To Those Who Wear a Cage

No. I’ve tried and miss the cage too much

 

Her magic wand was such a big temptation when we started with chastity and I used to edge with it, sometimes going too far. I felt like such a guilty cheat, so I finally trained myself not to touch it, I knew I couldn't be trusted to stop. I still see the cord there, but I try to look away. Magic wands are for goddesses, not chastity boys.

 

The practice of erection control is important to us as well. It's not just because I'm a masturbator. We find that free erections mess with my head, they get me out of my submissive zone, I start thinking about penetrating her and get all alpha.

 

i agree

 

I would be miserable

 

with chastity device, no erection, no Masturbation.if penis free, and have erection, tentation to masturbate too big. better a chastity device,and wife/Mistress/Keyholder decision for uncaged and allowe orgasm,sex or Masturbation. if caged for 100 days, more plesure for a day, is more important to enjoy that.

 

My wife is not a real fan of the cage, she tolerate it but prefer the honor system, also I am always at home under her view and never alone anywhere even in toilet where I let the door open.
Masturbating in secret can be done but will be quite hard.

It's sure the cage is a must for who have tryed it and loved it. It arouse you all day and remind you who is in charge at the same time. It is like a permanent caress on you sex without the erection.

The hardest is when you get used to the cage and you get off of it you feel a little depressed because you have no longer that sensation and when after a couple of week you get it is is harder to get back in.
But the rules are the rules and I have to follow her will and wishes.

 

Well, yes, of course. A very high percentage of the married guys who are locked are locked because their masturbation habit interfered with their intimacy with their wife.

 

if Person is uncaged, wish a orgasm, by sex,oder by Masturbation. at one erection,is normal to do something, for orgasm.need a big selfcontrol not masturbate..or a Cage... the wifes will, the contrat with chastity, wearing a chastity device, can make Focus at wife, not having orgasm uncontrolated.sure,is Question of time. 1, 2 week?1, 2 month? wife Need to a orgasm...to Little is not efectiv, too much (a year) is not good too

 

No idea really but it was my Lady that made one of the terms and conditions clearly stated in our as yet still unfinished contract that I wear a cage at all times unless directed otherwise. And should I be told to remove the cage and leave it off I should replace it if 24 hours passes without any instruction to keep it off.

Also me not being locked makes it extremely difficult to adhere to our no unauthorised erection rule which generally means none.

So I think its very unlikely we will be reverting to the honour system.

 

I would try it, But would ask for some kind of physical reminder of my status to wear on my cock during the day.

 

In my mind chastity and the cage go hand in hand . If I was taken out of the cage I would still be good, But I would feel naked without the cage on.

 

I enjoy anal and nipple self stimulation (short of orgasm) but not ball play

 

My Wife(KH) rubs and squeezes my balls all the time when I'm locked in my cage. The odd time after a T&D session, she just leaves me on the bed and gets up. I have tried in desperation to masturbate by using only my balls. She will just sit there and watch and laugh at me for trying. I get so close, but have not had a orgasm yet. She teases and cheers me on. It's like when she makes me dry hump her leg or ass, she gets a kick out of watching me try so hard with no results...