadly sin). Part of it is She enjoys watching me drool when I see sweets at restaurants and such.

 

Smart woman

 

#normallife

 

I'm not even sure how people sleep with clothes on to begin with. I've been sleeping naked since I was a teenager and it seems like the perfectly natural way to be in bed.

 

I agree

 

Check out these poll results on sleeping naked and vote if you haven't already.

 

While I have lots of rules to follow, such as not eating before her, as her submissive I'm not really denied things. On the contrary, I'm remarkably well taken care of.

I also am denied clothes in Mistress presence, and especially in her bed.

I quit smoking before she collared me, however I've had the urge to smoke a cigarette every now and again and this is strictly forbidden.

I don't receive oral pleasure from her.

Even when granted a release, it's in the way she decides, and I'm not ever allowed to masturbate. That is 100% denied.

 

Yeah this too. When we started down this path she made it clear that she didn't like blowjobs, and if She was in control, I'd never have another.

Also, no masterbation. She told me that it would almost feel like betrayal at this point.

 

Same here. And no self stimulation of any kind such as playing with my nipples or scrotum, nor vibrating my cage. She teases me frequently and gets very aroused by it; it's foreplay for her. Any self stimulation is cheating her!

 

My KH just prohibited me from drinking alcohol anymore last night. We’ve been off and on with chastity for a while and I remarked to Her this morning that if She’s serious about me not being allowed to drink I need Her to also be serious about enforcing my chastity. Since COVID, I’ve drank too much and quitting will be better for me, but it will not be easy. I’m hoping that combining abstinence with chastity will both make me healthier and further our journey/growth in our budding FLR. Wish me luck!

 

Congratulations! This sounds very familiar. It was hard. I had gotten to the point I was having at least two drinks a day. I feel so much better. I'm back running with my 13 year old.

I couldn't have done it any other way. Grateful to my wife for knowing and caring about what is best for me.

 

Yep, orgasms, erections, PIV, self pleasure. I'm expected to be totally chaste.

I'm also not allowed to touch her pussy or breasts unless she initiates things. She also restricts my drinking and tells me when I'm allowed alcohol.

 

I am not allowed to touch her unless she initiates. I am also denied clothing when home. No underwear ever. She also doesn't let me see her naked unless she says so. I can't even use the bathroom if she is showering. I now use the guest bathroom all the time.