What age were you when you first heard of male chastity devices?

Yes, late 1990s for me too, and finding Altairboy’s site, but even before that there was Tammad Ramilia’s “Chain Links” site.

Fascination with chastity goes way farther back for me though. I remember seeing a so-called “medieval chastity belt” in some tourist trap museum during a family trip to England as a youngster. Even though it was supposed to be made to lock up a Lady, I thought a lot about what it would be like for me to be locked up in it.

I also remember thinking about how to make locking underwear for myself at around 11 or 12 yo, and over the years I bought a few gates of hell type toys and tried to make my own chastity devices long before I actually bought my first cage.

So I feel like chastity would have been in my life somehow even without the internet, or being able to buy workable devices. It would probably just not be as big a part, which would be a shame.

And yes, I think it’s kind of weird too!

 

I discovered male chastity by chance in way back in 1979 when I was shown a copy of Janus.

 

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I remember sometime in my mid-teen years sticking my junk into the toe-end of a stocking and tying if off nice and tight with a shoelace to compress everything down into a tight little bundle!

When I saw my first 'proper' cock-cage, that memory and a whole host of others, real world sexual experiences, fantasies etc all suddenly began to click into place and make sense.
And I'm like 'Yeahhhhhhhhhhhh..........OK then'.

Definitely!

 

Early 90's. I was in my mid twenties. Don't recall exactly how I learned about it. I do know that my very first ever device was home made. Eventually the CB2000 came along and we got one. We continued to dabble off and on over the years and upgraded to different devices along the way.

 

Approximately,45 years old Mistress.

 

I heard about chastity devices when I was 25 or 26 years old. This is 18 years ago. I thought they were for real losers, stupid men and those who didn't have any kind of personality. Until one year ago when I saw the news on tv so I started to think diferent about them. I don't have one right now but in a few days I hope to start this adventure.

 

I can't dismiss the possibility of vaguely knowing about them beforehand nor do I remember the exact time but I'd say it was probably around when I was 22~23 that I first really knew anything about them.

 

Was the cb6000 out 12 years ago? I think not but maybe I'm wrong

 

SOJ. I remember signing up for membership and paying dues for a while. A great (back then) source of information but then, as I remember, different factions with the leadership had opposing ideas which led to infighting and some sort of pissing contest and alternate factions within the group.
Gee, that was 40 years ago.
SS

 

I was a late starter at 52 years old! Happened by mistake! Was looking for pictures of my old motorcycle from when I was 17! Instead of CB 200 (Honda) I put 2000! Soon as I saw what a CB 2000 was I forgot about old motorbikes and searched Male Chastity instead! I was immediately hooked and it didn't take long to "have the conversation" with Mrs Chaste! And the rest as they say is history!

 

Aged 13-14 on porn sites, about 14 years ago.

 

I was 18 already, but not much older. My college girlfriend sent me a fictional short story about a man’s year in a chastity belt.

She may have found it before it was reposted to alt.sex.stories, but I’m not sure exactly when. It was sometime between 1993 and 1997.

"The Chastity Belt", a fantasy by D. Glenn Arthur Jr.
Copyright 14 April, 1993

It is archived here:
https://www.asstr.org/files/Collections/Alt.Sex.Stories.Moderated/Year1997/272.txt
And on AltarBoy’s site:
http://tpe.serve101.org/altarboy/chastity.htm

I had fantasized about having my cock pierced and fitted into chastity before we were married. I also fantasized about saving up and driving to one of the USA chastity belt manufacturers to get fitted. I worked out and lost weight and was as slim and fit as I ever was just to be ready. But I was too scared to be pierced. I was too poor to get belted.

I was a young man in my 20s and very much addicted to porn. I needed control. I craved it. But I never got it. It negatively affected my schooling and my relationship with my fiancée. At that time I needed what @L-u-c-y advocates.

I also conflated male submission with being feminine at the time. I tried out wearing a corset and stockings. At the time I could pull it off. Being young and slim helped.

My wife-to-be liked and still likes my thick ass and thighs, my thick lips and long eyelashes. But I’m now a masculine male sub for her.

I am a bit wistful about turning back our physical clocks and playing with the wisdom and experience we have now.

I shed the trappings and unneeded requirements. But the idea of orgasm control never left my mind.

It took me a long time to get to where I am now: pierced and locked and keyheld.

I finally got to finally be myself, and be owned, and be a “good boy” and not touch myself except when told.

It’s been five years now of me living the more realistic aspects of my fantasies, and I’m very grateful.

I think today’s environment is so much better. Access to inexpensive devices. Access to communities accepting the diversity of various experiences. Access to safe piercing information.

It will take some time before questions like this make me a bit sad for wasting my youth not getting what I truly wanted and needed.

If I could have been belted or pierced and locked during our engagement I would have been ecstatic. But I appreciate it more than I would have them. I would still be a somewhat selfish young man, confused about what real submission meant.

 

In 2009, I was 35, I did a search on “ sexless marriage”. I was looking for a cure for the missing intimacy in my marriage. I saw something on male chastity and something clicked. I could get her involved in my sex life by doing nothing more than acknowledging and controlling what she was already doing.

I read all about it, I researched devices, figured out what my measurements would be, and came very close to asking her to do it. In the end I figured that she wouldn’t really get into the spirit of it, and would just use it as an excuse to ignore me. It came down to me not trusting her.

I ended up letting it go, but had told myself that my next relationship would be one I was honest about what I need. She gave it a try and wouldn’t give that key up for nothing!

 

I heard of them in my 20s so 15 years ago maybe? I do remember the first time I got one after fantasing for years, I clicked the lock and came immediately. Lol!

 

Just over a year ago, about the time i turned 69.

 

I was in my early 30s at a CFnm tea party. The host was in a CB2000. At the time they had just come out.

I thought it was crazy. Little did I know it would get in my head so that I had to get one a few months later. After that I’ve played with chastity on and off since.

 

For me the first mention of a chastity belt was Robin Hood: Men in Tights. It came out in 1993 so I was 7 or 8 when I saw it. I don’t know if I was aware of the stereotypical medieval chastity belt at the time or not.

I remember the Daily Show interviewing the creators of the CB2000. Not sure what year that was, maybe 99 or 00?

 

probably when I was around 30 or so. But really did not start trying things out until my mid 50's. 63 now.

 

I heard of them about 4 years ago out at the renaissance festival.
about 3 years ago i started to give them serious thought.
2 years ago I bought one & started learning.
1 year ago I bought a better one.
now I can't go back.

 

16 years ago at the age of 41 while reading amateur fantasy stories written by women for their husbands. In the story, the wife, frustrated with his chronic self servicing, secured him and punished him with repeated forced orgasms induced with a vibrating egg strapped to his johnson with the results tube-fed directly to him. She went off for several hours and upon her return, finding him totally spent, introduced his lifeless member to his first cage while informing him that from then on, this was the only manner in which he would ever be permitted to orgasm. I. WAS. HOOKED.

 

early to mid 20s.

 

I first heard about them when I was in my teens, but they were references to (and pictures of) Victorian era chastity devices made of copper and looking like under developed watering cans- not exactly something to stoke the imagination, and they had to be visible under clothes from a mile away. The first 'kinky' male chastity devices I saw were a few years later, CB2000/3000 style.

 

6 years ago when I was 13

 

I was about 29-30years old when i was first locked and i guess it was back in -05. But when i first heard about it i can not remember it. Of cource i had seen some old school stuff from past centuries but the modern devices came familiar to me propably after millenium. If i only have a time machine...

 

3 years ago when i was 50. Is that to late?