Hello everyone, I’m new to this site almost 2 weeks. I’m loving looking around. Thank you for making it available. Love the Captions, One Captions I like because the lady looks exactly like an old neighbor. Blond and very pretty.. even way back then I always wondered about her and if this was something she was into. I can’t verify if it her but so fun to fantasize about. I tried to reply to the caption but have no idea what I was doing. Go check her out on my posts. On to my topic. Well I think i found an online friend who is a friend of an old office friend. I hope that makes sense. We connected and i told not her I’m not interested in an in-person relationship and explained Honor Chastity to her. She said that sounds interesting let’s try it out. This is what I asked her to do. I am hoping for the bare minimum from her of texting or over cell phone of the following She will tell me “Belt On” waits a few days then “Belt off” During this time of "belt on" I am not permitted to touch myself in any sexual manner. Only to bath, go to the bathroom and dressing. When she tells me belt off I am free to play until she tells me belt on again. Very simple! I explained i am totally open to talk during these periods. We had our first “Belt on” on Saturday March 5, 2022. This could be fun or a total bust. I keep you updated. PB
Monday late afternoon I received a text from my new friend she said “Belt OFF, Have fun but not too much fun. “ I texted back can you call me? a few minutes later she called. I thanked her for playing with me. So remember she is totally new to this and I’m not trying to top from the bottom. Just giving some suggestions. I know you are thinking YEAH RIGHT. I ask, next time you tell me "belt on” do I have your permission to edge once a day until you say belt off and then try give myself a ruined O. Immediately she said "Absolutely not, you have not earned that right” I will tell you when and if you are ready for that privilege. DONT ASK AGAIN and hung up the phone. OH SHIT. She did tell me call her Master so I texted her and said “thank you Master” I have never felt so submissive. I’m still in belt off mode. so I will have my fun but not too much fun.
Wednesday my text said “You will not hear from me for a few days as a punishment. You must learn your place. DO NOT CONTACT ME!” hmmm I’m thinking she knows more about this than I thought. Giving me no more instructions. What do you think I should do. No touching. Touch myself all I want. This is a fun start.
Allow her to make it real. When she says belt on, mail her the keys. When it’s time for belt off she mails them back. Just a thought.
Thanks for the advice But my spouse will NOT allow me to have a Chastity Device. So I can’t send the key to someone and walk around the house in a locked device because I would be in divorce court. This is an online person and we are doing HONOR CHASTITY.
I hope you have discussed this with your spouse. And why not let your spouse control your orgasms? You don't need a cage, but the cage does makes it more fun.
He's already said that his wife is "divorce level" opposed to chastity, so she ain't playin'. Therefore he's having a secret chastity affair with his online-only friend.
I didn't see his spouse mentioned in the thread. Thanks for pointing that out. But what isn't explained is why.
Haven’t heard from the new online friend since I think Tuesday to further our Online Honor Chastity . Not a peep. I’m wondering if I offered money to chat. Oh never mind it does not matter. I would have never guessed this Honor Chastity would be so difficult to find someone to play. I guess I could place myself in Honor Chastity for 7 days then ask the wife for a little love. She would tell me no . It would be like Chastity and denial. F - - - - g pathetic You boys who have a playful spouse better take care of them. if not, I will come kick you ass. PB
Believe it or not, but my wife told me she would divorce me if I showed her a cage too. Now I am wearing one 24/7 on her orders. She actually got off rubbing up against my cage this past weekend. It took a few years to get to this point,, but once she found out the benefits she was on board. You just have to be persistent and patient.
My new online only friend has abandoned me after day four. Moving on. I did Honor Chastity for Locktober with an online discord group. We had daily tasks to perform and report. It was very enjoyable and frustrating at the same time. By week three I was beginning to enjoy the constant on Edge feeling I had in the boys. It was addicting. About week three i had a wet dream. I was so ashamed. When I confessed to Lee she told me it was natural . She ended the at the start of November and I miss it. This began the search for someone or a key holding site that allows Honor Chastity. Anyone interested in talking ? Self imposed - I will start a 7 day denial period in someones honor. I will kneel and edge daily for 5 minutes. On at the end of 7th day I will ruin an orgasim while on my knees. then start a 10 day period and so on.
Mr poorbaby.. hows the relationship between you and your spouse..? She doesnt like you being in chastity..? Every relationship is different but does that warrant a divorce..? I mean if she is so serious about it…and you are playing mr jackyle.. will it worth the repercussions? Or maybe you have something up your sleeves.. do tell us.. good luck.
I think you're talking about this post: https://www.chastitymansion.com/for.../best-captions-ever.42062/page-41#post-511565
I hope that you do NOT allow her a Hitachi or any sex toy for that matter. Just to be fair of course.
I struggle to understand how your wife would be in divorce court with a cage yet you are essentially allowing "a stranger" to dictate sex. I get that all relationships are different, but if you can't be 100% open and ho est with your wife? Can't be easy. I would work in talking to her about abstaining from self pleasure to focus on her and her needs, then when she is comfy with that, maybe a device to help you carry on. Don't mean to be judgy, but if a device would send your wife to divorce court, an extra marital relationship where you are having sex controlled by someone else would surely be even worse?
This all seems like such an awful idea, and really does go on to prove that us men think with our dicks.
I'll wager there are significant number of men on this very site who - for whatever reason - are engaging in a chastity control relationship with a Mistress fully on the down low and their sig other has no idea. Maybe they know that bringing it up will only result in a bad situation that once opened, can't be put back in the box. I don't judge, everyone has their demons and tries to find their best path.