Greetings! I have recently been locked up. it's going great, but there is an issue... I could actually slide my penis out if I wanted. Now, I really don't want to do that; But I would really like to be *totally* unable to escape it without my Dom's control. Do you have any advice? I am not sure if I am allowed to post pictures, which would probably give a better idea of the problem. Thank you very much!
As you can see, it hangs rather low... I could pull my penis up when flaccid, and it would be out of my cage.
Is my penis or balls too big? The cage at an incorrect size? I really have no idea of what I could do here. EDIT: Sorry about the double post, my mistake. I'm still very new to forums.
But with a smaller cage, more of my penis would be out, wouldn't it? Like, only half of it is isnside the cage right now; with a smaller one, most of it would be 'free', and pulling it out would be even easier, wouldn't it? :s
You need the ring to be small enough to hold the cage nearer to your body but not cut off blood flow did you measure your penis when completely flaccid
Not with a smaller cage and a smaller ring! Truth is though I think you will find it virtually impossible to get 100% security without a piercing.
I'll see if I can purchase another smaller ring for this cage model then. I haven't measured it, actually. My dom already had a cage, and put it on myself.
Oh? Well, that's not good to hear... I really want to be trapped no matter how desperate I get to be released. Out of curiosity, what is the 'safest' kind of cage you have experimented with? Piercing aside.
Here it goes As far as I’m concerned, you buy a device that will be only long enough for you to be completely flaccid, no room to grow. The ring size should be tight enough where it is in no danger of it slipping down. The length may be an issue for you since you are huge (grumbling jealously). Truth is, even though it seems contrary, the more room you give it to grow, the more it can. This pulling the ring down and tugging away. Reality check, without a piercing you can pull out the back. There is a device called the tetherspout but to me it seems way too premeditated, and would cut down on spontaneity. Not to mention it involves inserting something into your peehole. There are devices that incorporate a tube that also inserts into the peehole, which would make it more difficult to pull out but not impossible...and again it is inserting something in your peehole. Fact is, chastity devices are not really orgasm proof, more like orgasm resistant. You can get a nice one that will eliminate erections, and by in large keep your privates locked up. Even mine could be drilled out if I felt daring and didn’t worry about injury, and mine is a piercing cage. I would concentrate on getting one that fits, and trying to keep it on for awhile before geo too into inescapable.
Well, the Well, the cherry keeper with the headlock is one I am locked in on holidays. You can have a custom size if you want. They are pretty secure (80-90%). I'm normally in a Queens Keep which in its supplied state I can escape from easily. However I have made a small plastic piece which attaches to the post and fits inside the cage and reduces presses down fairly lightly on the top of my penis. If I try to pull out it pivots slightly to prevent me getting out! I also use a smaller ring behind the cage ring as well (I'm sure I've stretched). This all helps. I could probably get out if I was very small and it would hurt a bit but when "normally flaccid" I can't escape!
Is that piece of plastic you made something that could be bought? I am not a very handy person... Thank you for your elaborate answer, tough! Thanks for complimenting my penis! Sadly, it isn't ready to be used now~ I really wish they did made big cages. I feel like men with large penises (like me, I think?) show even more devotion when they are locked up; they restrain their naturally large tool for their Dom, isn't it beautiful?~
+1 If you really want 100% security, then a piercing is the only guarantee. Took me 20 years to figure that out. Dont make the mistake I made by not getting it done sooner. It wasnt half as bad as I thought it would be and being locked via the PA is everything I had always hoped chastity would be.
Assaid your ring is to big and the cage is to small, you could try a cb curve, but I think a custom cherry keeper would be the way to go.
Ring and cage are too big... and if you don;t have one get a PA then any one of a number of PA padlocks that exist.
I'm about 9 inches-the bon4 large works for me-it haven't attempted to pull out for a loooooooong time and can honestly say it's not an issue anymore-a most unsatisfactory form of play and if memory serves me correct if you pull out and masturbate, the cage will rub during the act and damage the skin
I had a stainless knockoff Chinese cage I could pull out the back of. With lube or water nothing chafes skin. It defeated the purpose of chastity for me, as well as ruined the fun that is giving up complete control to my wife. Incan sympathize with the OP struggle. I don't want to masturbate but if given the oppertunity and being denied for many days or weeks, I Will tell myself I'm just going to edge myself, but usually end up blowing it. The Lori 2A I wear now has stopped that. I have yet to hear of someone pulling out the back and getting back in without their KH knowing about it with this new cage security ring. I probably would have quit chastity without it as I lack the will power to honor system it.