Hi everyone, I’m new to the site and new to chastity. So new that I’ve not been locked yet, though this is something I really want to try, for me and my partner. I’m in my mid 30s, she is in her late 30s and our sex life has run dry. As well as it being a bit of a fetish, I’m hoping that being in chastity will stop me from... lone time... and eventually have her as my key holder, so that she is in control of my orgasms. I want to be a more attentive lover, spend more time doing the things we used to do, and become more intimate. So, all that aside........ Hi
good stuff, you've made that first step into thinking about it. There's lots of advice on here and lots of people who will support you, so keep us informed of how you're getting on. Good luck to you both.
Welcome to CM. A familiar story to a lot of people on here! Chastity may be a useful tool in "getting things going again" but it isn't the whole answer. Communication is the key and lots of it! Having said that chastity can make a difference and can turn out to be great fun!
My SO is a very liberal, open minded person, so I’m sure she will be ok with it. She’s ok with me (occasionally) wearing her panties, so I’m sure this would be ok if I wanted to persue it. I’m going to have a bit of time to myself in a few months, so I plan on buying a device or two which I’ve picked out and see if wearing them is as satisfying as I imagine it to be, and if so take it from there. Thank you for the welcome, I’m looking forward to being here for a while
Good luck! Lots of guys here with the "lone time" issue, including me, and looking to refund their way in their marriages.
My SO has gone to see her dad today, (it’s Father’s Day in the UK) and I just got home from visiting mine. House to self? Straight into a bra hehehe I’m still relatively new to bras, but I love the feeling.