Little boys should be heard and not seen

There's always some sort of line crossed when obsession replaces interest...

While most photos I've seen here don't fall into the 'helpful' category, there have been several that enabled Me to make better decisions when first learning about devices.

I've seen cages that looked alright in online shops, then found out they weren't so stellar when photographed by the wearer. I've also seen what a proper fit should look like... And plenty of examples of how cages should never look. Flaws in design and improper sizing are easy to notice when there's lots of evidence. I like to investigate.

I also enjoy erotic photography so it was only a matter of time before cages became a part of My interest in that arena, too. Some chastity cage shots I've seen have been surprisingly artistic. Others... maybe not so much.

I like taking photos of My pet in his cage. Maybe that's just the 'obsessive male' in Me, though...

 

The point that i believe this post is trying to make, yes i am usual always wrong because i am male because of that fact, is obviously this is a chastity site but please why does almost every picture shared her be of yet another locked penis or of a feminized locked penis?

Isn't this a community of endless interests and individuality? Personally i enjoy site seeing and seeing the abundance of beauty of in life and in nature. Something as simple and beautiful as a picture of a sunset you have experienced would be awesome. And a much welcome and refreshing improvement too ........ another locked penis.

 

Dear Miss Lucy,
Speaking from personal experience, I have always avoided improperly revealing that part of my anatomy under any circumstances. However, one occasion I have been asked by ladies (often dominant ladies) to send the photographs of it, or to allow them to take photographs of it. I have complied, but it has often puzzled me why they would desire such photographs. Perhaps as a reminder (or warning) of what could be should I not remain locked?

 

Having a lot of pictures here of locked up penises may seem to be wrong or somepeople but for myself this is the only so called porn sight that I’m allowed to go to so. I personally like to see what others are locked in and how they live their lives.

 

It would be weird though to have a site dedicated to chastity not to have photos of the imprisoned object...

 

... think I got the topic, but I'm still not sure what to say...
As far as I saw it, there is an abundance of locked-penis-pics, okokok.
Think I read it above: where to post them? Lucy might like to see them on pages for "shrimp-recipes", but in the end let's be honest: they should be on a chastity-page!

Can't tell you how much my eyes roll in directions that might be unhealthy, when entering the Chat and ALLWAYS the first question is: "are you locked?"
And I can't describe how much self-control I need not to answer that with lines like "noooo, it's only a rumour" or even worse: "have chosen my Name because it rhymes to velvet asity" or such...

So: yeah, to me it's a "proof-thing", to show that someone's right and willingly on this page, might be a bit of pride to be a member of all this here... and in the end I just had a ittle look and way too many members discussing this here have noooooooooooo pic at all!
This is not Guantánamo, so no one is forced to watch all those pics - so let everyone take the choice!
Guess I got a bit angry

 

I know I and other women find this 'obsession' a total turn-off. Why men do this--unless it comes from a deep, vast, unshakable psychological fixation with their own little peckers--is just incomprehensible. I also know we felt hesitant to join this site because of what @L-u-c-y mentions, incredibly even as CM is about keeping them out of play.

To imagine men would feel compelled to photograph it, share it with the world, and in some cases even risk getting into marital/legal trouble for it--because possibly they think that doing so might be...sexy? I know we're all kinky here, but... men can be much sexier than than.

Faithfulness, devotion, obedience through chastity are sexy to me. Not their little things I want securely locked away--and do not care to see.

 

I get the feeling there is a major contrast in opinions here from the female members of the community.

One thing I do feel is maybe too much can be shared at times. Maybe we need to make more effort to consider how the community would recieve the new pictures being uploaded and does it offer any value over the images previously shared.

It might also be a good idea to take the opportunity to clean up our albums and make them a little more respectable.

Aim to reach a better balence where you only have a few photos to identify the device you lock with for those who might be interested but get away from having what seems like a daily dick pic.

Maybe this would help the female members of the community feel more comfortable and those who want more detailed angles might be more tempted to ask.

 

I don't do penis pix in general, but here is my thought: chastity, and the locking away of the penis, is just another manifestation of man's narcissistic obsession with his own cock. Some men fancy themselves magnificent sex beasts to whom women should naturally bow down; others flash open their raincoats to expose themselves to all; some fantasize about NOT HAVING a penis, at least not one that is regularly used, but that in itself is ALL ABOUT the penis. It's like saying "don't think about an elephant." Once that's said, you can't help but think about an elephant. "Lock up that penis! NOW!" And the penis is locked up. But the man slouching all around all day feeling his cock in a cage is constantly conscious of his cock. (Alliteration, anyone?) Chastity is just a photographic negative of promiscuity. The underlying theme for both is MY COCK.

In the meanwhile, if a man is a good submissive, he'll be discreet about that obsession and concentrate instead on pleasing his keyholder/wife/Mistress. But we all have our moments when the obsession is too difficult to repress. And what better way than the Internet, where one is pseudonymous and can finally post all those pictures of the cock that in real life no one is paying as much attention to as we are?

 

I think what you say here has merit for those not yet either locked and or denied for anymore than short periods ...measured in days or perhaps weeks .

But after consideration I think if you have been accustomed to being locked and denied for long enough the amount of time you spend throughout a day being aware of or thinking about your cock and you being both denied and locked does become much less. Quite often the attention being only for brief moments as a minor feeling of discomfort seeks attention then abates almost as soon as it it addressed. This being especially more likely when you do not have a 'target' or the anticipation of a specified release date.

Acknowledging of course that in either case the amount of time involved would vary for individuals, and of course the number of times a day ones attention may be caused by reasons outside your influence to be focused on yourself and your situation. ie, constant reminders from you KH .