How do you feel about physical discipline?

While I seem to thrive on and enjoy CP, Mistress clearly has no interest. She knows how I feel about this and so, as a weird form of reward, She sends me to a Pro Domme friend of Hers for Corporal Punishment. I go there anxiously knowing what to expect, absolutely hate how strict and mean She can be, but come home a happy sissy. Mistress gets a kick out of discussing my humiliation and misery with Her Domme friend and then relishes in further humiliating me verbally about it. She now holds the opportunity for a future such CP session as a reward for my good compliance and servitude. I guess that you would call that "Funishment" since it is really a reward and not really punishment. It's strange!

 

I've encouraged her to be more free with using spankings as a punishment on top of my maintenance.

I genuinely don't like my spankings; they're not erotic, and the only pleasant part is also the most humiliating: bending over in front of her and feeling my panties being exposed and tugged down. They really do work as a behavior adjuster for me, since I genuinely don't want to be paddled every night.

She also really enjoys spanking me, especially as a punishment, so it's a nice trade off for having a sissy as a husband. She gets to have fun, and gets an obedient girl to serve her.

It works for us, but neither of us is interested in adding more tools or branching out at this time. She is considering spanking me more often, if for no other reason than to indulge herself.

 

My wife's conflicted about it. She tends to think it's not right to inflict pain, but she's also gotten turned on doing it. In my ideal situation there would be weekly maintenance and punishment spankings as necessary. for me, the submissive effect is intense, the knowledge that 'today is a maintenance day' and waiting for that to occur very humbling, and real consistent enforcement of her rules (instead of just saying, for example, "you're late") would really assist me in becoming the chaste submissive husband I want to be. In our real situation, they tend to happen about 15 times per year, consistently for a month and then not at all for two months for example. Her implements? Ebony hairbrush, a tawse, three different paddles, a belt, etc.

 

My wife was hesitant for similar reasons, but good communication helped us. I assured her part of our trust was me telling her when she went over the line or the like (aftercare basically, but without the insider terminology), and part of my trust was in giving control to her, and that if she enjoyed it she should get to keep enjoying it.

It helped a lot once she noticed that I wasn't bruising after a regular maintenance session. Now that she can tell she's not doing real damage she's relishing it guilt-free.

 

well i glad i dont has maintenance spakings cos i dont like having them. But i only has one if i have done something that i shudnt.

 

Yes, this is why knowing *when* it's going to happen is so important for us submissive husbands, ladies. The knowledge of forthcoming discipline and the forboding drives me into sub-space.

This is important for me. Frequently my Mistress will punish me right after I've bathed and pleasured her. The temporal connection to pleasure blurs the feeling that what is happening is *punishment* and that it has been *planned" and is entirely distinct from whatever is going on with my libido and my throbbing caged cock. The submission and lesson-learning is greatly enhanced when those lines are not blurred.

 

When I told Princess that I would accept CP she replied that she would never whip me or deliberately inflict physical pain (I guess nipple pinching and ball pulling doesn’t count).She said it wasn’t who she was but also said that she was afraid she might not stop. Yet, on another occasion, she said she “might whip me a little “. To date, I think punishment has been limited to extensions of locked time but I can’t be sure since release has always been strictly at her whim.

 

Mrs Chaste likes me naked apart from my apron (and cage of course). She gives me a task to do (dishes, ironing or hoovering) and supervises me with a cup of coffee in on had and crop in the other. She administers short sharp swats as I go along! Apparently I have a lovely ass. She's not really a dominant type but it adds a bit of fun to getting fairly boring chores done!

 

My wife does not believe in physical discipline but I believe that it often is an effective tool in reinforcing submission and would happily be spanked.

 

Must admit it is fun. Mrs Chaste likes to stand behind me and rub between my legs with the leather tab on the end of her crop. Heaven or what! As I start moaning and getting excited she stops and sometimes delivers a swift swat to my bum!

 

It may have been a coincidence but my lovers who had prominent backsides all loved being spanked during sex, the harder the better. They all enjoyed anal as well.

 

My wife/mistress enjoys thwacking my ass with a riding crop and my balls with a wooden spoon. I like the crop on ass but not so much the spoon on balls. Marks on my skin never linger for more than a few hours so she is firmly gentle...most of the time. I love being submissive to the intense authority she wields when she is in the mood to spank me.

 

I have an old wood hairbrush, a tawse, several leather paddles, a belt I use specially for discipline and a cane. My fave is the most effective, though, the Brown Spanking Paddle. I use all these in combination with other things for physical discipline. In fact, I think I might have found just the right combination to get him to stop looking at pornography and masturbating, or at least get it down to even less than what it is (and the Brown Spanking Paddle has gotten it down pretty low).

