Trials and tribulations

Not really into the spiked cages as a punishment/deterrent, mostly because keeping that area free from irritation and friction burns is tough enough as it is. Adding another irritation or complication would lead to more time healing and out of my cage.

I think it would be interesting to set up some sort of monthly time punishment. Month in the cage for the behavior not wanted, every reoccurrence starts month over.

Glad she doesn’t do that, I’m not big on schedules

 

for my self
such an "announce"' would have no effect


but

i don't smoke

 

Everybody keeps saying “it will only work if he wants it”..... duh. Make him want it!! By pain or by pleasure. Basic conditioning. If he has willingly submitted to you than it just makes sense. If you are not in an acknowledged D/s, where one partner is the Dominant (bottomline decision maker), and one is submissive, then this thread likely won’t apply to you.

 

Chantix can be very helpful. It makes cigarettes taste like licking an ashtray.

 

I used Zyban/wellbutrin to quit. You set a date to quit about two weeks into the future and start taking it. On the date, you quit. It works by reducing the urge just enough that you can say, 'well, i can wait a few minutes'. Those minutes start adding up. I quit on August 28, 2001. Haven't had one since.

Now, my ex-wife tried it, and it didn't work for her. So ymmv. Also, if you're epileptic at all, this med isn't recommended. Or if you are nervous and jumpy to start with it will leave you wired.

Nobody can make you quit but yourself. All the punishments and rewards in the world won't mean a damn thing the next time you're out and someone offers you a cigarette. It's all inside you.

 

Interesting.

 

Dam visitors!!

 

ooh I was gonna say I bet he was glad that somebody come to the house.

 

Anymore updates?

 

Lady Jane Mistress I am looking forward to it. maid julie

 

This sounds more like fiction than anything.

 

Thank you Lady Jane Mistress I look forward to this session. You always keep them interesting. maid julie

 

please Miss i cant help cos it say that its all filled up now.

 

Added benefit of quitting smoking is improved circulatory health which reduces chance of ED improving your enjoyment for when you want to feel him in the flesh. Doctor signing off now, lol

 

What an interesting dynamic! But I have to ask, if you are not in control of your hubby's key and reliant on another for his release, doesn't that somehow diminish the control you have/want over him?

 

Mascara^Snake had an interesting life, too. And he almost destroyed this site. Believe it or not, not very many people are going to believe this story until you get verified as a female. The procedure is easy. Until then, i'll apply the Mascara^Snake jurisprudence.

 

So, it’s not just a fake, it’s a scam too! L-u-c-y is in charge of verifications here, not me. Until then, I'll stick to my guns.