Emasculating activitys

I think this is one of those categories that continues to evolve as we continue a chastity lifestyle. For me, like many men in chastity, the very first was having to move to a sitting from a standing position to pee. The first time I tried to pee with my cage on I ended up with sprayed clothes and a wet floor. I had to change and wash my clothes and then scrub the toilet, cabinet, and floor.

The next time was when my wife had me pull down my pants to show her girl friend my caged cock. It was humiliating but not as bad as the time when she had her 3 girl friends over for a summer pool party and I had to served them wearing only a white neck collar and bow tie and my cock cage.

Our first chastity party was not too bad, 4 couples and the husbands in chastity with no clothes and the woman dressed while we served them. The only humiliating part is when each wife spent 5 minutes examining the men's cages and commenting on the shape, size, and reaction of the men.

 

Well, it's interesting. We all have different perspective, don't we? I don't think of anything as emasculating, because that would suggest there was an ideal of maleness that I couldn't aspire to but still existed and I'm not sure that's what I want to believe.

What I feel is the sensation of submission. But that's something between me and the person. It's not so much about feeling "less of a man", but more "subservient to her". There is a distinction, I think.

 

Oh my! I would so enjoy attending this party.

 

We went to a museum and Mistress surprised me by attaching a leash to my collar and led me around. When asked she told a guard that she was walking her puppy. That was a mindfuck.

 

Since I began life as a sissy, many of the things listed as emasculating here I have done for a long time, like sitting to pee, shaving everything, carrying a purse, wearing items of women's clothing, wearing makeup, etc.

What I have found to be emasculating is when I have drawn comments from guys about my appearance. I'm talking about being called a sissy or a fag in public by complete strangers. (Tip: never walk by a construction site, auto garage, hardware store, etc., when in any sort of feminine mode!)

I am used to it, although it hasn't gotten any easier.

 

Sure female clothings reminds you that you need a companion to carry your stuff, you are the accessories of your wife who has the cards and al lthe stuff.
Curiously after 3 years I feel like to be emasculated is not a real problem, and penis and balls are the problem. I am now happy of being obediant and sub.
Sure castration and humiliation is a different thing to me, maybe not to all. In fact I no longer consider me as a man, maybe a male but not a male and even less an Alpha.

 

Donna Sue. Do you go out presenting as female? I thought your dressing was all private.

 

Being made to wear little bells on your ears to dinner in a pretty dress.

 

Well i'd probably worry more about being at a party in a dress, altho the bells wouldn't let you forget it.

 

Re: auto garage. One time my wife and I were out, wearing similar clothing, short shorts and tank tops and girlie sandals, etc. I am shaved all over and have small breasts from hormones. Well, our van overheated and while it was still moving we stopped at the auto dealer where her brother worked for help. The whole time we were there I could see the guys looking at me in the waiting room and I could hear them calling me a sissy and a faggot, a pussy and a cunt. Nothing untrue about any of that but quite embarrassing as other people in the dealership were taking it all in. Like you, I am used to it, but still a little tough to take.

 

I must look pretty weak: I often have female workers at stores like home depot or the pool supply store ask me if I need help carrying a heavy object to my car!

 

I have bells on my chastity cage, if my panties are too loose, you can hear them jingle when I move sometumes.

 

Love the bells!

 

Thank you Jail Bird

 

From one who has had bells placed on his belt too. It's humiliating to say the least but I do love it.!!