Hi all, Married couple here - Liz and Rob. We have been in living in a FLR for the last couple of years. Taking it slowly at first and slowly introducing more control as we each find our feet in this realm. We are now looking to include a little chastity and orgasm denial into our lifestyle as we continue to explore.
We are looking to explore with a chastity device, any advice for us on a device to try first up? Wanting to explore the journey slowly.
There is lots of good info in the device reviews forum, but in short if you are just starting off and have no prior experience then start cheap with plastic devices. It has been awhile for me personally in this area, but I think the holy trainer fits the bill for a lot of people. Then, if you really get into it then you can look to upgrade to more serious devices. Good luck and enjoy the ride.
Amazon, eBay, DHGate are your friends here. Loads of very cheap devices to try. I’d go with steel, easy to clean, less likely to get smelly than plastic, but they’re so cheap you try a few of different types. Initially you’re just trying to get the right combination of base ring size, cage gap, cage width and length. Amazon.com.au will have devices already in Aus that will get shipped to you quickly.
Thanks, new here, so it is nice to see a local. We are also pretty new to this scene, we have started experimenting a little ( nothing like some of the stories in here) and we are not sure how far we will take things, but there have certainly been a few insights in here we had not considered. Take during these covid times and lockdowns - hopefully this one will pass quick enough.
Well, Today is the first birthday he is going to find himself locked. We have only played with our new device for a couple of hours before, but we are trying for a full day and what better day to start than his birthday? I locked him this morning and sent him on his way (he is an essential worker, so he attends work while the rest of us are locked down). Unfortunately, I will not be able to go out with the girls this evening, as I think that would just heighten the level a little, but I am sure I will be able to tease him this evening. Wish us luck for the day. Liz