My unexpected life

This so has to be commented on

Now if my wife came in and said this to me I would be all over her like stink on dog doodoo. Unfortunately if I say something like this I can already see the look I would get and the good swift kick to the backside I would receive. LOL

While it is no doubt how I feel sometimes and is also what we sometimes need I chuckled when I asked Goddess/Wife what her reaction would be. Too funny, I nailed it.

Anyway today seems like the gates of communication were opened back up and that was great! We had lunch today and even sitting in a public yet quiet place had a really good conversation. I can't say whether I wanted to strangle her or kiss her though. She admitted that once she got to a certain point of staying away from sex she just got more annoyed with me and my advances and then intentionally withheld which in turn made her grumpy and annoyed at everything I did even when I was not really doing anything wrong. Now these being her words I thought to myself mmmmm a good but whooping is in order here. LOL In all seriousness it is hardly that everything is fixed overnight as there is still a lot of emotional stuff to dig through on my part but she and I both know that and came to some really good agreements on what needs to be done to try and fix some things. I having no patience just want the old Wife back with her new self because honestly she is hotter than ever!

 

Thanks for stopping by Lori67 ( I think anyway) Not sure if your post was intended to say hi or advertise so giving the benefit of the doubt I appreciate you saying hi.

Not a lot to report today the whole family is now dealing with a stomach virus giving each of us a little sick time. Talk about crappy luck. I am just grateful we all made it through our vacation first. At any it is hard to report on anything as almost no one including me is on the mood for any talk of sexual things much less the physical side of it. LOL

got out and cleaned up the devices today though as I am gearing up to try a self induced lock up time just to see if that helps curb my own mindset. Seems my appetite is all ramped up lately and nothing and I mean nothing is helping with that. the only time it seemed to be under control is, well, when I was under control if you get my drift. I know some would argue that it does not take a device to maintain self control but I am hoping it helps.

Well that is about it for now catch you all later.

 

Good morning everyone, or Goodd afternoon to my UK friends! At any rate while today does not bring anything overly exciting to write about I got my first sense of "this is what I have been trying to tell you" recognition today.

Driving my wife to work this morning and she made mention of an article she just read in Parenting Magazine It made mention of how kids behaviors can be derived from the parents relationships and that the parents should make sure they put their marriage first so the children can learn from it. I took everything in my power to not yell "ARE YOU FREEKING KIDDING ME?" But even though I had a little slip up I made sure to keep the lines of communication going as this is really what I have been trying to say for months now. I think as a couple it is so easy to forget about this principle that we inadvertently sabotage our personal relationships. When we talked about this article it was like shining a spot light on the fact that we are guilty of this and need to fix it. I am so elated about this that for the first time in years I am glad she reads those two hundred magazines a year!

Anyway it is not hard to see why there is little energy left for this lifestyle when everything else comes first. for that matter it is easy to see why there is no energy left for us as a couple sometimes when you add in two careers that are very demanding followed by three kids who are also very demanding. Good grief no wonder we are tired all the time hahaha.

Anyway that is about all for now, please feel free to share your thoughts this in and of itself is an interesting topic for me.

 

One Hot Lunch!

Thanks everyone for chiming in. Our two kids are 5 and 2 and as far as sleeping through the night well I guess it depends. Most nights they are out like lights but other nights it seems they conspire before bed so that each of them gets the opposing hour shift. LOL

Thanks Mistress on the comments about motive, and I guess you are right. I just wish that article would have come earlier haha. I do wish we could get away for a couple nights just the two of us. The crazy thing is for most it is hard to do for financial or job reasons. With us we could do something fairly easy it is just that our resources of baby sitters who could and would keep the kids over a weekend are slim to none. Most have amazing families who would do that for them but not either of us. While close in nature the first thought of giving up their weekend for someone else and it is like turning on the lights in a factory, all the mice scatter.

On a very positive and scary note we had an amazing lunch together today. The wife and I went out and for whatever reason we both are pretty wound up today, in a mood sense. In the middle of lunch we got talking talking about that crazy cheese that comes in the cans that you can spray over crackers. Me being the typical male today made a comment about how to use that on her body. She said no to much cheese would be sickening etc etc and this crap about getting all sticky blah blah blah. I laughed and and after some banter she said no if I am going to get sticky then it should be caramel or chocolate. Somewhere in this thought as I am still processing that image in my head she gets this big and I mean HUGE grin on her face, blushing slightly, says I got it! I am obviously very puzzled and intrigued by now. She says the next time I have you locked up after a few days when I know you are good and worked up I am going to blind fold you completely and have you lick various items of food off of my nipples. If you get so many right you get out, if you miss to many you stay in. Talk about instant movement in the lower regions. Then she starts going through all these ideas she could do to make it worse on me and luckily or unluckily the waitress shows up to take our order. Here I am flushed in the face and not even thinking of getting out of the booth in my dress slacks! She looks at me after placing the order and says I think I am back!

Now wether or not she really is I guess remains to be seen, but since this is a site of sharing ideas I had to put this one out there. If anyone does this before me let me know!! Of course if I get home tonight to find a device on my pillow I will know I might be in trouble again. Especially since she has been tanning and looks incredible right now!

Well back to the grind. Take care everyone!

 

Thanks Mike, right now it was just talk but it was fun none the less. Tonight I got home and she said she had a wonderful idea for an ending to the original idea but would not say what it was. I think that means I have to go under lock and key to find out if I am daring enough. I will wait a little longer to see what she really thinks about the idea but it could be answered soon I think.

