I started my chastity journey 13 days ago to cure myself of excess masturbation. I was masturbating like 5 times a day, my 2 friends have volunteered to hold me to my goal , last Friday I was let out for 30 minutes to have a quick jerk and to shower with the cage off for cleaning. I am looking forward to it Friday , to touch my cock again, this week has be a frustrating as I have wanted to jerk several times but unable to which my cage has reminded me
Second unlock for a quick but sweet jerk and cleaning went well. By the time Friday night rolls around I am biting at the bit to get unlocked so I can wrap my hand around my cock and bring life back to my guy. My friends can tell how anxious I am to get the cage off.
Was looking so forward to being unlocked tomorrow but sadly I was informed that my friend holding the key is on vacation and won't be back until next week, guess I will be more grateful to be unlocked next week, just not sure how I am going to manage not masturbating for more than a week, my balls all ready ache after 6 days gonna be torture waiting 14 days
Are you sure your friend is genuine in helping you ween off masturbation habit..? Friends can be jokers when it comes to sexual tricks like this.. he may intentionally lose the key.. or expect an exchange of reward for him.. or worst insist on a sexual treat for himself..
I was told that he will be back on Tuesday and will be released then for 30 minutes and then again on Friday for 30 minutes for cleaning and masturbating session.
My imagination is running wild.. why does he have to monitor you cleaning? Masturbating session? You two masturbate together..? Or he watches you masturbate alone.? Does he overmasturbate too? Do you control each other’s excessive masturbation? How about a chastity on him too..? When both are in masturbatory mode.. who is doing the monitoring? He wont be doing a good job keeping you from masturbating since he too will masturbate along with you on tuesdays and fridays.. or maybe you are trying to sync out each other’s masturbation schedule and routine..
I asked 2 friends to help me stop masturbating so much, nether of them masturbate as much as me . They said that they thought of an idea to.help me, I locked it on and then was told I get unlocked once a week for 30 minutes to wash cage and to masturbate, then I get locked again. I masturbate by myself and clean the cage by myself, then I lock the cage on again and wait another week to masturbate by again.
The next step is obviously for them to supervise the cleaning and replacement of the cage without giving you an opportunity to masturbate. Or for occasional release, they roll a dice each time to determine whether you're allowed it, or it's based on the outcome of a regular sports event. For added fun, they allow you just a couple of minutes privacy after which you have to stop immediately and replace the cage whether or not you'd reached orgasm.
Great suggestion… i hope mr ryan and co will not end up masturbating each other.. stay focus.. ween off masturbation.
My friend got home late last night, I could wait to get the cage off, I was so excited when he pulled out the key , like a kid waiting to open his Christmas presents. I went in the shower to wash, shave, clean cage and jerk one out. My balls were sure relieved from the constant dull ache from being so full. If all goes as planned I will get another 30 minute jerk session on Friday.
Was let out for 2 nights, I masturbated more than the allowed times and I think my friends know even thou I didn't tell them, if course I denied masturbating more than once, so curing my excessive masturbation is going to take some doing, I have to get my head in to it. As soon as the cage is removed my instinct to touch myself kicks in
You should direct your friends to this forum and they'll soon realise they're being altogether too soft with you and the only way forward is three months cold turkey. You don't need to remove a cage for cleaning anyway but learn to clean and dry under the bars.
Getting kinda nervous about classes starting back up, people might discover I have a cage on, but my friends have said cage stays on even for class.
Can I say I am impressed you haven't managed to escape your cage yet if you are not PA locked. I have the worst time keeping my sub caged as even with a cobra he breaks out. If anyone's staring at your crotch long enough to notice id be asking why they are staring unless of course your wearing skin tight clothing.
Almost a month and a half in , didn't get unlocked last Friday as I was away , of course got back today and was told I had to wait until Friday , well only 3 more day guess I can manage
Good for you! So what do you do with all of your excess energy now that you don't masturbate so frequently? Do you workout / exercise more often, play video games more, etc? Have you noticed that you engage in conversations more with other people? What benefits have you experienced?
Must be difficult for you at 19, I admire your efforts, and your honesty to have asked two friends to hold the keys and help you reduce your masturbating. It's a lifelong battle.