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    My partner and I are fairly new to chastity and I'm just beginning to experiment with him. A couple of days ago, he did a bad thing and I gave him a couple of 'punishments'.'

    Those worked out well. They made his stomach flip and we both found them exciting. I'm just wondering if anyone has tried any other 'scenarios' with a cord or lead tired to a cage?

    I'm not looking for anything involving pain or anything public, nor anything very feminising, but things that would make him uncomfortable but aroused at the same time. For me, this is about sexual control. (See the blog for detail)

    I'd be grateful for any suggestions!

    Thank you, as always, to the wonderful folks on this forum who have, over the past weeks, charged our lives in a wonderful way.

    Sal.
     
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    I’ve read plenty about a leash being fastened to a cage or the lock I also remember a couple of them that a short piece of string was tied to the cage or his member and came out over the waist of his pants so his mistress could give it a tug whenever she needed to. Have fun
     
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    Thanks, that sounds fun, as long as it's reasonably discreet! Sal.
     
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    I should have been clearer. We're not really into feminising him, but quite happy to accentuate me being in control...
     
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    Just because it’s something usually for the female does not mean that you are feminizing him. It can just be for the reminder who is in control or the humiliation of it. That is what the reasons were mostly for on the shopping trips that I was sent on.
    Maybe having to wear a thong or other female panties under his regular clothes or a pair of pantyhose or stockings and garter belt. Things that do not really show but he will feel them and be constantly reminded why they are there
     
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    Ahh, yes. I see your point. Thanks for that. I do really like the idea of constant reminders... I'll experiment with those things you suggest!

    But also... I've talked to other women friends and we've all thought there's something so ludicrously vulnerable about men's balls. (Especially from behind). I'd like to find a way to play on that vulnerability, give me the feeling of control, and him the feeling of being controlled. Having a powerful animal in my power and on a lead... Sal.
     
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    Get a humbler for him to wear or if he is handy with wood then have him make his own for you to use on him. I use to make and sell them also ball crushers are easy to make
     
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    When just the 2 of us are at home, Mistress sometimes gives me "freedom from the cage" for a while but fastening a parachute around my balls and attaches small weights on the parachute to remind me of Her control. Bearing this sort of weight as a move around (if I sit down, then more weight is added and I'm told to stand up) obviously distracts me from thinking about touching myself and reminds me of Her spell that I am under!

    Before She invested in the snap on parachute, Mistress simply tied a shoelace tightly above my balls and tied the weight on several inches below it! Same effect. The snap on leather parachute with the ring for attaching the weight just makes it simpler for Her to tell me to "put your parachute on" which adds to my servitude and Her control.
     
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    I love to be tied bij the cage. My custom cage has a loop welded to the front specifically for this. My kh uses it in many ways.
    She locks my cage to the towel rack in the bedroom while she reads a book in sexy lingerie.
    She locks me to the radiator in the bathroom wile she showers.
    She locks a chain between the cage and her ankle while we watch tv.
    She handcuffs my hands to the cage and hides the keys somewhere and if i can find them in a set time i get some kind of reward.
    She locks a bell to it and lets me clean the bathroom or toilet or do some ironing.
    She locks a chain to my cage and let's me kneel behind the hometrainer and locks the chain to it while she does some cycling in sexy panties.

    Reading your story i think you would really like a humbler.
     
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    I agree! You can get a cheap plastic ball crusher from eBay for under £10.
    There great fun!
     
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    Browse an online adult shop. You'll be amazed at all the options. Many items are very affordable too. He sure is lucky!
     
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    I use to make both items and sold them along with a free other items to fetish shops. I wonder at times who ended up using them. I know that one of the shops did private appointments for well known people
     
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    Thanks. I think that's a little extreme for us at the moment, bit thanks for the suggestion! Sal.
     
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    Thank you! I think a humbler would be too extreme for us, bit I like some of the other ideas. I think the thing he would find both exciting and disturbing would be the possibility of being discovered. Sal.
     
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    I imagine he is completely overwhelmed at the moment, and probably a bit scared of the feelings welling up. Doing an amazing job Sal, keep it up, don't forget to rest.
     
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    I tied a piece of string (masons string) into a loop on the lock on my cage so she could attach a leash to it above my pant line. Then she would take me for a walk through the neighborhood I would put a light jacket on so it wouldnt be as noticeable .
    Another thing I did was to take an old pair of jeans and cut a little slit or hole in the middle of the ass, that way she could tie some string around my balls and run it out the hole in the pants and use that as a leash while we go out for a walk. (the string is less noticeable that if we used a regular leash).
     
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    I like this idea. Why not just attach the leash to his cage and walk him around the house naked. You can tie the leash up to a post if you need to do other things and leave him waiting :)
     
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    We did it that way but found that the clip would pinch me real bad ( actually started to bleed ). Thats why we use some string to make a loop on a part of the cage and attach the leash to that. Much less hazardous.
     
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    Thanks Jake. Really classy behaviour! Not! Posting an unsolicited dick pic to a lady's thread? Nobody want to see that. How about a link to your gallery? So your pathetic flashing is a choice someone makes rather than being forced upon us. Not cool. You are not respectful of women or anyone else doing this.
     
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    As it was mentioned before, attaching a leash directly to the cage somewhere might be difficult regarding sharp edges and pinching, a cock ring with rotatable eye (see pic) is very helpful. It can be implemented at cock base first and then the cage goes on. After that, any chain can be attached to the eye:
    • The obvious: attach dog leash and leading around
    • Eye up and chain to collar. Length of chain determines ability to straighten up
    • Eye down and chain to footcuffs. Also length of chain forces to crouch/prevents standing up. This constellation is close to the functionality of a humbler, but with shorter and shorter chains you will pull back the balls further and further, enabling much of the ball vulnerability play you asked for
    • It's also possible to attach two chains to one footcuff each and let those chains run down each trouser leg, making hidden public play possible
    • If semi-public aspects taken into consideration later: Mylady and me once visited a fetish con and I was made into full leather plaything (boots, laced pants, longsleeve shirt, gloves, hood, collar, handcuffs, footcuffs), of course locked up and additionally that eyed cockring. A heavy metal chain dog leash clipped to the cockring and through the trouser fly outside to be held and led by Mylady. Walked around the con for an entertaining afternoon.
    And big two thumbs up for the “Having a powerful animal in my power and on a lead”-mindset. Mylady and me LOVE to play along these lines. :+1:

    Cheers
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    Thank you for these ideas and for the thumb's up. I'm not sure we're quite ready for these - other than the first on your list - but you've got me thinking! Sal
     
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    my Mistress likes to use a 4 foot lavender cat leash we have. She puts one of the posts from my cage thru the handle of the leash, then locks my cage on me. She then puts the leash around my neck (or thru my collar) and then clips the other end back to the end of the cage. with my hands chained to my collar i can't reach down enough to unhook it, so must go around hunched over until She takes it off.
     
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    A simple thing my Queen used to do was to lock a small chain (actually a medim-large size dog choker collar unlooped) to my cage (using the cage padlock or the one of the guide pins depending on the cage). Then send me off to work or whatever.

    While only a few feet long, I have to look after it everytime I go pee or even move around so it wont be noticed. When I get home she reaches in and grabs the end from where I have it looped over my underwear and pulls me around.

    Once she forgot (?) and left it locked on for a week and I got pretty chaffed up - she hasn't used it since.

    I almost miss it, kept me "focused" 100%...
     
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