For 4 years my wife and I have been living a chastity lifestyle with 24/7 containment for the last 3.5 years. Chastity is my wife’s way of having total control over my erections and orgasms and to focus our shared sexual pleasure on her body and her orgasms. We have worked together to make my chastity part of our everyday life, and are now at the point where it is a ‘routine’ daily pleasure for us both. As long as I continue to be a good boy and keep her satisfied she allows me an ejaculation on average every two weeks, sometimes shorter, sometimes longer, I never ever know and am forbidden to ask when my next one will be. In a nutshell this is our life. However my wife still surprises me from time to time by making sure that I haven’t forgotten who is in control of my body, and that I haven’t lost my lustful edge and become complacent. We shower together every day, my wife taking care of all caged cleansing, (I’m not allowed to touch myself at all except to shave), and yesterday was my weekly unlocked deep clean. I haven’t had an ejaculation for three weeks and all the signs were good that it would happen last night. Now when my wife allows it she does loves to make me cum, and takes great pleasure and pride in making my orgasms as explosive as possible. So I was understandably very aroused while she was soaping and teasing me like normal, when she suddenly started to masturbate me and looking me in the eyes said “I’m going to ejaculate you now, you’re not going to enjoy it but it has to be done”. What followed was a very hard, very fast soapy wank with her warm wet body pressed against me, until at the point of my release she took her hand away and ruined the orgasm. I stood there shaking with cum leaking out of me and tears in my eyes when she kissed me on the cheek and said “well done you’ve been a very good boy, let’s get you clean and dry, back in your cage and into bed, I’m ready for your fingers darling”.
I do love a ruined orgasm. Sometimes more than a real orgasm. Because it puts me into a deeper submissive state especially when she locks me back up after or even better a ruined orgasm in the cage!!
She’s not usually a fan of a ruined orgasm, but she does like to make me come in my cage. Maybe this is something that’s going to happen more often! I’m always back in my cage within half an hour of an orgasm as we’ve discovered that it stops the post orgasm drop and immediately gets me back in sub space!
Yes this one has really messed with my head as it was so out of the blue. The intense feelings of submissiveness and arousal I’m feeling are pretty mind blowing at the moment!
FWIW - When my Goddess @n2toys first heard about a ruined-o Her response was 'That sounds horrible' - thinking it was cruel. She VERY quickly grew to LOVE ruining me and took extreme pleasure in the control She had and deep frustration on my face as She took me so close to the edge to only rip the carpet out from under my feet. However, now they are fewer as She thinks I've grown to get pleasure from being ruined; guess it's natural as I've not been given a deliberately real-O for just over 3-years.
I am not expecting another orgasm by penis ruined or otherwise. Madame has decided that. Feel privileged. Enjoy what they are giving you.
I despise going back into the cage from the moment I orgasm to at least 48 hours later. There is a clear and definite "macho response" to being caged post-orgasm. If my wife learns this trick, I'm doomed. She may be close to this realization.
That used to be me. I'm learning to get back in faster and sooner, and learning to love it. And learning to miss it if I don't. The other week, I didn't get locked back up, and I really regretted not being locked up sooner. Wasted time.
I would suspect she may already be aware of that. My wife has always been 3 steps ahead of me. She knows my traits and responses.
She has rapidly developed and continues to evolve my training. Its continues to be a wonderful journey for us both.