Any long distance chaste relationships?

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    Wondering if any, and how many of the locked people on here do it in a long distance relationship? Any recommendations or advice for others?

    My amazing girlfriend of a year and I started really practicing full chastity about 3 weeks ago. We see each other usually every other weekend and a Wednesday night in the middle. Im locked in a Cellmate 2, and she is the KH on the app. Another week and I can go into hardcore mode where I give 100% of the control and emergency control to her. (Looking forward to it). She keeps me locked whenever we’re not together. She’s still mainly vanilla, but she’s very open minded and willing to try most stuff. She mentioned how attentive and willing to do more of the small things she is thankful that I do.
     
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    Do you have any reservations? That first time relinquishing complete control is a little intimidating!
     
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    Not one bit. By far the most trustworthy person I’ve had in my life aside from my family. I’m happy.
     
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    I don't have experience with long distance and chastity, but I could certainly see it working assuming it's a trusting relationship and the two of you can communicate about it well.

    Just 3 weeks of full chastity feels a little quick to jump into the "hardcore" mode you describe. My experience with in person relationships and chastity was to progress much slower than that, but every relationship is different. In line with the other recent post about the importance of emergency keys, I'd at least caution to keep an emergency key accessible for actual emergencies.
     
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    Sorry no familiarity with long distance.
     
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    i have a Keypod with an emergency key in it. I can get into it if I need to. It alerts her that I unlocked it. So the accountability is still there. I’m on day 42 I believe. I’ve been out for cleaning and three occasions where she wanted PIV.
     
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    That keypod sounds like a good setup.

    Sorry I don't have more advice for long distance, but I'm glad to hear it's working out!
     
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