Dating in Chastity

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    My Mistress, after having locked me in a titanium chastity cage, a BA-25 badassworkroom with an internal gland retaining ring from which it is impossible to escape, agreed to let me have dates (Tinder).
    Obviously the cage will not be removed, but she has decided that if he finds a woman who will accept the fact that I am caged, I will be able to go out and date her.
    What are the chances that having organized the Tinder dating, once the crucial moment arrives, the woman accepts me so caged and lets herself be satisfied with other means (tongue and fingers) without running away?

    Do you think she will run away? Will she think I'm crazy? Will she laugh?

    How do you think I could explain my condition without making it strange?

    How can I explain my condition?
     
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    Enchained 24/7 Chaste Slave

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    Simple.

    Just put it on your Tinder profile.
     
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    i'm afraid i could be banned then
     
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    Just be open about wanting a strong lady who wants a devoted servant. Presumably the goal is for Mistress to hand over the key? I wouldn't put it in the profile. But I would bring it up if sex was on the table first date, or before or on a second date.
     
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    You could try using an app or site aimed at those with fetishes/kinks instead of a vanilla one.
     
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    I did exactly that - saying I wanted a strong lady. And that I liked the control of a woman and a disciplined lifestyle. Not all the respondents got it but at least one did and I have been with her for 15 years now. She has been very willing to lock me up and discipline me with her cane.
     
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    I'd be allowed to date in chastity, but I would only be dating within the scene, as it were
     
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    Why would they ban you? Do they explicitly prohibit fetishes on their platform?
     
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    Do you know some of these apps or sites? Please tell me....
     
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    Some of the dating websites do ban kink, enforced erratically
     
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    I'm in a similar boat. I have a spare key that is protected with a numbered lock, so my keyholder could see if broken. That way it could be opened in an emergency.

    If not, you could just explain to your date that you're experimenting with an 'orgasm fast'. Most girls would be somewhat OK and supportive of that.
     
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    Yet another example of the universal stupidity.
     
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