She never ceases to surprise me.

Discussion in 'Chastity and orgasm denial' started by AlfaMan, Dec 5, 2021.

Random Thread
  1. AlfaMan
    Offline

    AlfaMan Active member

    Joined:
    Aug 24, 2019
    Messages:
    50
    Likes Received:
    132
    Trophy Points:
    33
    Gender:
    Male
    Occupation:
    Designer
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    UK
    Local Time:
    2:19 PM
    For 4 years my wife and I have been living a chastity lifestyle with 24/7 containment for the last 3.5 years. Chastity is my wife’s way of having total control over my erections and orgasms and to focus our shared sexual pleasure on her body and her orgasms. We have worked together to make my chastity part of our everyday life, and are now at the point where it is a ‘routine’ daily pleasure for us both.

    As long as I continue to be a good boy and keep her satisfied she allows me an ejaculation on average every two weeks, sometimes shorter, sometimes longer, I never ever know and am forbidden to ask when my next one will be. In a nutshell this is our life. However my wife still surprises me from time to time by making sure that I haven’t forgotten who is in control of my body, and that I haven’t lost my lustful edge and become complacent.

    We shower together every day, my wife taking care of all caged cleansing, (I’m not allowed to touch myself at all except to shave), and yesterday was my weekly unlocked deep clean. I haven’t had an ejaculation for three weeks and all the signs were good that it would happen last night. Now when my wife allows it she does loves to make me cum, and takes great pleasure and pride in making my orgasms as explosive as possible. So I was understandably very aroused while she was soaping and teasing me like normal, when she suddenly started to masturbate me and looking me in the eyes said “I’m going to ejaculate you now, you’re not going to enjoy it but it has to be done”.

    What followed was a very hard, very fast soapy wank with her warm wet body pressed against me, until at the point of my release she took her hand away and ruined the orgasm. I stood there shaking with cum leaking out of me and tears in my eyes when she kissed me on the cheek and said “well done you’ve been a very good boy, let’s get you clean and dry, back in your cage and into bed, I’m ready for your fingers darling”.
     
  2. starflyer
    Offline

    starflyer Junior Member

    Joined:
    Mar 12, 2010
    Messages:
    1,194
    Likes Received:
    817
    Trophy Points:
    113
    Gender:
    Male
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    UK
    Local Time:
    2:19 PM
    well done to your wife for the ruined orgasm and locking you back up :lockkey:
     
    Surrendered and morgan46 like this.
  3. Bullitt
    Offline

    Bullitt Member

    Joined:
    Sep 8, 2021
    Messages:
    47
    Likes Received:
    131
    Trophy Points:
    33
    Gender:
    Male
    Local Time:
    9:19 AM
    I do love a ruined orgasm. Sometimes more than a real orgasm. Because it puts me into a deeper submissive state especially when she locks me back up after or even better a ruined orgasm in the cage!!
     
  4. Doug Scibor
    Offline

    Doug Scibor Long term member

    Joined:
    Aug 10, 2016
    Messages:
    366
    Likes Received:
    683
    Trophy Points:
    103
    Gender:
    Male
    Occupation:
    Technical
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Atlanta, GA USA
    Local Time:
    9:19 AM
    She is committed. Make sure you don't let her go.
     
  5. AlfaMan
    Offline

    AlfaMan Active member

    Joined:
    Aug 24, 2019
    Messages:
    50
    Likes Received:
    132
    Trophy Points:
    33
    Gender:
    Male
    Occupation:
    Designer
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    UK
    Local Time:
    2:19 PM
    She’s not usually a fan of a ruined orgasm, but she does like to make me come in my cage. Maybe this is something that’s going to happen more often! I’m always back in my cage within half an hour of an orgasm as we’ve discovered that it stops the post orgasm drop and immediately gets me back in sub space!
     
  6. AlfaMan
    Offline

    AlfaMan Active member

    Joined:
    Aug 24, 2019
    Messages:
    50
    Likes Received:
    132
    Trophy Points:
    33
    Gender:
    Male
    Occupation:
    Designer
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    UK
    Local Time:
    2:19 PM
    Yes this one has really messed with my head as it was so out of the blue. The intense feelings of submissiveness and arousal I’m feeling are pretty mind blowing at the moment!
     
    CagedCockOz likes this.
  7. AlfaMan
    Offline

    AlfaMan Active member

    Joined:
    Aug 24, 2019
    Messages:
    50
    Likes Received:
    132
    Trophy Points:
    33
    Gender:
    Male
    Occupation:
    Designer
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    UK
    Local Time:
    2:19 PM
    I think it’s more a case of she won’t let me go…well not for a couple of weeks at least!!
     