The last time I was here, somebody mentioned ballet boots. I got him a cheap pair on ebay, ankle high and with locks. I had him model them for me. What was funny is he managed better in them than the 6" heels. Still, he said they were worse on him than the 6" heels. I got him to the point where he could actually last about 30 min in them. Then I put everything together. I found some pornography on his computer, so I decreed a disciplinary session. I told him he only had to be waiting in the corned for 15 min before I got home, but IN HIS BALLET BOOTS. He made it. I took another 5 min after I got home to get ready, but, since I knew he'd be in the ballet boots, I had my girdle and long line on already. I just had to take off my skirt and blouse, change my shoes and fix my make up.

I called him out of the corner, had him do the usual curtsey ritual and taking off his dress and petticoats (he had a hard time doing a curtsey in the ballet boots, but he did it). Then he stood in front of me, and I pulled down his panties and attached the loopy thingys to his testicles and the wires to the chastity cage and started to zap him while he was standing. He had a hard time in the ballet boots while he was getting zapped. Next, i tied some twine around his testicles and added some weights and zapped him some more. He was begging me to stop, so, of course I asked him if he wanted a spanking, instead. At first, he said he didn't, so I zapped him until he was begging for a spanking. Then I asked him what implement. He suggested a few, which I rejected with zaps until he begged for the Brown Spanking Paddle. I made him beg several times for it while I zapped him.

Finally, I took off all the wires and the cage and had him bring me the Brown Spanking Paddle with the usual ritual of him kissing it and asking me to use it on him. His makeup was already running and by the time the spanking was over, it was more like something from a horror movie on his face. He ejaculated four times, so he swallowed alot of ejaculate and got four tawsings in addition to the spanking. I gave him 15 more min of corner time in his ballet boots before I sent him upstairs to SIT at his vanity and fix his makeup. I had him put on his maid dress and give me sissy maid service until it was time for bed. I told him he could change into his 5" heels to do the sissy maid service.

He hasn't looked at any pornography since then. I think the combination of the Brown Spanking Paddle, the weights, the zapper and the ballet boots are helping me to my goal which is no more pornography and masturbating for him. Of course, now I'm going to have to make some new rules, so I can still spank him and lock him up.

 

She has straps, tawses, paddles, canes and even uses Her hand. Depends on Her mood which implement or implements and how long/many

 

You are a very strong disciplinarian. Anyone would be crazy to look at porn or even touch himself without your permission. Others would kneel before you.

 

my Mistress has just got a paddle for me. it hangs up on a hook on my bedroom door. im glad She hasnt got all them things that other folks on here has. specially the big brown one.

 

My Queen uses either a heavy leather belt , or a doubled length of cable from the cable to TV
My photo here is me having been freshly whipped with the cable for my Queens enjoyment . Not punishment or training this time .
After such a thorough whipping I am soaked in sweat ,and collapsed on the floor at her feet ,thanking her for using me for her pleasure .
I never feels so submissive as after a good whipping , it brings such peace to me . I know I don't have to think on my own , but just obey ,and think of ways to please my Queen.

 

I just read a post where a certain amount of strokes are given, and the sub. is told how many he will get.
I had that years ago , and found it much easier to grimace and know the end was coming after the count was reached .
My Queen never gives me a number, but just starts whipping me furiously . No time for me to recover and catch my breath for the next stroke.
I can't stand the pain, and after a few strokes I jump away begging for no more ,( my Queen loves this because she orders me back on the stool and I immediately jump back on) for my Queen it's the power she has that she enjoys so much as she forces me to jump back onto the foot stool and be whipped some more , knowing I'm in extreme pain.
As for me I love the feeling of knowing I'm going to be whipped in a few minutes, but when the cable lands I'd do anything to have it stopped, once the whipping is over I'm so very glad to have been whipped as my whole body and mind are at complete peace .

 

I find it is what I need to be at peace with the world ,and myself.

 

Weird the way that works.

You look forward to the whipping....until it happens, it hurts like hell and you want it to stop. But it doesnt take long after it is over to be looking foraward to your next whipping.

 

I've only ever been spanked. I find it more humiliating than painful particularly given I'm decidedly bigger than my wife and when I'm stretched across her lap it must look ridiculous. It only happens as punishment when I've been slack with the chores though sometimes it's done to humiliate me in front of others. Once my wife started on me when my sister was visiting. My sister thought it was hilarious and wanted a go. That was awful, I have to admit...though it has become easier as the years go by.

 

I am caned or paddled weekly or anytime my Wife is not happy with my behavior. If i talk back or if i try to be macho or if she is not happy with how i clean the house, she bends me over and canes me 10/20/30 times depending on her mood. She will also slap me pretty much every day, sometimes just because she feels like it or because i am misbehaving or not obeying fast enough.

 

I have a love-hate relationship with corporal punishment. A few years ago I gave my Mistress the gift of a small, thick, wooden paddle. If I could time machine this act away, I would.

There is no-enjoyment factor for me about this paddle because of the concentrated impact it delivers. It just square hurts and is basically unbearable. (Imagine being kicked in the shins.) For these reasons, my Mistress kind of likes it.

I would not say I enjoy corporal punishment, but I do find it cleansing and the thought of it is highly erotic. During a session, the world, your problems, all neurotics, etc. get washed away. In the end, there is a pride factor in getting through it.