Hello everyone. I'm Joe, I live in Sonoma County, California. About a year ago I ran across a video of a woman fellating a man who had a cock cage on and thought it was one of the hottest things I had seen. Finally, about a month ago, I bought 2 inexpensive plastic devices with cheap estim capabilities. Then I ordered several stainless steel cages. I'm doing solo play with a little teasing and feedback from my wife. She is only mildly interested in this kind of play. I'm mostly interested in the different sensations and, of course, the "naughty " aspect of wearing a cage while out shopping or walking the dog. We don't do the keyholder bit, it is up to me but she knows where the spare keys are. I did tell her that if she ever does choose to close the lock she will be the one to open it, with the understanding that I will not be wearing it to work. I'm here to learn, if you will pardon the pun, the ins and outs of chastity play and chastity cages. That's about it.
Greetings Traveler! Welcome to The Mansion!!! It sounds like a change in your behavior related to being in chastity, could possibly show your wife you are deserving of her extra time in this manner! Don't be pushy!!!
Hi, King Hippo. I'm not pushy. She has a fairly submissive personality, so it is difficult for her to do things that seem "dommy" to her. She will sometimes quite literally be shaking if she tries to do something I think I would like but is too dominant an action for her. We've been married over 30 years now, and this is not a side of sexuality that is of great interest to her, other than she knows it would make me happier if she would sometimes play with me as I explore this new-found fetish. Also, she has hand and wrist issues that make it somewhat difficult for her to do things that require much force with her hands.