My husband joined this site a week or so ago looking for more information for us regarding chastity. We had tried it a few years ago on and off with a plastic cb6000 device. He wanted to try this again, so he ordered a few different inexpensive devices to try and now we are narrowing down the specific type that will work best. Sizing of course has been a process as well. Now it's my turn to catch up in the forums and have a chance to learn a bit more about this. I was interested when he brought it up to me, but was hesitant. We have dipped our toes into this with having him locked up a few nights last week while testing out the new devices. We even ordered some of the sizing rings from one of the bigger sites to help. Any initial suggestions for a very new key holder? We aren't 24/7 yet, and who knows where this will take us. But I'm going into it with an open mind. Of course, he may regret introducing me to him in chastity and then joining this site.
Welcome to the site and I think you and your husband will find a lot of info and views here. And hopefully your husband will regret it
Welcome to the Mansion, I hope that You find Your time here rewarding and informative. Looking forward to seeing Your involvement in discussions here.
Welcome and if he regrets it keep doing it lol he will learn to like it! Good luck with everything and it nice to see that You have an open mind going into this and I hope You reap the rewards You and him can have as a couple
Welcome, great to have another couple here. The reason guys are warned to be careful what they ask for is that he learns it's all about pleasing you, you get to use his kink to make him a better more loving and emotionally available husband. If get get Verified you can join the Keyholders forum and speak to other women without the chaste boys interrupting.
Welcome to CM. If your mind is open then you're already utilizing the first piece of advice I'd give you. Keeping communication just as open will help you both understand each other. Staying honest with yourself and your husband will illuminate your individual and/or mutual wants and needs in ways that might surprise you. Chastity comes with responsibility for both sides, but it can provide infinitely rewarding experiences. Best of luck to you and yours as you start this journey.
Welcome, and I'm sure if You joined the very brilliant Verified Female group, You will find and enjoy much advice and support.
Welcome! My advice is to try and ignore the idiots. Unfortunately the Mansion is not immune to them, and no doubt some will be begging to be your loyal slave, for you to lock them up, telling you their way is the only way, to feminise your husband, cuckold him and a never ending flood of other nonsense. The way you do it is the right way. You might do all, some or none of the things you are advised to do. It is up to you. I would suggest you have a look at some books. My Wife enjoyed and benefited from the ones by Georgia Ivey Green, but even then she took her advice and modified it to fit her own neds and desires. My final suggestion is to take your time. We have been doing this for three years and my Wife has developed into a very effective Keyholder, but it took her six months before she even realised she was enjoying herself and not doing it just because I asked her to. Actually I do have one more final final bit of advice. Have fun!
Welcome! My one big piece of advice would be when you let him out for release, if it's been a while, aftercare is essential. Cuddles, connection and intimacy for a little bit. He will have a dopamine crash and without a little TLC, it can lead to a depressed mood for a day. Happened with us the first time and caught us both completely off guard.
@Key Barrett - you mention aftercare and a crash. How long were you locked before release and then experienced this crash? We haven't made it to 24/7 yet, but there was one 'grumpy' day I had this last week. She had let me out for work, but wanted her pleasure too. But I attributed the mood to a holiday party and a mix of different foods and other work issues.
Welcome to CM! I hope you both will like it here and please join the keyholders forum. The ladies in there have a vast knowledge and are happy to share if you have any questions.