Hi all I am new here and am glad to join your group as my thread title says I married my mistress some years ago and am looking forward to sharing our lifestyle with you in the future I have been in chastity since 5th may 2007 our wedding day Best wishes for now
We started vanilla. She had Domme tendancies. I was always very submissive and doting on her and trying to make her life easier. It was clear who was in charge. I think we were both hiding our ways from each other. I came out and just told her what I was. She was overjoyed. Since then, we have blossomed. We got married and are having a child. We live a full time FLR, Domme/Slave relationship.
I listened, supported her emotionally, helped with errands and chores, told her my feelings, cooked for her and wrote poetry. And I never made any attempt to kiss her until she took the initiative.
Mistress was a professional Dom when we met, I had arranged my first appointment with her and visited her as a client about once a month. After a few years we became closer outside of role play and we often went for dinner or the theatre together as friends without any courtship. Some time later she suggested I became her personal slave , but this I found awkward running a business as well, therefore after many months of trying and discussions we decided that it would be better for me to sell my business and move in with her as her personal slave. This I did but left my business running under senior management informing them I needed to take 6 months out. After that time I felt this is what I wanted and where I needed to be, so in mid 2002 I sold my business and my property and invested about 80 % for later life and contributed the other 20% to the running of the new household. Mistress was financially secure due to her services and this was not a relationship where I handed everything over to her. I will continue at a later date
Like you, I married my Domme - in fact, that's how we got together. She's been my Domme since 2005, but just started chastity a week ago. The change is amazing! I love it, and I'm not going back to without the device. My wife/Domme has a live in boy friend now as well.
Following on from this sorry it’s been some time but have been busy, My Wife /Mistress continued with her Pro Domme services for a few years after we married but has gradually would it down to 5 long term clients who are all well known to both of us now. Most of my life is now spent in a submissive role and I am always locked. Regarding her 5 favourites as she likes to call them when they have a session there is no time restraint and a nominal fee, some sessions can last for a long weekend it is more of a lifestyle now rather than an income which I also prefer. No.1 favourite is into long term bondage and confinement and is the only one who is not in a cab, we have a cellar in our home which has been purpose built as a playroom and contains a very small padded isolation cell , which it totally soundproof and in total darkness No 1 spends most of his time in this cell. No. 2 & 3. are both maids and are both in chastity although their contracts are for monthly release (not always relief) and both are renegotiated every 6 months, No’s 2 & 3 are quite often here together and obviously sometimes as individuals again no time restraint is put on sessions and as a reverse scycology they are only punished for good work. When we have small BDSM parties at the house I usually join them as a maid. As said before we know them both well and have often left them in the house whilst we go out to continue cleaning the house or sometimes they are left under my supervision (as senior maid) and if they then do not perform correctly it is my who is punished. No. 4 is into adult baby , sissy and humiliation which Mistress adores he is also in. Chastity on a year long contract and only has release with relief on the 31st of each month so only 7 times a tear. Mistress has also taken him out of the house and out of the area dressed quite amazingly for public humiliation which normally includes shopping for ladies attire or in a cafe / bar / restaurant where she orders the most weird concoctions for him to eat and drink. No. 5 is the pain slave and endures merciless cannings and extreme cbt. He is also in a chastity but the fools contract is never ending and release / relief is totally at Mistress’s whim . I know that other than visits for his cbt and for extreme teasing and denial he is not unlocked and again I know that he has had no relief now for over 15 months. I hope that this is of interest to your readers and I so required I will update on future occasions Also any questions about our lifestyle please place here and we will answer as truly and honestly as we can Happy frustrated Or satisfied Christmas to you all