Hiya I'm a 63 yr old trans person I have a reasonably large penis It's about 4" when soft and 7 when hard and quite thick I have looked at the dimensions of cages for a while now and they all look miniscule Only recently bought my first chastity cage A man cage model 3 from Bondara It wasn't perfect but gave me an interesting start I bought it because it was the biggest I could find Took some getting on but once on I was very happy Almost felt like my thing had gone ! When removed after 6 hours there was a lot of bruising It Was a bit scary the next time and my first attempt at sleeping ended in tears Almost literally when I woke with a very painful erection Sadly I consigned it to the bottom of the wardrobe. I am hooked now and a HT v3 maxi was soon in my hands Felt much comfier straight away. The Only issue I had to start with was it wouldn't sit straight The first night I woke with an erection and very dark looking balls I took it off and spent the next week locked for during the day Then yesterday (Saturday) I tried for an overnight / 24 hr lock in I started at 5 am and during the day felt great By the evening it had twisted around but wasn't uncomfortable Awoke about 2 am with a stiffie which after a bit of pacing went away Slept again till 5 when another erection woke me The cage had turned sideways and wasn't comfortable As I type I've taken it off and after a clean it's going back on Still not perfect but better The search continues for the perfect cage
Finding the right cage is tough... finding the right cage with a big penis has got to be a bit tougher! I think the girth in particular being the sticky point. None the less there are quite a few people around here with some monster cocks that stay locked up all the time. So I'm certain you can find something that works o/
I have a small HT V2 and getting it on right is a learning process. Somewhere i heard and tried the "stocking method" which works great and gets everything in the proper place. I found it on the denyingthumper website. You can search and find the information within the site. Good Luck
Back ring size is the key parameter for overnight wear, combined snug cage so things don't get started.
I very much value your input , you are all very kind to offer advice. I shall persevere with my HTv3 for a while. It goes on easier every time and I shall be trying the stocking method. I am thinking of trying a smaller cage to see if that keeps my erections in check The bon4m looks very nice and ultimately I shall likely to get something like that So many choices lol
As @Rectrix said, the size of the back ring is the biggest issue for chafing and night erections. And what seems to be the general experience is the smaller the better as long as your testicles fit through and there is enough room after all in for your forefinger to slip in to the first knuckle, but not much more. The other key thing -- been a *huge* difference for me -- is lubricating your scrotum before sleep (I also do in the morning to reduce chafing and pinching at work during the day). Folks recommend lotions, silicon lubes -- I've tried several but have settled on one of the frequently recommended options: baby oil gel. Protects the skin , provides lubrication and stays slick for about 12 hours. Been improvement in comfort. I'm 24/7 and have experienced almost no discomfort for the past month since switching to the baby oil gel.
Had a few days off but am locked again since 8am until at the earliest Monday morning. Have stayed with the HT Maxi for now. Have lubricated everything and changed to a slightly smaller ring 48 hours seems like forever lol
Jenny, glad to see your last message that you're locked for the weekend. I have some experience with the Bon4M, see my pics. I found it effective but a little heavy and card conceal and exercise with. Experience shows smaller is better. Check the inexpensive Chinese steel cages, get several with slight different sizes and test them.
Well that didn't go great. About 5am this morning I awoke to a slight erection which as usual made the cage turn a bit. Usually I'd undo it and straighten it up. I'd locked the keys in a key safe and set the chastikey app to 48 hours so tried to straighten it in situ Somehow the whole thing came apart. I'm left with the lock in the shaft bit and not willing to come out without a key The problem is the jaws on the base ring have widened I'm assuming as I bought the thing of ebay for £45 it wasn't a genuine Holy trainer device Have seen some metal ones on ebay so might buy one of those and maybe use the metal ring with the pink plastic shaft . If they fit together For now tho I'm locked out of my chastity device Didn't see that coming
That is an ironic problem, @jenny_smith_tg : being locked *out* of your device! From your description it sounds like the base ring is hinged? If so, definitely not a genuine HolyTrainer: their base rings are not hinged.
I had an issue with the jaws or forks on the ring spreading over time with applied pressure too. The bio-resin material softens when warm, or at least becomes pliable and easily deformed. It is the nature of the material. One of a few reasons I moved away from the HT2. So, it is not just you.
Ahh, by “jaws” I thought you meant a hinged ring, but now I’m guessing you meant the “jaws” that join the two pieces, where the lock goes. Never mind!
Well I've ordered no 4.. It'.s a holy trainer v2 in stainless steel. It will be smaller than the current HTmaxi but should be ok They look similar to the v3 so maybe the v3 maxi cage will fit At least the backring will be stronger
No experience myself, but I have read reviews that said the steel copies are heavy and pull down or slide down easily. I also read that it is important to inspect the inside carefully, as they can be rough or poorly finished.
Yes I'm a little concerned about the weight and rough edges The HT is so much comfier than the others I tried it's worth a gamble I think Hopefuly have it tomorrow and try it out
Well the new stainless steel Holy Trainer arrived on friday. It's a little smaller than the v3 maxi but fits OK. The first walk of the dog and the extra weight became clear. Not painful but a full day will likely result in some aches. The biggest difference is how it feels. Unlike the plastic ones I've used to date it really feels like I couldn't escape without the key. I shall be getting used to it for a few days with a view to spending next weekend locked.
https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B01INDESLW?psc=1&ref=ppx_pop_mob_b_pd_title A good basic cage and one I wore for months. A bit long for me, but was fine for even long term use.
Well nearly a year since I last added to this thread. Time flies. In that time I pretty much gave up on the long term idea. Today tho I took delivery of the cage that Nicoftime recomended albeit the smaller one. Never let it be said I'm a fast learner. So far it has been comfortable, peeing is easier and cleaner and it coped well with an erection situation. Fingers crossed
Thank you all for your kind words xx So far so good . 60 hours without any real problems My boyfriend is coming on Sunday so will try to last till then and let him unlock me If he wants to