  8. CZSteve
    Offline

    CZSteve Caged Submissive to my Beautiful Wife/KH n2toys

    Joined:
    Mar 1, 2014
    Messages:
    493
    Likes Received:
    1,237
    Trophy Points:
    123
    Gender:
    Male
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Arlington, TX
    Local Time:
    8:19 AM
    FWIW - When my Goddess @n2toys first heard about a ruined-o Her response was 'That sounds horrible' - thinking it was cruel. She VERY quickly grew to LOVE ruining me and took extreme pleasure in the control She had and deep frustration on my face as She took me so close to the edge to only rip the carpet out from under my feet. However, now they are fewer as She thinks I've grown to get pleasure from being ruined; guess it's natural as I've not been given a deliberately real-O for just over 3-years.
     
  9. BlokeDenied
    Offline

    BlokeDenied Active member

    Joined:
    Oct 30, 2021
    Messages:
    135
    Likes Received:
    106
    Trophy Points:
    43
    Gender:
    Male
    Local Time:
    12:19 AM
    Oh wow. Don't tell my missus.
     
  10. StubHub
    Offline

    StubHub Long term member

    Joined:
    Jan 4, 2021
    Messages:
    1,773
    Likes Received:
    1,397
    Trophy Points:
    143
    Gender:
    Male
    Occupation:
    Consultant
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Central iowa
    Local Time:
    8:19 AM
    I am not expecting another orgasm by penis ruined or otherwise. Madame has decided that.

    Feel privileged.

    Enjoy what they are giving you.
     
  11. Doug Scibor
    Offline

    Doug Scibor Long term member

    Joined:
    Aug 10, 2016
    Messages:
    366
    Likes Received:
    683
    Trophy Points:
    103
    Gender:
    Male
    Occupation:
    Technical
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Atlanta, GA USA
    Local Time:
    9:19 AM
    I despise going back into the cage from the moment I orgasm to at least 48 hours later. There is a clear and definite "macho response" to being caged post-orgasm. If my wife learns this trick, I'm doomed. She may be close to this realization.
     
    true42 likes this.
  12. true42
    Offline

    true42 Owned member

    Joined:
    Mar 9, 2021
    Messages:
    471
    Likes Received:
    673
    Trophy Points:
    93
    Gender:
    Male
    Local Time:
    9:19 AM
    That used to be me. I'm learning to get back in faster and sooner, and learning to love it.

    And learning to miss it if I don't. The other week, I didn't get locked back up, and I really regretted not being locked up sooner. Wasted time.
     
  13. StubHub
    Offline

    StubHub Long term member

    Joined:
    Jan 4, 2021
    Messages:
    1,773
    Likes Received:
    1,397
    Trophy Points:
    143
    Gender:
    Male
    Occupation:
    Consultant
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Central iowa
    Local Time:
    8:19 AM
    I would suspect she may already be aware of that. My wife has always been 3 steps ahead of me. She knows my traits and responses.
     
  14. borbulls1961
    Offline

    borbulls1961 Madame Vanilla's property

    Joined:
    Jan 30, 2019
    Messages:
    611
    Likes Received:
    509
    Trophy Points:
    103
    Gender:
    Male
    Occupation:
    Almost retired business owner
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    France
    Local Time:
    3:19 PM
    Wow your lady really understands chastity. Lucky guy.
     
    BlokeDenied likes this.
  15. StubHub
    Offline

    StubHub Long term member

    Joined:
    Jan 4, 2021
    Messages:
    1,773
    Likes Received:
    1,397
    Trophy Points:
    143
    Gender:
    Male
    Occupation:
    Consultant
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Central iowa
    Local Time:
    8:19 AM
    She has rapidly developed and continues to evolve my training. Its continues to be a wonderful journey for us both.
     
  16. madams-sissysub
    Offline

    Joined:
    Apr 30, 2009
    Messages:
    6,213
    Likes Received:
    3,558
    Trophy Points:
    143
    Gender:
    Male
    Occupation:
    nurse
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    uk (west mids)
    Home Page:
    Local Time:
    2:19 PM
    same here.
     
  1. This site uses cookies to help personalise content, tailor your experience and to keep you logged in if you register.
    By continuing to use this site, you are consenting to our use of cookies.
    Dismiss Notice