Hello I am a new member. I have always been submissive, my wife has used a chastity device on odd occasions as a discipline tool, she as now fitted the device and told me that I am now permanently chaste and that she will look after me and keep my prostrate healthy but no more orgasms for me. Whilst I believe this is her right and that she is superior to me I am finding the thought of my situation hard to deal with. I would greatly appreciate some advice from both sides of the fence. Thanks
As an experienced sissy, I think that your situation will improve a whole lot when you are able to think more about Her pleasure and satisfaction than about your little clitty being locked up. Since you are a Maid, I would expect you to be enjoying your femininity and her direction and control and those thoughts will soon dominate your whole being - then your being caged will be increasingly less of an issue. Just submit and concentrate on being Her maid! it sounds like She will let you know how to best please Her! Enjoy Her control!
Based upon your manner of speaking and your tone, i would have to agree with @DonnaSue. You have lots of room for growth in your new role. Focus on your wife's pleasure. You migjt be surprised at what you learn.
Thank you DonnaSue, I know you are absolutely right and I want to serve her to the best of my ability and will once the dust settles and I come to terms with my new role. Thanks again.
Hi, Thank you for your reply, I do have a lot to learn and I love my wife dearly, and I take your advice on board, I will and also feel compelled to focus on my Wife's pleasure. Thanks
@DonnaSue and @SaraLovesChastity wisdom and advice is very sound. Be strong and brave and serve your Wife well and remember your station at all times. Be a remarkable sissy.
BTW, @Maid Diane , I love your avatar! (I hope that it is an actual picture of you!) You appear so feminine and ladylike, sitting there properly with your skirt tucked, knees together and heels in place. So very lovely! It was a great shot idea! Your Mistress should be proud of your feminine deportment!
Thanks to both of you for your much needed support, love my wife and I am going to do what you have advised. Many thanks.
Hi DonnaSue, It is a picture of me, I didn't know what do so this was her Idea and she took the picture. Thank you for your kind comments on my appearance, I do my best but it is mainly thanks to my wife she knocks me into shape.
Welcome @Maid Diane You & your wife's journey has brought you to a wonderful place! I mean that as both 'here' (CM) as well as leading the life style you two have chosen (FLR). My wife and I have been together for 25 years and all of it has been FLR, TND & OD. For us its a deeply rooted way of life - not just a way to get our kicks. Although to be honest, at some level I suppose, that too is part of our symbiotic relationship. Ultimately though - it was me getting my head wrapped around the fact that it IS all all about her pleasure. I mean really believing that ... and living that. But then, as a submissive, its safe to say you probably get this. For me, giving is the gift. And the more I give, the bigger the gift (and as it ends up, for both of us). So many good people here! So much wisdom being shared! Enjoy & feel at home.
Hi El Guapo, I am very grateful for your support and the support from DonnaSue, SaraLovesChastity and Mandynjack. I have been married for 30 years and consider myself truely blessed, the only arguments we have had have been promted by me, because I felt that I was been taken advantage of because I was submissive without any input from my wife,I am sure she would agree. My wife is going to sign up herself so she will be able to make things clear from her prospective. Over and above what I have already posted, for over the last ten years my I have not been allowed to defile my wife (her words) and she is always on top, I have been conditioned by her to the point I can't even on the odd time when given the chance. I have had to ask permission to leave the house for many years and chastity was used as a short time punishment. Moving on I did all the measurements myself with digital calipers (wife helping) for this new device that I am wearing I am now told is to be permanent. I can honestly say apart from the emotional and psychological aspect I don't know I'm wearing it and this is why she's made the decision it is to be permanent. Being submissive I know she is superior to me and take on board all the kind advice, but I am finding it hard to accept that I will never be allowed to cum again, I can't help feeling like I am hopelessly clinging onto a melting pad of ice in an ocean of female dominance. I hope my rantings make some sense. Many thanks, Diane.
Hi Allen1987, I am in good hands and my wife is the love of my life, I want to focus on her but I am apprehensive of what the next level will be. Many thanks, Diane.
@Maid Diane Thanks for elaborating. Sounds like you have a great attitude about life & wife. It will be nice to meet your other half when she joins. My wife/Mistress is not into the social media scene. [Actually - this is the only place I have joined.] I get what you're saying .. I too would like to know her plan. We all can get lost in what the future may hold, I suppose. For me I find that when I live in the present, the future takes care of itself. [I know, I know - easier said than done.]
Hi DonnaSue I am Maid Diane's Mistress. I just wanted to say thank you for your kind words. Diane does have a feminine posture and has learnt the refined ways of being a maid. Everything has a place including her. Glad you liked the picture it is a good one I agree and yes I am proud of the continuing improvement I am getting from Diane as my sissy. Regards Madame S