 

Not much new on the horizon today but I do think things are getting back to normal, well depending on how you define normal. Goddess/Wife is getting her spunk back. Her mind has a bunch of ideas that she has not shared with me for obvious reasons but she just keeps telling me she has something in store and when O am done I will have something to write about.

As I will be out of town most of next week I guess it is safe to say I have some time that insures I will not be in lockup. Seeing how she is having her period this week her mood in that regards is shot and with it goes her mindset so things are safe for now but it does look like the tide is turning. I am going to do all I can to not influence it one way or another. If it is going to happen I want her to want to do it this time.

Thats about it for now as I am preparing to shoot a wedding tomorrow so I have to go for tonight. Later everyone.

 

Well my four day trip to Minneapolis is finally over and I am home. Talk about a long four days, wow. The crazy thing is on the way home I ended up having to stop at this hotel, which was built in 1999. Very clean and new looking on the outside. So I go to check in and the room I walk into has mirrors from floor to ceiling on three of the four walls. All I could think was hell no a porn movie room! LOL It was a nice laugh for a long four days.

I am at home now and so far nothing to write about. I have not brought up the comment she made to me before I left about being in lock-up so I am not sure where her mindset is nor do I want to push anything right now as it was such a great homecoming I dare not rock the boat in anyway! Catch you all later.

 

Thanks Mike and great idea. Although I should tell you about last night first.

We are laying in bed and of course I am all worked up, and this in itself is odd because as I am dealing with a spasm in my back right now the pain is killing me yet I was still in the mood. Perhaps it is the fact that it has been a while. Anyway I think she is wanting to do the chastity thing because as we are laying there she was talking about all this smack talk she does. Then she gets this grin about her voice as says she has an idea. Since I want a release ultimately she wants to watch me get myself off. I was obviously put off by the comment thinking we should be making love but the banter goes on.

She pulls a number out of her head 12. I asked what that was she said the number of days you will be in chastity the first time around. Of course I smile and say first time she says yes because when you are done we will reverse the numbers to 21. Now I am intrigued and ask then what? She says then we double to 42, reverse to 24 double to 48 and reverse to 84. There she stops and starts that giggle. "Wow that is a long time hu?" I was like YOU THINK? good grief the scenario on top of the length of time it has been since I have so much as relieved myself had me all worked up. Then that little devious mind of her that I love so much kicks in. Here we are joking in bed about to each fall asleep and she gives me the test. The test is I have three minutes to get myself off right there in bed with her watching. If I fail I voluntarily go into lockup and her terms kick in for the length of stays. Before I can even offer a rebuttal I hear that familiar take it or leave it. I took it! About a minute into it I can tell she is getting off on this immensely and I say come on lets share each other and she says two minutes left. It was so damn odd yet so damn hot that I never even made it to two minutes, thank goodness for the longer dry spell so to speak. Being a little put off because I was able to finish the tasks she grabs her rabbit to see if she can beat my time. LOL I am like what the hell let me help at least. No dice she finishes in almost the same amount of time because evidently I had her as worked up as she had me.

Not exactly sure where that leaves the chastity play but I guess time will tell. I would voluntarily go in on my own as you suggested Mike but truth is we are smack in the middle of a family drama AGAIN and with our work schedules I am afraid we will have a repeat. I know I need to learn to think positively about this but I don't want to get into that situation where I can please her n matter what, I am locked up, and then the resentment kicks in and we are a mess again. This is where the mind submission must come in and I know that, but it is the hard part. I think in a way it is the reason I am waiting for her to hand me the device and tell me to put it on. Then I will know she is ready. Of course that scares me with our conversation last night. All she kept saying was I was in so much trouble. So I do believe she has some ideas this time around. Well back to work time I will catch you all up later on what happens this weekend.

 

Mike you so crack me up! I will make sure she does not talk to you or I will surely be in trouble. LOL I am actually impressed and freaked out at the same time with this game she came up with. Of course the long periods will surely be my demise. How she came up with this is beyond me but I am not complaining. Today I joked and said something stupid about her holding a key to someone else and then she could see who could hold out more. It was intended to be a dumb joke and she went nuts over the idea. It is odd this roller coaster ride she puts me on sometimes.

Well enough for now I need to tend to the little ones for now. :anim_26:

 

Ok between your wine and my bud light with lime, send the key darn it. I will pass it along, but don't say I did not warn you! LOL

Oh hell now I did it. I can see the long list of letters coming in to my PO box! LOL...hmmmmm side job for her, now there is a thought!

Later you crazy guy!

 

the ideas keep coming I swear. Goddess is definitely getting her groove back a little, well at least in the smack/small talk. She had already made some reference last week to while I was in lock up making me lick various foods off her nipples while blindfolded, and if I guess enough right I would then earn a potential release. Well now while watching her favorite food network shows she out of the blue jumps up and says we could call the game iron chef for the Lori device. I just laughed.

Speaking of food, we had the distinct honor of getting a new outdoor grill today and I was like a kid in a candy store putting it together. It is a five burner with single side burner for cooking an additional entre. We have been trying to get this crazy pice of crap 9 year old grill to work for so long we finally decided it was time to say gift to us. Of course this conjures up additional thoughts from her that was just a giggle. Thank goodness the 8 foot privacy fence only goes 80% of the way around the yard. I can see her making me cook out there now in the nude. LOL Well probably not but she is thinking something I am sure.

Not much else to say today, I am looking forward to the three day weekend. Although I had a wedding to shoot yesterday today an tomorrow are definitely going to be cookout days! Take care everyone.