Just had a Dom ask for money to setup toys

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    Had an account on this page that was 15 minutes old talk to me all night about me becoming her sissy slave. As time went by “she” finally asked for 950 dollars, dont sorry i did not send any money but damn man. This is just so messed up. Any other experiences, like this. “She” had me create a google chat as well. Please any one ease my pain and tell me I am making the right decision to not pay. “She” is also refusing to meet even tho we live “2 hours apart” please help
     
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    She was very knowledgeable thats the part thats confusing, helping with getting cage on and off etc.
     
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    Go with what your gut tells you.
     
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    Im not paying. My heart tho…
     
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    No money..
     
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    If they want money it is not correct
     
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    Sorry you are going through this.

    If this occurred on this site, you may want to give @L-u-c-y a heads-up. She is the owner of the forum and may not agree with this use of her site.
     
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    Thank you for the words, I will see if I can pm lucy but the account is gone that got me
     
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    Hi, sorry to hear that. What was the account name?
     
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    the account vanished and i was too "exited" to even look at the time. I just wanted to let you know that these scammers now exist
     
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    I know, we ban them every day. Not much we can do about it apart from that. It's good when people like yourself report them quickly and we can kick them off before they take anyone's money : )
     
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    I think I also may have run across this wanker, may be 2 in fact.
    The first one the account disappeared, the second not sure have not looked them up for a time.
    I am pretty sure that I can pick them pretty quickly and then enjoy leading them on thinking they are getting another dumb sucker only to bring them down to earth in a big way.
     
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    I was getting message notifications from Chastity Mansion from different mistresses wanting to “own” me. The notifications included off site email addresses I was supposed to contact. Each time I logged into Chastity Mansion to politely reply and point out that I was already owned the accounts had been deleted and the message consequently disappeared.

    It seems like a loop hole for scammers, create a new account, spam members to get off site contact details to solicit money, then delete the account. I’ve seen similar scam behaviour on sites I’ve created. I ended up delaying all messages for a period of time and auto suspending accounts if there was mass messaging from a new account.

    As a Chastity Mansion user I turned off message notifications, so I never see the scam notifications.
     
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    Just recently I had one on emlalock and also tarlings as two separate people. On emlalock she did identify as a fin Domme. She was friendly one day then the next she said that she had no food or money to buy any. I explained that churches have food banks that she could get something from. She said they disgust people like her then heard nothing more from her
     
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    If a new "Mistress" or "Goddess" joins and they have a full face photo as their avatar, it's usually a dead giveaway.

    Quite often they make 3 profiles at a time, when I ban one the others show up as using the same IP address.

    Another dead giveaway is as soon as they join they start messaging male members of the site.

    When I ban them it automatically deletes all the spam messages they have been sending since they joined. Some manage to send 30 before they are banned.
     
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    #16 L-u-c-y, Jun 5, 2022
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    It ticks me off when people play games like that. It does seem like they are getting more audacious as time goes on. Not just here, but all over the net. Spam email, too!
     
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    This is a part of your operation we don’t see. A successful site like this one requires constant attention. Thank you for all that you do to support this community, it is very much appreciated and is irreplaceable.
     
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    Yes thank you. I had no idea that there were that many do it
     
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    SHe's working you man. Cut her loose.
     
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    oh i did
     
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    On a lighter note… you guys are lucky for having attracted potential keepers.. me no luck.. no one wants to own me… ok, maybe only my wife.. just be level headed, dont be vulnerable.. many scammers pulling a fast one out of soft tender hearts of ours…
     
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    Never pay for something you don't want.Even if it is a service.
    If someone asks for that kind of money they are scammers.
     
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