Need Help with Your New Year’s Resolutions?

I’m considering taking subs to ensure compliance with their own resolutions. I’ve begun work as a primary care provider, and as a result, I don’t have a lot of extra time anymore.You will be the low “man” on the totem pole. But the reason I chose this profession is because I like helping people.

I also like making people a victim of their own desires, and I find that those who long for chastity play do comply with my instructions for their self improvement.

I am strict. I demand verification photos regularly.

If you’re interested, message me and explain why this is important to you, what your goals are, what your obstacles are, and why you think I would be able to help.

If I do decide to do this, the ideal candidate will not be high maintenance. They will be willing to provide proof of disciplinary compliance as required by me. They will check in with me at least twice per day.

The best resolutions for this will be weight loss, exercise, diet, or all of the above. I can help with diet plans/nutrition to help with weight loss, or for appropriate and healthy weight gain. The goal would not be to stick to a strict diet, but if applicable, it would be to help change your relationship with food. I can also help design an exercise program to help you meet goals in a responsible, lasting way.

I am a medical provider, but it’s important to know that this is NOT medical advice. I will be doing my “deep dive” with potential candidates, which can take as long as 20 hours to get a complete understanding of our compatibility and to devise an appropriate strategy, but no part of my Domme play will be a replacement for seeing your doctor. I recommend that you check with your physician before starting a new diet or exercise program.

 

Just in case I wasn't clear when I said, "If I do decide to do this, the ideal candidate will not be high maintenance." This is a couple of messages from someone who I messaged about 3 times.

After a couple messages:

Him: Is that ok ?

Me: Calm down. We have time.

When did you start [redacted for his privacy]?

Him: I’m not up tight.

Him: I first started in [redacted].

Him: Hello ?

Me: You sound needy. If you read my thread, you'll know that I am busy with my family medical practice. I work 4 12-hour shifts each week. When I get home, I check this forum, but I don't do much unless it's one of the other Dommes, a woman needing my advice, or one of my subs.

You say you're not uptight, but when I don't reply, you say, "Hello?"

I also said in my thread I wouldn't take anyone who is needy. A patient man would have waited for me to respond.

Goodbye. I've decided not to continue with you

Him: Erm No!
Your online but choose to reply to me 30 plus hours later, I hope you treat your patients more professional.

you’ve done me a favour, probably with that same attitude you can’t find someone in real life, just cyber! Pathetic!!


time waster!

Me: HHAHAHA! Here I'm a Domme. I'm above you. I'm better than you here. It's the dynamic of this kink.

Someone who is keeping an eye on my activity, wondering why I'm not replying is FUCKING NEEDY.

What part of "low man on the totem pole," (which is also in my post) did you not fucking understand?

You only think I'm a time waster because you're a maladjusted self-serving crybaby.

So just be aware that I'm a time waster who can't get a real sub in real life, (despite the fact that I married the best one) and I HAVE to come here to get subs.

Truth is, I love it here. I love talking to men who love dominant women. And it's not really because I think I'm better than anyone here, but I can use an aggressive way of speaking that is typically frowned upon in society. If I've run you down in the past, or if I've come across as very domineering and aggressive, it's because I'm having a great time with you. It may not feel like it, but this is fun. And not in a way that I feel as though I'm playing a part, but I feel like I can be taken seriously for my genuine thoughts and impulses. If I speak aggressively to you, it's mostly because I enjoy speaking with you, and I want to affect you in some way. Those who really bother me, I just ignore.

I have full respect for a man who I can say the meanest things to, and he holds his tongue, then carries on the conversation as if my outburst wasn't an actual threat. If this guy had responded differently, I may have found another way in. This way, he would know I'm not putting up with his impatience, but he also knows that I'm forgiving, and I can let things stay in the past. But he chose to pout, instead. I cannot accept that.

 

I would never out someone here or anywhere else unless they started stalking me, (which I thought was beginning to happen here with one person who kept creating new accounts to talk to me after I’d asked him to stop messaging me). I expect a certain level of anonymity, and that is what I offer.

 

I’m hoping others will see this and find value in it before messaging me or another Domme on here. If we scold you, take your lumps, apologize, and be a grownup.

 

I was the one who dodged a bullet with this one.