Been practising chastity since July 2021. Been married over 35 years now. The last year has been a revelation- never would I imagine how locking my cock away fir extended periods, stopping masturbating and focusing my attentions on my loving wife would change us. Currently approaching 60 days since last cum for me, unlocked, with only my wife allowed to play with ‘her’ cock. She prefers it out of its cage so she has it to hand whenever she wants. We’re currently in holiday and two nights ago we fell asleep naked after I had used my fingers and toy to give her a nice orgasm. I found myself waking up during the night and fondling her naked ass and pussy as she lay there sleeping. It was so erotic, so frustrating as I nursed a hard on. I can’t keep my hands off her right now- weird, yet wonderful after 35 years marriage. And we have chastity to thank for it. I do worry that I am proving too needy, and suggested she may want to lock her goods away again. But so no far she is happy to have my attentions.
Chastity works.. great feeling seeing the woman pleasured and satisfied while himself is denied yet contended. No other better feeling knowing that she is fully aware of her spoils yet couldnt care less about your lacking.
Better late than never. I've felt for years that chastity is the best thing for a marriage. Most women don't know what their missing by just locking their partners play thing up. Once the Male can't take things into his own hands. The woman will receive all that attention she deserves.
It’s my 60th Birthday today. I have been without orgasms for 63 days, and I kind of assumed my wife would want me inside her and to cum. Instead, she wanted me inside her pussy but told me not to spoil things by cumming. She got off using her vibrator, but she didn’t even feel the need to even touch her cock throughout. I think I have created what I have been striving to create for the last year- a wife who directs our sex life. I think I am going to ask for her to put me in a cage again; that way might stop me having these unfulfilled erections every time we get intimate.
Happy birthday! At the very least, your penis gets a full erection and penetration… that is all that sufficed… dont spolit her mood with messy cumming and viling up her revered pussy..
If my wife no longer gets any pleasure from spunk filling her pussy then I can live with that. We are long past child bearing years. I might ask her to just use her lovely hands to make her cock spurt in future- when she thinks I deserve such release. Then I will have to clean up the mess.
Happy birthday! What a wonderful gift to be permitted to have an erection and enter her divine place, and to be permitted to carry your desire forward. You cannot ask to be locked away from her intimacy because that is what she desires and what fuels your continuing desire, but it may be better to increase her control and your submission by being locked and erection-free outside the times of intimacy.
I'm in a similar situation as you... later in life, etc. But I'm afraid to remove the cage because the temptation to "touch myself" will become too great. And I don't want the embarrassment of slipping / cheating. Has that been difficult for you?
Its difficult- and I do enjoy having erections, but have the willpower to stop before I go too far. When I am at home my wife plays with her/my cock every mornng and every evening. Teasing me hard, but not to climax. When I am away on business I do sometimes play with myself, but know I mustn't climax. The only way my cock gets to cum now is when inside my wife, if she agrees I can cum (once every 3 months or so now) or if she wants to play with it with her hands and see me cum. We do PIV a couple of times a week, but I cannot stay inside her for long; I lie there with my erection pressed against her as she uses her toy and my fingers to pleasure herself. I enjoy being on a high for ages, unsatisfied but with a hard cock.
That's good to hear! I do find that when my wife teases me frequently, the temptations are less instead of greater as one would think. It's when life gets in the way of our intimacy that I start to get horny in a bad sense and my thoughts start to go astray. My wife has told me she doesn't want me touching myself and wants all of my sexual pleasure to come from her. I'm wired now to be drawn to her touch. It does make me strain in my cage just thinking about her!