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    When I started out in chastity one if the aspects I never expected was how emasculating having to sit to pee is.
    The only time I had felt like that before was whilst sewing. My princess can not/will not sew. So the odd time a button had to be put on inevitably I would do it. Now that I'm more aware if the feeling of emasculation I wonder how far it could be pushed.
    Have any keyholders here made their men sew a nice embroidery.

    Has anybody else had similar feelings of emasculation related to other activitys.
     
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    How about learning to see your own dresses? I'd say that might tick a few boxes, and won't your Miss be so proud of you.! Just think how happy shed be to see you wearing it.
     
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    For sure. I'm required to use a serving tray to bring food or drink to my Keyholder Wife and any of Her Friends. That is somewhat emasculating for me, but i enjoy the sub feelings i get from it, so no complaints.

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    I have to say it is hard to feel masculine while shaving and moisturizing my legs and private area.
     
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    I'd imagine serving her friends is particularly humiliating.
     
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    Humiliating is maybe a bit strong, but it does send a clear signal to Them and me of my role. Several are aware to differing degrees of our FLR.

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    Well best get use to sitting to pee. The whole idea is to emasculate & humiliate you so as to form you to what She wants. Even if She could sew why She has you to do Her bidding. I am sure your emasculation is just beginning, before you know you may be in panties if not already. Enjoy it I will even bet you asked to be put in a chastity device.

    MistressS

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    Besides sitting is less of a mess
     
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    I was imagining some kind of serving tray and a French maid outfit. Probably says. More about me than you.
     
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    I quite agree MisstressS
    She does have me to do her bidding. I never suggested she should so the sewing i'm happy to do it. I enjoy having to sit to pee. This is all fairly new to us so who knows what the future will bring.
     
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    its the small things that I enjoy

    when we go out, I hold her purse. when we buy things she tells me to hand her my wallet so she can handle it. she'll order the food unless I want something specific. little things like that mean a lot to me. she doesnt do it to sub me, but to put us on equal levels outside the bedroom, if that makes sense

    inside the bedroom is different of course
     
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    @Mrloched you have not been on here for very long have you. giggle. :)
     
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    About 3 months now I think. I joined about the same time I got locked. My princess seems to like it as much as I do so who knows where we will end up.
     
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    This all sounds very positive-relax and enjoy imo!-x
     
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    I'd say the most emasculating thing was when M and I got together for a session and she told me that she left a present for me on the bed behind the toy duffle. After she went to get ready in the bathroom I was to pick one and put them on. As I approached the bed and looked over the duffle there they were. Two pairs of womens panties. Now I have a never worn panties before but I knew that I was wearing panties that night. When M came out she asked me to stand for inspection and she delighted in my lace pink panties. She had a lot of fun with me and I was definitely in serious sub space. Her teasing was unrelenting.

    When we ended our session she instructed me to wear the other pair when I showed up for the weekend. I did of course.

    I felt utterly humiliated, emasculated and strangely turned on as hell by this experience. However, M really enjoyed seeing me in panties so now I am required to wear them on all dates we go on. Yikes. And I will of course because I am not going to disobey M.
     
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    There is a lot of emasculation with wearing a cage. Acknowledging that someone else has control over your sex organ is so removed from typical male behavior. If required, so is keeping your body shaved smooth, presenting a feminine image. That can be heightened with female clothing. Once you have been put in that mindset, that you are no longer a typical male, even routine things like cleaning, sewing, and cooking can take on an emasculating tone. Especially if your keyholder teases you about being a housewife, or domestic. Although i have gotten used to sitting to pee, shaving my body, applying lotion to keep it smooth, and wearing panties,daily, those acts have become subtle reminders that my cage has allowed me to be emasculated.

    Of course, not every keyholder may take that approach and you may actually feel wearing a cage is more like a stud being kept ready to please. So much of the actual emasculation depends on how your partner, keyholder, or Mistress frames your chastity pledge to them.
     
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    With the lackof pockets in women's clothing, I find that carryng and using a purse to be pretty emasculating. All of the things like using a credit card, finding my keys, change, etc - all force me to think about where I am and what I am doing and why! While a bit humiliating in front of others, it is fun!
     
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    I felt emasculated the first time I was informed I was needed to "fluff"Her Grace's companion (pre- our full cuck relationship). I found it repulsive, just the idea (I do not "sissy up") that she'd go there. Over time it's definitely become less so, but that first time, caged a sucking a cock in front of her, I felt castrated.
     
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    The first time I found myself fully feminized and locked in my chastity cage, on my knees with a hard cock in front of my face. I'd been dressed many times before but never felt totally emasculated until I looked at that cock in front of me and voluntarily took it into my mouth.
     
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    Putting my panti liners in the shopping trolley on our weekly shop. We know they're necessary but it's a ritual line I seem to have to cross each week.
     
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    Yeah. My best fitting cage causes dribbles. After this lockdown ends, I might have to change to briefs with a liner.
     
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    I used to think buying feminine products was embarrassing, but after living with 3 women in the house, i've adjusted. Still buying cosmetics is hard, as i know few women would trust a man to buy such items for then. So if i have to get lipstick, it is emasculating, as it signals it's for me.
     
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    First time in capri pants that showed off my shaved legs. I had a guy say he didn't know they made capri pants for "men" :oops:
     
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    It does make sense, my madam is slightly more dominant in public, she will click her fingers at me to come and pay, or just walk off after placing the items at the till, leaving me to pay,
    Madam always chooses where where we go, and what we do, where we go to eat, and so forth.
     
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    My post was supposed to say SEW your own dresses, not SEE.
     
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    Sitting in ultra getting a makeover when I first was changing. Watching people go by and stare.
     
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