Long time visitor. Member for a while. Never much of a contributor. Short story... My wife and I have dabbled off and on for about 15 years. Maybe now will take hold for the remainder of our lives together. Me: A bit of a brat, but turning a corner. Fulltime locked sub husband. Very high libido. Her: Not really a internet person. Low libido wife who is not a naturally dominant person but accepts me for me and enjoys my kink. Been locked for two weeks now. Getting back to a normal. Wife is more than on board and so far very serious about our dynamic; setting expectations and rules. I'm delighted to be a part of the community. Thanks for reading and yes, Wife Queen is watching. ☺️
Hello and welcome to Chastity Mansion enjoy your stay here. You should your Queen to join here she will be able to learn a few things from to help her.
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I share a similar situation, with some differences. We have "played" for over 10 years, but She only did it for me. Goddess' libido is very low naturally, and there's health issues involved besides. Mine is very high. Goddess IS naturally VERY dominant, but She doesn't realize it, and doesn't display her dominance much towards me, and I try desperately to allow Her to realize and embrace Her dominant nature in our marriage. That is a painfully slow, but progressing situation. I am trying as hard as I possibly can to just let it simmer without "topping from the bottom". I'm hoping my situation becomes more similar to yours. I'm craving some expectations and rules from Her, and I'm glad you are receiving yours.
Thanks for the mention and simulacra. It's difficult to not feel as if topping from the bottom with a fairly low libido wife. But life is long and honesty matters. It's about finding the groove and staying out of the rut. Never easy but worth it if her happiness is paramount.