alternative names or title

Boy

Miss

 

worm

Domina

 

I'm called by my full first name and not my preferred known as name.

And She who must be obeyed is Lady C.

 

Puppy

 

I am referred to as her "bitch", while I would adress her by her forename

 

I always call my beloved wife by her name, which is Larissa, and she also uses my name Tjeik.

Although we live in a Female Led Marriage, we have never used special words or titles to mark the difference in status between us.
And that is also the case for the other married couples in our small group, who are still living according to the Female Led principles of the small Female Led Community in which we grew up in the 1970s, which I have written about last year on this forum.

The fact that our marriages are female led, on the other hand, is reflected in the fact that all we men have taken our wives' surnames.
My name is Tjeik Callas, because Callas is the family name of my wife Larissa, who is from a Greek family.

Of course I may be wrong; but I think that the need of many men living in a Female Led Family to address their wife and female head of their family with titles such as "Queen" or "Goddess" and the like, and to be themselves referred to as "sub" or "slave" or the like may be due to the fact, that a Female Led Relationship is often something new for both the wife and her husband, and that they therefore need the linguistic markings of this relationship to a greater extent than we, who from childhood have been brought up in a Female Led Community, where both girls and boys were constantly taught about the innate superiority of girls and women, which we therefore find quite natural.

 

90% of the time, she calls me by my first name. Only when we are in the playroom or has me pleasing her does she call me "Slave." When she uncages me and we are have regular sexual relations, she calls me by my first name of "Lover."

 

I like to call my wife “Mistress” in the bedroom and she allows it because she knows I like it. She doesn’t have a name for me. We don’t have an FLR but I have found that just deferring to her on daily decisions and asking her preferences on decisions I have traditionally made empowers her such that she doesn’t realize she’s leading. I have realized recently that FLR is this sense is just being a good husband!

 

My life is much like yours. In everyday life we are very normal, but when I am giving her pleasure she likes to rub my slave necklace and gets into character. It is greatly appreciated.

 

We’re lucky boys!

 

She usually calls me meat in private, or kink settings, or by my name with vanillas. (Actually the name came from the fact I like to cook and smoke meats)

She is Goddess.

 

She is mostly called Madam, sometimes my goddess or my queen, and M where children are about.
I am called pup, cub, cuck, slave, sub, bitch ect, and mainly cub where children are present.

 

She's Queen and I'm slut or bitch.

 

We normally use our names… we don’t do kinky pet names. Think we’d both laugh more than be aroused.
But when she’s relating to chastity and wants to thank me I’m the “housewife”

 

If we on our own I can say Barbara but if we out at some places i have to say Mistress. She call me jems if She happy with me but if She angry its jemima or maid.

 

sissy boy and cucky boy

 

It's babe in public settings. In private he's started calling me a little bitch, mostly in a playful way when making a request of me like 'make me a coffee you little bitch' which of course I do without hesitation.

 

It's really nice to see how many of us are considered and referred to as "bitch" - I always thought it was an extraordinary thing between my sweetheart and me

 

My Goddess prefers the term Bossy Lady and refers to me as her little Piggy. I'm required to oink and snort anytime she calls me piggy which makes her laugh at me and very often she will kick or slap my caged wee wee for her own amusement. I called her Mistress for many many years until several months ago when she decided she didn't like the term and changed it which is of course totally her prerogative. Now if I slip and call her Mistress she punishes me.

 

Miss

and I, of course, am Slut

 

In general:

• Me → Mylady: „Mylady“
• Mylady → Me: „[my first name]“

Depending upon the kind of roleplay which is taking place:

Military:

• Me → Mylady: „Captain“ and „Mistress, Yes, Mistress!“
  
• Mylady → Me: „Private“

Beast/Combat Dog:

• Me → Mylady: [growling]
• Mylady → Me: „Brutus“, „Beast“
  (or any other ‘aggressive’ name; there's no particular name, be assured I know when I'm addressed …)

Prison:

• Me → Mylady: „Mistress Guard“
• Mylady → Me: „No. 138“

Fun (from time to time we're overdoing clichés):

• Me → Mylady: „Herrin“ (German female form of „Herr“ as formal male salutation)
  
• Mylady → Me: „Nichtsnutziger Wurm“ (“useless worm”)

Have fun
c-w​

 

Wow…that’s a lot to remember!

 

Not at all. Rest assured, in the respective situation, this works automatically and quite reliable - the raging beast won't ever go “Mistress, Yes, Mistress!”, neither would the prisoner growl.

cw

 

"Nichtsnutziger Wurm"...?

Aber der Wurm muss doch für die Herrin von einigem Nutzen sein, hoffe ich.
Sonst wäre es Schade...

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