Man did I eff up.

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    So I was out of town working this week and got back last night. She unlocked me, gave me the blue pill of wonder and proceeded to tease me and edge me on and off for hours. She wouldn't let me touch her body or kiss her which was really unusual and it drove me nuts. It was finally bed time. Often times, she likes me in while she wands herself and last night was no exception.

    I've learned how to pace myself to please her (as it's really rare I get to cum). Judging by her breathing, she was about a minute away and the battery died in the wand (those things last months). I offered oral services but she slapped my face and told me to get in the closet on my knees. She was pissed and I guessed I was going to get the crop. Sure enough, she came into the closet (it's a large walk in) and I got quite a few hard ones. She then took the crop at the back of my head, pushed gently and said 'face on the floor'. My ass was in the air and face on the floor. She'd apparently put heels on because the next thing I knew, she was digging the spikes into the bottoms of my feet. That was new and hurt quite a lot. Still, I was unprepared for what happened next.

    "One of you jobs is to make sure that never happens again." Then she kicked me hard in the balls from behind. She'd done that before in kind of a 'funishment' way but this was different as she was mad. I went down on the floor and that resulted in a flurry of riding crop swats and her saying 'get up, your getting more'. She repeated this three times and I was dying. 'If this ever happens again, I wont stop at three. When your able, fix me a drink and bring it to me.'

    I lay on the floor for a few minutes, found the wand charging cord and brought her a cocktail. I sat next to her while she watched tv. She didn't say a word for about 1/2 an hour and then, reached over and started edging me. This went on for awhile. She finally stopped. She said, you're not going to touch or see my body for at least a week. When we go upstairs, put your cage back on and kneel by the bed until I'm asleep. Then you may get into bed.

    Although it really hurt, the whole thing was amazingly erotic and had my heart beating fast. To think this is where we got to after a couple years is really amazing. I will, however, remember to charge the wand monthly and may buy a spare. Getting kicked that hard in the balls, especially without seeing it coming, really hurts.
     
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    I think you need to charge the wand weekly, just to be safe.
     
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    W/we bought a second wand of the same exact model so that one is always charged. Totally worth the investment.
     
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    Funny, something very similar happened to me a few months ago. My wife - out of the blue, which is unusual - was indulging my bondage desires. She had told me to go tie myself up in the bedroom and leave out some appropriate toys. I did so, and tied myself down really well. She was going to leave me to stew for several hours and come see me later. I had left out her Hitatchi wand, nicely plugged in and draped across my body. I guess in some of my thrashing in the bondage, the plug came loose.

    So when she came upstairs, found me and the wand and proceeded to try to use it, it didn't turn on. She was *not* happy about that, as I found out seconds later when she proceeded to use her favorite crop on my exposed and naked - and totally tied down so it couldn't move very much - body. Ouch.

    But damn was that a fun day.
     
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    Oh sure. Now you tell me!!
     
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    Well you never asked!

    Seriously though, it took U/us until this year to figure this backup wand thing out.
     
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    Sorry I just need to ask as English is not my native language and I don't get it:
    What is a wand?

    Piet
     
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    This is the original -

    https://hitachimagic.com/hitachi-ma...MIrqeX_Z-G5QIVCf5kCh0nIgYBEAAYASAAEgIucPD_BwE

    There are many variations. We use a small plug chargeable variety so no wire. Great for female orgasms and edging in the cage.

    Going to invest in a second one ASAP after reading this.
     
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    We have the original with a long cord. Doesn't need to be charged, never runs out of juice.
     
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    Never, ever, impede the orgasm of a dominant woman. Ever.
     
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    This is giving me ideas. My favorite clit vibrator died when we made love a few nights ago. I let him use another bigger vibrator on me, instead of punishing him.
     
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    I don't feel good about any of this tbh.

    Seems like a massive step too far
     
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    I trust you will know what to do next time...

    Or, make sure you use that incident as a reason to exact the needed "reminder", with the force required, to ensure you will be fully pleased at all times. As you should be.
     
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    Personally, ball kicking is not for me. But plenty of sub guys seem to like it. Assuming that they have done ball kicking before, the whole thing seems like a hot and effective scene.
     
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    same as yours but my KH seems alot cooler, and I solve that problem with a power cord and the magic wand being plugged also one already died in a middle of her orgasm and she was quite upstet at that time...
     
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    Sounds perfectly normal to me, you should of checked it as soon as you got home! And my madam is also a big fan of ball busting, it’s one of the only times she will unlock me.
     
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    I wonder how much pressure balls can take. My Wife likes to slam her feet into them.
     
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    Too right. I always ensure BOTH Goddess Sabrina's wands are fully charged at all times.
     
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    I don't think you effed up. And I agree with @MWilspoonsBunny:

    Please be careful and state your boundaries.
     
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    After that kind of treatment I would have lovingly tied her to the bed, placed the wand with brand new lithium batteries in the most tender of her spaces and told her I would come back when the batteries died. My opinion is she went way overboard unless you had agreed to that before hand.
     
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